The Younger Man????

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  • AnnaMelinda
    AnnaMelinda Posts: 331
    I say go for it...

    But just remember... if you stay together... when he is 35 and can MOST LIKELY date 27 year old chicks... you'll be 47.... almost 50.
    sometimes life don't leave you alone
  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    Collin wrote:
    Go for it! Why not?

    I've noticed that a lot of finely seasoned women ;) are interested in me. At first my friends and I sort of joked about it, now it has become an indisputable fact. Half of my friends' mothers thinks I'm cute, attractive, even hot... some told me 'if only they were a little bit younger' and some even said 'if only they weren't married' :eek: A lady even started rubbing my leg on the train... That was weird.
    I'd bust out the cougar repellent if I were you, crackerjack. They're a shifty, devil brigade...
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Dont Do It!
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Inhiding230
    Inhiding230 Posts: 362
    I have come to realize that age is just a number. I am 41, he is 28. We have been together for over 4 years and living together for 3 years. At first we discussed the age thing a lot because we were worried that it may be an issue, but we both agree it is not.

    Neither of us have experienced this kind of happiness in a relationship before and age really does not get in the way for us. Not to mention our sex life is amazing...... :D He really is an old soul, is a homebody and very responsible and mature. Most people who meet us or know us, don't even realize there is an age difference unless we mention it. We have the same taste in movies, most music, and the same sick sense of humor and we laugh a lot together. He adores me and makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. There isn't a thing he wouldn't do for me and vice versa. What can be wrong with a relationship like that ? :)

    Go for it and don't worry about the age - don't ignore it though and definitely discuss it with him if things look to becoming more serious.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    In all seriousness. I wouldn't go too much younger then my age. I actually would prefer my age or up to 10 years older. I need someone who have sown their wild oats and are out of their angsty tme.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    libragirl wrote:
    In all seriousness. I wouldn't go too much younger then my age. I actually would prefer my age or up to 10 years older. I need someone who have sown their wild oats and are out of their angsty tme.

    Hmm.. might you be making some assumptions about younger men?

    The only wild oats I'm involved with I eat for breakfast. And I quite fancy having an allotment one day.

    And I don't recall ever having an 'angsty time' above the age of 18.
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  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:

    And I don't recall ever having an 'angsty time' above the age of 18.

    Ummmm.... And I thought my short term memory was swiss cheese.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Hmm.. might you be making some assumptions about younger men?

    The only wild oats I'm involved with I eat for breakfast. And I quite fancy having an allotment one day.

    And I don't recall ever having an 'angsty time' above the age of 18.

    ha..yeah an assumption based on experience. Some people never get over their angst or maybe it's immaturity..but anyway no younger guys I don't care if they are dynamos in the sack.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    libragirl wrote:
    In all seriousness. I wouldn't go too much younger then my age. I actually would prefer my age or up to 10 years older. I need someone who have sown their wild oats and are out of their angsty tme.
    where does a 26-year-old male stand in your case?

    would you want to do something like that?
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    libragirl wrote:
    ha..yeah an assumption based on experience. Some people never get over their angst or maybe it's immaturity..but anyway no younger guys I don't care if they are dynamos in the sack.
    oh damn, guess that answered my question above. :(
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    libragirl wrote:
    ha..yeah an assumption based on experience. Some people never get over their angst or maybe it's immaturity..but anyway no younger guys I don't care if they are dynamos in the sack.
    It depends on the guy. There are men in their 40's who haven't gotten over their angst. Maturity isn't always related to age...
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    libragirl wrote:
    In all seriousness. I wouldn't go too much younger then my age. I actually would prefer my age or up to 10 years older. I need someone who have sown their wild oats and are out of their angsty tme.
    I probably would have said all of this before I met my boyfriend. Especially having children and having just left a 15 year marriage.

    My point is, you don't choose who you fall in love with and setting parameters using age, status, income or anything else seems to be denying yourself the widest possible chance of happiness.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    comebackgirl wrote:
    It depends on the guy. There are men in their 40's who haven't gotten over their angst. Maturity isn't always related to age...

    Yeah I knew someone was going to mention that point. That is very true. If there was an immature guy in his 40s I would find him.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    urbanhippie wrote:
    I probably would have said all of this before I met my boyfriend. Especially having children and having just left a 15 year marriage.

    My point is, you don't choose who you fall in love with and setting parameters using age, status, income or anything else seems to be denying yourself the widest possible chance of happiness.

    meh..don't mind me Im very jaded and have a deep dissatisfaction with the oppposite sex right now. So yes everything I say will be negative in that regard.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    urbanhippie wrote:

    My point is, you don't choose who you fall in love with and setting parameters using age.


    Ah yes, the Alabama state motto.
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  • urbanhippie
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    comebackgirl wrote:
    It depends on the guy. There are men in their 40's who haven't gotten over their angst. Maturity isn't always related to age...
    Too true. My ex was older than me and so full of issues and problems that even with the best will in the world, I gave up trying to fight them.
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    libragirl wrote:
    Yeah I knew someone was going to mention that point. That is very true. If there was an immature guy in his 40s I would find him.
    shhhhhh! Don't jinx yourself!
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  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Ah yes, the Alabama state motto.
    hahahaha
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    comebackgirl wrote:
    It depends on the guy. There are men in their 40's who haven't gotten over their angst. Maturity isn't always related to age...
    Can you define "maturity"?
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Ah yes, the Alabama state motto.
    :D

    If I go any younger I just may have to move there :p
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)

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