Men! Think back, and answer me this little question -

soulsinging

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

1) that's off topic
2) that's not low self esteem-it's fact, I gained 45 fucking lbs, I am a 5'4" woman who weighs over 200 lbs and has bad acne. if someone gives me a compliment, I take it. I personally I have very high self esteem.
3) you are soooo defensive. whenever anyone calls you out on something, you just snap back with some off topic, pointless insult like a 5 year old.

cry me a fucking river. if you can moan about it in everything thread, dont get your panties in a twist when i vent my spleen in others.

Heineken Helen

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

3) you are soooo defensive. whenever anyone calls you out on something, you just snap back with some off topic, pointless insult like a 5 year old.

:( I know... I look back on the good old days where SS used to be able to argue his silly points with at least some degree of intelligence... and it makes me sad :( now we get shit like 'cry me a fucking river'?

Wow... this guy really COULD be your president yet

GreenTeaDisease

soulsinging wrote:

cry me a fucking river. if you can moan about it in everything thread, dont get your panties in a twist when i vent my spleen in others.

I don't fucking "moan" about anything. Man, the names I would call you right now...Why on earth did you come back here just to piss people off? Everyone was having a good time and getting along without you. piss off. what gives you the right to say such utter shit about people you DO NOT KNOW on a public message board.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

What? I think you have anger issues ss :( and if you're gonna make a generalisation you should put IMO in front of it... otherwise people will take it AS a generalisation... imagine that

and i think i dont give a flying fuck what YOU think i SHOULD do. plenty of people here have agreed with me. plenty know im generalizing and don't take me seriously. just becos it offends you (and here i thought you didnt get offended) doesnt mean i need to change what i do just becos you dont like my style.

furthermore, i didnt hijack this thread. i answered the OP question and said the best way to compliment a guy whose interest you want to capture is to make him feel like a stud, not say he's so sweet or cute. and lo and behold, you all flip the fuck out. sorry, it's true. most guys will agree with me that they would rather hear "damn, you make me wanna tear those clothes off" than "you're so sweet, you'll make some other girl very happy one day."

soulsinging

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I don't fucking "moan" about anything. Man, the names I would call you right now...Why on earth did you come back here just to piss people off? Everyone was having a good time and getting along without you. piss off. what gives you the right to say such utter shit about people you DO NOT KNOW on a public message board.

cos it's fun getting this stuff out here, lest my "socially inept" poor self esteem behavior creep into real life, ya know?

but hey, dont hold back on the names on my account. i can take it. nothing you could call me ive not been called before.

GreenTeaDisease

Heineken Helen wrote:

:( I know... I look back on the good old days where SS used to be able to argue his silly points with at least some degree of intelligence... and it makes me sad :( now we get shit like 'cry me a fucking river'?

Wow... this guy really COULD be your president yet

he doesn't have any intelligence, never did. He's just one of those people that likes to argue, even if the argument has no merit at all. I have NO IDEA how he got into law school, or college for that matter. Nothing he says has an ounce of value.

I'd like to read the memos he writes for class...he probably turns some contract law assignment into a an argument for why all women should be thrown in jail (oh and then the hot ones should be forced to have sex with him or something).

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

and i think i dont give a flying fuck what YOU think i SHOULD do. plenty of people here have agreed with me. plenty know im generalizing and don't take me seriously. just becos it offends you (and here i thought you didnt get offended) doesnt mean i need to change what i do just becos you dont like my style.

where did I say I was offended? Anywhere? Nope! It's just a lazy arsed way of arguing... you can do better than that surely. How would this fare up in a courtroom?

soulsinging wrote:

furthermore, i didnt hijack this thread. i answered the OP question and said the best way to compliment a guy whose interest you want to capture is to make him feel like a stud, not say he's so sweet or cute. and lo and behold, you all flip the fuck out. sorry, it's true. most guys will agree with me that they would rather hear "damn, you make me wanna tear those clothes off" than "you're so sweet, you'll make some other girl very happy one day."

And which one do you think WE'D rather hear? My point is... men and women aren't as different as you'd like them to be!

GreenTeaDisease

soulsinging wrote:

cos it's fun getting this stuff out here, lest my "socially inept" poor self esteem behavior creep into real life, ya know?

but hey, dont hold back on the names on my account. i can take it. nothing you could call me ive not been called before.

trust me, I'm not holding back on your account, name calling of any kind gets you banned, I've got too little work to do to take that risk.

GreenTeaDisease

Heineken Helen wrote:

where did I say I was offended? Anywhere? Nope! It's just a lazy arsed way of arguing... you can do better than that surely. How would this fare up in a courtroom?


And which one do you think WE'D rather hear? My point is... men and women aren't as different as you'd like them to be!

HH, you can say this last sentence over and over and over again until you turn blue, he is a completely OBSESSED misogynist, it won't do you any good.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

where did I say I was offended? Anywhere? Nope! It's just a lazy arsed way of arguing... you can do better than that surely. How would this fare up in a courtroom?


And which one do you think WE'D rather hear? My point is... men and women aren't as different as you'd like them to be!

last i checked, this thread was about what men wanted to hear. i never said a word about what women do or don't want to hear. show me where i did. i said what a guy wanted to hear, and everyone went batshit crazy.

now we're trading back and forth... "where'd i say this?" seems like our styles have more in common than you'd like to admit. that's the difference. i'll admit i'm a dick. you will die before you admit to being irrational or bitchy.

it's good to see the self-pitying spinsters banding together against the kind of guy they love to hate though. you two make such a cute couple. admit it, you love me. i'm everything you both hate about men and every man who's wronged you.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

last i checked, this thread was about what men wanted to hear. i never said a word about what women do or don't want to hear. show me where i did. i said what a guy wanted to hear, and everyone went batshit crazy.

now we're trading back and forth... "where'd i say this?" seems like our styles have more in common than you'd like to admit. that's the difference. i'll admit i'm a dick. you will die before you admit to being irrational or bitchy.

hmm... nope the thread is about what men HAVE heard... and nice things at that! Not what they'd like to hear and what they WOULDNT like to hear... how have you convinced yourself of that?

SS... we are NOTHING alike thank fuck!

soulsinging

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

he doesn't have any intelligence, never did. He's just one of those people that likes to argue, even if the argument has no merit at all. I have NO IDEA how he got into law school, or college for that matter. Nothing he says has an ounce of value.

I'd like to read the memos he writes for class...he probably turns some contract law assignment into a an argument for why all women should be thrown in jail (oh and then the hot ones should be forced to have sex with him or something).

you'd be shocked i think. if you'd like a legal debate, i'd be happy to have one. but generally the quality of mind around here isnt up to the task, as HH has so able demonstrated time and again. so i debate what's on the table. why don't you venture over to the train gtd? or are you afraid you'd get your clock cleaned if you saw what im really capable of?

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

hmm... nope the thread is about what men HAVE heard... and nice things at that! Not what they'd like to hear and what they WOULDNT like to hear... how have you convinced yourself of that?

SS... we are NOTHING alike thank fuck!

really? then how come there are so many women in this thread?

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

And which one do you think WE'D rather hear? My point is... men and women aren't as different as you'd like them to be!

id also like to add ive never said they were all that different. i have always said the general rule of thumb is both men and women are vain and selfish and shitty to each other. i only talk about women more becos im not trying to hook up with men.

GreenTeaDisease

soulsinging wrote:

you'd be shocked i think. if you'd like a legal debate, i'd be happy to have one. but generally the quality of mind around here isnt up to the task, as HH has so able demonstrated time and again. so i debate what's on the table. why don't you venture over to the train gtd? or are you afraid you'd get your clock cleaned if you saw what im really capable of?

I'm on the train when I see something I want to bother talking about, but most of it is just such bullshit from the utterly un/mis-informed it's not worth it. It's worse than here because the issues discussed are actually important. I don't feel like explaining why global warming actually happens anymore.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

it's good to see the self-pitying spinsters banding together against the kind of guy they love to hate though. you two make such a cute couple. admit it, you love me. i'm everything you both hate about men and every man who's wronged you.

??????? Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... you couldn't be further from the truth! Just cos you haven't found happiness don't assume nobody else does either.

Jeremy1012

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I don't fucking "moan" about anything. Man, the names I would call you right now...Why on earth did you come back here just to piss people off? Everyone was having a good time and getting along without you. piss off. what gives you the right to say such utter shit about people you DO NOT KNOW on a public message board.

Oh come on. Soulsinging stirs it up a bit. It was boring here without him. If you weren't secretly enjoying this argument you'd have stopped posting a long time ago

people just need to stop taking these threads so seriously.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

id also like to add ive never said they were all that different. i have always said the general rule of thumb is both men and women are vain and selfish and shitty to each other. i only talk about women more becos im not trying to hook up with men.

men and women are shitty to eachother in general? :( I really feel sorry for you ss... oh and why would I get into a legal debate with you? That would be like me challenging you to a 'what goes on inside a womans mind?' debate... oh wait...

wash_

soulsinging wrote:

are you serious? isnt he a total sexist pig for wanting to feel like a woman's protector???

It is human instinct and natural biology of men to feel the protector and for women to be submisive.

CServant

einatshaul wrote:

What was the most flattering thing a woman (any woman) has ever said to you?

"It's not you, it's me..."