My girlfriend read my messages

Byrnzie
Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
edited January 2013 in All Encompassing Trip
My girl told me this week she doesn't want to see me anymore. I lost my phone down her way a couple of weeks ago, and someone found it and handed it in to her. She then read my txt messages and has told me she doesn't want to see me anymore.
Any messages to other girls were made before I met her - about a month and a half ago. She hasn't told me what it was specifically that upset her - I still haven't gotten my phone back so I can't see. But WTF? Is she being unreasonable?
I'm a bit gutted.
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    How old is she ??

    She sounds a little immature to not tell you why ?

    If the text messages were from a month ago she can check the dates on all of them
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    How old is she ??

    She sounds a little immature to not tell you why ?

    If the text messages were from a month ago she can check the dates on all of them

    She's 23.
  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    How old is she ??

    She sounds a little immature to not tell you why ?

    I agree...
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She's 23.


    How long have you been dating ?
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Brain of J.Lo wrote:
    I agree...

    The thing is, I know there were messages on there telling a couple of other girls that I thought they were lovely e.t.c, and just the usual flirtation stuff - and there may be a message to a mate of mine bragging about how many girls I met when I moved to Seoul - but this was before we'd met. So I don't know what her problem is. I mean, why would such stuff bother her?
    Maybe she is just being immature...I dunno.
  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    Byrnzie wrote:
    My girl told me this week she doesn't want to see me anymore. I lost my phone down her way a couple of weeks ago, and someone found it and handed it in to her. She then read my txt messages and has told me she doesn't want to see me anymore.
    Any messages to other girls were made before I met her - about a month and a half ago. She hasn't told me what it was specifically that upset her - I still haven't gotten my phone back so I can't see. But WTF? Is she being unreasonable?
    I'm a bit gutted.

    Insist on seeing her immediately, then show up at her place unexpectedly (immediately). Sound deeply concerned but not angry. When she opens the door walk in, then begin to scold her as you drape her over your knee, and administer her a firm spanking (removal of clothing is optional at this point, and at own discretion).

    She sounds a bit the jealous type and is probably over reacting. You deserve an explanation at the very least.

    It could have also been the pornographic nudie pics I sent you....my bad.
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    How long have you been dating ?

    Only about 6 weeks.
    She told me she loved me a couple of weeks ago though. She was even talking about moving in with me up here in Seoul. It felt pretty serious. Maybe she's just over-reacting and will calm down after a few days or so.
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:
    Insist on seeing her immediately, then show up at her place unexpectedly (immediately). Sound deeply concerned but not angry. When she opens the door walk in, then begin to scold her as you drape her over your knee, and administer her a firm spanking (removal of clothing is optional at this point, and at own discretion).

    She sounds a bit the jealous type and is probably over reacting. You deserve an explanation at the very least.

    It could have also been the pornographic nudie pics I sent you....my bad.

    He he! I wondered if there were any dodgy pics on my phone, but I'm certain there aren't. Only one of her naked - which she knew about already and consented to.
    As far as getting an explanation from her - she's not answering her phone now, and hasn't responded to a few e-mails I've sent her.
    I'm gonna give it one more try this weekend and then let it go. But I'm gutted - she's gorgeous. - http://a369.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/18/l_199d25af359c74dc105414fa4cbb09f0.jpg
  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    is it bothering you at all that she read your personal messages?
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Lizard wrote:
    is it bothering you at all that she read your personal messages?

    Not really. I mean, I think I'd do the same. It's kind of normal, right? We're all a bit nosy, aren't we.
  • Poncier
    Poncier Posts: 17,924
    Byrnzie wrote:
    she's gorgeous. - http://a369.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/18/l_199d25af359c74dc105414fa4cbb09f0.jpg
    Nice rack...















    ...holds a lot of wine bottles. :D
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Lizard wrote:
    is it bothering you at all that she read your personal messages?


    I was thinking that as well


    Note to self delete all text messages :p
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Note to self delete all text messages :p

    I should definitely have done that before. I won't be making that mistake again.
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Only about 6 weeks.
    She told me she loved me a couple of weeks ago though. She was even talking about moving in with me up here in Seoul. It felt pretty serious. Maybe she's just over-reacting and will calm down after a few days or so.


    Yeah, she seems like she overreacts

    Moving in after 6 weeks ?

    I think her emotions get the best of her
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Yeah, she seems like she overreacts

    Moving in after 6 weeks ?

    I think her emotions get the best of her

    I have that effect on the ladies! ;)




    Joking! :)
  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    Byrnzie wrote:
    He he! I wondered if there were any dodgy pics on my phone, but I'm certain there aren't. Only one of her naked - which she knew about already and consented to.
    As far as getting an explanation from her - she's not answering her phone now, and hasn't responded to a few e-mails I've sent her.
    I'm gonna give it one more try this weekend and then let it go. But I'm gutted - she's gorgeous. - http://a369.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/18/l_199d25af359c74dc105414fa4cbb09f0.jpg


    She's probably just in a mood. She's a cutie, I was hoping for the naked pic though... heh

    She'll come around.
    Progress is not made by everyone joining some new fad,
    and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
    over specific principles, goals, and policies.

    http://i36.tinypic.com/66j31x.jpg

    (\__/)
    ( o.O)
    (")_(")
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:
    She's probably just in a mood. She's a cutie, I was hoping for the naked pic though... heh

    She'll come around.

    Thanks man. I hope so.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    id be furious if my partner or anyone else for that matter invaded my privacy like that. but i also would never have kept messages to and from others that could be misinterpretted. :)



    did i mention i dont even have a mobile/cell phone? :D:D
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    id be furious if my partner or anyone else for that matter invaded my privacy like that. but i also would never have kept messages to and from others that could be misinterpretted. :)



    did i mention i dont even have a mobile/cell phone? :D:D

    I should have done some spring cleaning on my phone...I know that now. But...too late.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I should have done some spring cleaning on my phone...I know that now. But...too late.

    23 year olds can be a tad flighty steve. if you sit down with her and show her WHEN these messages are from she, will either be reasonable and accept that or be unreasonable and not. if she can't accept your explanation on this, what else would she be unreasonable about, you know?
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say

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