believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.
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I say as long as those involved are all over 25 years old, then age is no factor.
No offense to the under-25-year-olds out there, but you still have a lot to learn.
After about a year of hanging out with mutual friends....a guy whom is 27 has become romantically interested in me. I admit, I too, have become interested!!!! He's is super cute and nice as hell but I am afraid of our age difference. Ahem! I am going to be 39 in a few weeks and found out his dad is only 6 years older than I. I think it would be a great relationship we get along real well and know each other's personality. However the age thing really worries me... am I just trying to prevent myself from any happiness whatsoever? So what is your opinion? :P
it mighta been said but I only read your post so far cause I was just talking about this exact same thing with another friend
You only live once, age aint nuthin but a number and dont go on living afterwards thinking .."FUCK! What if..this guy coulda rocked my world!" Its worth at least giving it a shot. Have fun, enjoy and be safe
Ive dated a 30 yr old with a kiid when I was like 20, dated a girl about 13 yrs younger than me...and it was fun...consenting fun, just dont do the underage thing, unless you mind being someone else bitch in jail...wht they say? 15 will get you 25? lol
Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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No, I was just mentioning that I am badass like that. :cool:
I could.
I am that badass.
And I make an awesome peach pie.
a girl that gets rid of dead wood and has a great peach pie
cant go wrong with that
Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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My opinion is probably biased since my fiance is nearly 11 years younger than me. He's 23...and honestly the age difference freaked the hell out of me at first. I didn't even think of him as a potential partner when we first met mostly because of the age difference. But as we got to know each other better and realized how much we have in common with our thinking, values, etc the age difference seemed to disappear. All of my previous relationships have always been with men who are slightly older than me...but he has been the best match for me. I will be honest - sometimes the age DOES get in the way. I have a lot more experience than him with a lot of things - and sometimes it annoys me that he may look to me to figure things out or handle a situation. I have had to learn a lot of patience (I'm still working on this!) - and realize that a lot of things he has done that have pissed me off are out of inexperience. I have to look at things sometimes through the eyes of a 23 year old, not those of a 34 year old...some of the things that are "givens" to me are things that he is just learning. But sometimes this perspective is great - certainly not as jaded or cynical as mine can be at times. But regardless of age, couples always have to bridge gaps in perspectives, experiences etc....so really in the end it's not any different. So - absolutely - if there is a connection, give it a try.
I agree that sometimes age does come into play with us but in the end I'd say it's no different to any other relationship that is filled with love and affection.
I say go for it you have nothing to lose at this point. Don't see the age difference as a big deal just see how it goes and try it.
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Sha la la la i'm in love with a jersey girl
I love you forever and forever
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yes I ran into some of what you're describing too.
Also, in terms of like culture/pop culture it can be weird. it's not a big deal of course, but I was horrified when I first met my ex boyfriend and he had NO IDEA who slash was!!!
Well we cross the generation lines... I mean the guy likes the beach Boys and was raised by people whom were my parents age
After about a year of hanging out with mutual friends....a guy whom is 27 has become romantically interested in me. I admit, I too, have become interested!!!! He's is super cute and nice as hell but I am afraid of our age difference. Ahem! I am going to be 39 in a few weeks and found out his dad is only 6 years older than I. I think it would be a great relationship we get along real well and know each other's personality. However the age thing really worries me... am I just trying to prevent myself from any happiness whatsoever? So what is your opinion? :P
My male 29 year old opinoin is: With 27 and 39, there is no probably no problem. If he was younger than 25, it would be a different story. He should be mature enough by now.
After about a year of hanging out with mutual friends....a guy whom is 27 has become romantically interested in me. I admit, I too, have become interested!!!! He's is super cute and nice as hell but I am afraid of our age difference. Ahem! I am going to be 39 in a few weeks and found out his dad is only 6 years older than I. I think it would be a great relationship we get along real well and know each other's personality. However the age thing really worries me... am I just trying to prevent myself from any happiness whatsoever? So what is your opinion? :P
well, as long as he's not doing beer bongs and burping in public still (or at all for that matter) what the hell do you have to lose?
(unless of course you are the sentimental type like I am and would be crushed if the guy dumped you for no good reason).
If not, then I say , as I vicariously live through you,
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Baby, You Wouldn't Last a Minute on The Creek......
Together we will float like angels.........
In the moment that you left the room, the album started skipping, goodbye to beauty shared with the ones that you love.........
After about a year of hanging out with mutual friends....a guy whom is 27 has become romantically interested in me. I admit, I too, have become interested!!!! He's is super cute and nice as hell but I am afraid of our age difference. Ahem! I am going to be 39 in a few weeks and found out his dad is only 6 years older than I. I think it would be a great relationship we get along real well and know each other's personality. However the age thing really worries me... am I just trying to prevent myself from any happiness whatsoever? So what is your opinion? :P
holy CRAP!!! How did I miss this???
My husband is 8 years younger than I am. We met in 1996. I was nervous about it at first, because I owned my own home and had a good job. He was just coming out of college and lived at home. But, I just had so much fun with him even though I felt like it was "wrong". Sure, my friends called me a "pedophile" , but they weren't the ones getting nailed by the 22 year old like I was. Jealous bitches.
We married in 1999, and it's still awesome. He keeps me feeling young and pushes me to do stuff that I might not otherwise do if I was with someone my own age. We have a lot of fun.
The age thing gets complicated sometimes. Like his step mom is only 6 years older than I am. That part is odd.
sometimes, just having a friendly relationship will cost problems too.
I went into rehab facility when I was 17 and met a woman who was 27. after we got out, i spent time with her and 5-y-o kid a lot...and let's just say my mother wasn't too please with me hanging over at her house at all.
then a year later, i was hanging out with a woman who was 13-years my senior, she was actually my boss at my workplace at the time.
nothing really happened in both situation but people around were talking crap and gossiping.
I've always hanging out and talking with other folks, especially those who were in their late teens in the early 90's.
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Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
I say as long as those involved are all over 25 years old, then age is no factor.
No offense to the under-25-year-olds out there, but you still have a lot to learn.
You only live once, age aint nuthin but a number and dont go on living afterwards thinking .."FUCK! What if..this guy coulda rocked my world!" Its worth at least giving it a shot. Have fun, enjoy and be safe
Ive dated a 30 yr old with a kiid when I was like 20, dated a girl about 13 yrs younger than me...and it was fun...consenting fun, just dont do the underage thing, unless you mind being someone else bitch in jail...wht they say? 15 will get you 25? lol
Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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cant go wrong with that
Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
************************************
I agree that sometimes age does come into play with us but in the end I'd say it's no different to any other relationship that is filled with love and affection.
I say go for it you have nothing to lose at this point. Don't see the age difference as a big deal just see how it goes and try it.
Sha la la la i'm in love with a jersey girl
I love you forever and forever
Adel 03 Melb 1 03 LA 2 06 Santa Barbara 06 Gorge 1 06 Gorge 2 06 Adel 1 06 Adel 2 06 Camden 1 08 Camden 2 08 Washington DC 08 Hartford 08
Oh tell us more secrets of your crystal ball oh wise one!
Why wouldn't it most likely not work out???!??
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Well we cross the generation lines... I mean the guy likes the beach Boys and was raised by people whom were my parents age
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me rascando pompis...
krap mijn reet...
boku no ketsuoana o kizu...
bahrosh teezy...
My male 29 year old opinoin is: With 27 and 39, there is no probably no problem. If he was younger than 25, it would be a different story. He should be mature enough by now.
If they are younger, then I am the cool older man. If they are older, then I am the frisky young guy.
What could I possibly offer to the girls that are the same age?;):D
well, as long as he's not doing beer bongs and burping in public still (or at all for that matter) what the hell do you have to lose?
(unless of course you are the sentimental type like I am and would be crushed if the guy dumped you for no good reason).
If not, then I say , as I vicariously live through you,
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Together we will float like angels.........
In the moment that you left the room, the album started skipping, goodbye to beauty shared with the ones that you love.........
really though....its life and you need to take chances. have fun with it
holy CRAP!!! How did I miss this???
My husband is 8 years younger than I am. We met in 1996. I was nervous about it at first, because I owned my own home and had a good job. He was just coming out of college and lived at home. But, I just had so much fun with him even though I felt like it was "wrong". Sure, my friends called me a "pedophile"
We married in 1999, and it's still awesome. He keeps me feeling young and pushes me to do stuff that I might not otherwise do if I was with someone my own age. We have a lot of fun.
The age thing gets complicated sometimes. Like his step mom is only 6 years older than I am. That part is odd.
I went into rehab facility when I was 17 and met a woman who was 27. after we got out, i spent time with her and 5-y-o kid a lot...and let's just say my mother wasn't too please with me hanging over at her house at all.
then a year later, i was hanging out with a woman who was 13-years my senior, she was actually my boss at my workplace at the time.
nothing really happened in both situation but people around were talking crap and gossiping.
I've always hanging out and talking with other folks, especially those who were in their late teens in the early 90's.
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