The Younger Man????

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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    LongRd. wrote:
    where does a 26-year-old male stand in your case?

    would you want to do something like that?

    Well like someone said it's really depends on the individual. Some people are very immature for their age or mature..their are a lot of variable. I just think in general I would opt for someone my age or older. And i realize age has nothing to do with someone's sexual prowesses. I was stereotyping.
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Ummmm.... And I thought my short term memory was swiss cheese.

    I've had emotional times.. hard times.. doesn't everyone? I was assuming she meant the 'I'm such a tough guy I pick fights for fun, drink 10 pints a day and will have sex with anyone who wants it' phase.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    comebackgirl wrote:
    shhhhhh! Don't jinx yourself!

    I don't have to but the jinx manages to find me...meh...
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  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    I've had emotional times.. hard times.. doesn't everyone? I was assuming she meant the 'I'm such a tough guy I pick fights for fun, drink 10 pints a day and will have sex with anyone who wants it' phase.


    Got'cha. Well, you should have just said acting like eyedclaar instead of using the term angst.
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    libragirl wrote:
    Well like someone said it's really depends on the individual. Some people are very immature for their age or mature..their are a lot of variable. I just think in general I would opt for someone my age or older. And i realize age has nothing to do with someone's sexual prowesses. I was stereotyping.
    good luck with that, most men are never mature. (well at least when we're around other dudes.)
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    LongRd. wrote:
    Can you define "maturity"?

    No...but dictionary.com can :D

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    The state or quality of being fully grown or developed.
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    The things that matter to me...womeone who takes responsibility for their decisions, emotions, behaviors, mistakes, etc...can follow through on things...and doesn't look to someone else to take care of them or solve their problems.
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Got'cha. Well, you should have just said acting like eyedclaar instead of using the term angst.

    Well I quite often use the word 'jock' in conversation and I assure you, whenever I do, I'm thinking of you bro ;)
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    LongRd. wrote:
    good luck with that, most men are never mature. (well at least when we're around other dudes.)

    amen to that...well when I say immaturity..i don't mean lack of fun loving..I can be a goofball and all, I mean emotional wise and being considerate to your partner, that sort of maturity. But yeah I know how it is when guys get together. It's just when they prefer to be with their friends or friend is when I see trouble.
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  • Cree Nations
    Cree Nations Posts: 2,247
    who gives a fiddler fart about the age....its not that big of a difference. Take a dip in the pool I say!
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  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Well I quite often use the word 'jock' in conversation and I assure you, whenever I do, I'm thinking of you bro ;)


    Excellent.

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  • LONGRD
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    comebackgirl wrote:
    No...but dictionary.com can :D

    ma·tur·i·ty Audio Help (mə-tyŏŏr'ĭ-tē, -tŏŏr'-, -chŏŏr'-) Pronunciation Key
    n. pl. ma·tur·i·ties


    The state or quality of being fully grown or developed.
    The state or quality of being mature.
    The time at which a note or bond is due.
    The state of a note or bond being due.

    The time at which a note or bond is due.
    The state of a note or bond being due.
    Geology A stage in the development of streams or landscapes at which maximum development has been reached or at which the process of erosion is going on with maximum vigor. Maturity of a landscape continues throughout the period of maximum topographic differentiation or until about three fourths of the original mass is carried away by erosion.




    The things that matter to me...womeone who takes responsibility for their decisions, emotions, behaviors, mistakes, etc...can follow through on things...and doesn't look to someone else to take care of them or solve their problems.
    most men are like that, well, i should say most people are like once they're on their own. some may struggle harder than others but they're still doing things their own way. if that's your true definition of maturity, it's not that hard to find men out like that.

    when I'm reading this "immaturity" description about men from women, i was assuming you gals are think about our behavior and such. so i was assuming you meant men are sensitive and metrosexual types. (you know what i mean?)
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    libragirl wrote:
    amen to that...well when I say immaturity..i don't mean lack of fun loving..I can be a goofball and all, I mean emotional wise and being considerate to your partner, that sort of maturity. But yeah I know how it is when guys get together. It's just when they prefer to be with their friends or friend is when I see trouble.

    I just think it's stupid when I hear people saying that younger guys are always emotional brick walls or only care about themselves.

    I know people of every age who are like that... I'm 26 and I like to think that the happiest I've ever been in life was when I was looking out for someone else. In fact, I'm living the 'single bachelor life' right now and I think it's fucking awful. Having to think about myself all day? Horrible, horrible navel gazing.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

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  • sennin
    sennin Posts: 2,146
    Worked for me! ;):D
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    libragirl wrote:
    amen to that...well when I say immaturity..i don't mean lack of fun loving..I can be a goofball and all, I mean emotional wise and being considerate to your partner, that sort of maturity. But yeah I know how it is when guys get together. It's just when they prefer to be with their friends or friend is when I see trouble.
    we need our male-bonding moments too you know, ain't always about you! :rolleyes:
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  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    LongRd. wrote:
    we need our male-bonding moments too you know, ain't always about you! :rolleyes:

    Yeah, I'm glad my wife understands and supports my time with the fellas from the band. And they come to my house for practice so she gets exposed to all sorts of drunken crassness.
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  • comebackwoman
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    LongRd. wrote:
    most men are like that, well, i should say most people are like once they're on their own. some may struggle harder than others but they're still doing things their own way. if that's your true definition of maturity, it's not that hard to find men out like that.

    when I'm reading this "immaturity" description about men from women, i was assuming you gals are think about our behavior and such. so i was assuming you meant men are sensitive and metrosexual types. (you know what i mean?)
    I agree...I haven't had a relationship with anyone who didn't fit those qualities...or had trouble meeting someone who did. Just making the point that it doesn't relate to age. I don't think sensitivity has anything to do with maturity...being able to listen, being compassionate and empathetic - sure...and metrosexual...um no thanks :) Unless it's david beckham. I'll make an exception for him as long as he doesn't talk :)
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    I just think it's stupid when I hear people saying that younger guys are always emotional brick walls or only care about themselves.

    I know people of every age who are like that... I'm 26 and I like to think that the happiest I've ever been in life was when I was looking out for someone else. In fact, I'm living the 'single bachelor life' right now and I think it's fucking awful. Having to think about myself all day? Horrible, horrible navel gazing.

    Well I am scarred from a bad experience. I know it's not right to think like that but I have all sorts of reasons why i need someone close to my age. Younger guys aren't alway necessarily going to want to settle down that fast. But there are a lot of immature older guys....so immaturity goes beyond age.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    LongRd. wrote:
    we need our male-bonding moments too you know, ain't always about you! :rolleyes:

    Im not saying that at all..and I hate when men think that. Some guys are just all about their friends and don't have priorities. That is immature imo. But yeah go out and play with your friends..god knows I need my alone time too :p
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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Rock the cradle of love!
    Agreed
    :cool:
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Agreed
    :cool:

    Find that painful to agree with me on any issue?
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