My girlfriends younger brother wants to get his tongue pierced

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  • pjoasisrule
    pjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    Oh I totally agree that it's a stupid stereotype, but nonetheless, that is what the vast majority of people think. Thus, if he goes ahead and gets his tongue pierced, he should at least be aware that a lot of people will make assumptions about his sexuality. All I was pointing out was that whilst I dodn't necessarily agree with the original poster, I can understand why they might have that preconceived idea - becasue it's a popular belief.

    I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.
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  • jojo
    jojo Posts: 645
    I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.
    do you live in a urban area at all cause it's not uncommon to see guys with them
    women i would say are more so bit i would guess and say it's about 2:1 or 3:1
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  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    jojo wrote:
    do you live in a urban area at all cause it's not uncommon to see guys with them
    women i would say are more so bit i would guess and say it's about 2:1 or 3:1

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  • I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.

    And to most right-thinking people, getting an earring in your right ear is not much different to getting one in your left ear.

    I forget who it was, but I saw an Autralian stand-up comedian do a bit about this kind of thing.
    "It's so weird. Here in England, having an earring in your right ear... makes you gay. Which is strange for me, because back in Australia, having a cock in your arse makes you gay!" :p
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  • jojo
    jojo Posts: 645
    yo jo!!!!!!!! :D

    ((HUGS))


    steve i know i haven't been on much lol
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  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    I recommend mouth zips for everyone under twenty-one. I must be getting old. :D
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    How does a piercing affect sexuality?.... Don't gay women ever have tongue piercings? I bet they do.....
    I'm a girl and ragingly hetero...and I have a tongue piercing....I'm not sure all these facts are related though.... :confused:
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  • I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.

    Yeah I wouldn't say it was especially common among men, I know far more women who have their tongues pierced.
  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    jojo wrote:
    ((HUGS))


    steve i know i haven't been on much lol

    hey just happy to see yerass!!!
    I love to turn you on
  • And to most right-thinking people, getting an earring in your right ear is not much different to getting one in your left ear.

    I forget who it was, but I saw an Autralian stand-up comedian do a bit about this kind of thing.
    "It's so weird. Here in England, having an earring in your right ear... makes you gay. Which is strange for me, because back in Australia, having a cock in your arse makes you gay!" :p

    LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.
  • jamie uk
    jamie uk Posts: 3,812
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)
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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    jamie uk wrote:
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.
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  • LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.

    It's all stupid, really. I mean, I'd never get my ears, tongue or elbows pierced, but what of it if someone does? I know you're just pointing out the accepted stereotype, and not really agreeing with it as such, so I don't mean to sound off on you.:) The OP's playground mentality just grates with me.
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  • jojo
    jojo Posts: 645
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.


    a tattoo is def more perm
    but i argue with the more painful

    i have a few a tats and a few piercings
    the healing process can be a bitch with both
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  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    jamie uk wrote:
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)

    I can see where this is going. *Braces for apocryphal tales of nobslicing and makeshift stapling incidents*
  • jamie uk
    jamie uk Posts: 3,812
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.

    A mate had it done a few years back, he was in agony for a week, couldn't eat. He was pissed when he had it done...silly get! Now...Prince Albert, now that's gotta hurt, serious!!
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  • pjoasisrule
    pjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.

    I really do wonder who decided in the first place that right ear piercing would be a sign of homosexuality and how it became such a common way of knowing that persons sexual orientation.
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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    jojo wrote:
    a tattoo is def more perm
    but i argue with the more painful

    i have a few a tats and a few piercings
    the healing process can be a bitch with both
    My tattoo hurt like a bitch, but the tongue piercing was over and done with in seconds....
    Apart from a bit of bruising I was fine the next day... The tattoo took ages and itched like crazy...
    I guess it's just a case of what bothers you most, and at least you can remove any and all piercings as soon as you get bored with them.
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  • jojo
    jojo Posts: 645
    My tattoo hurt like a bitch, but the tongue piercing was over and done with in seconds....
    Apart from a bit of bruising I was fine the next day... The tattoo took ages and itched like crazy...
    I guess it's just a case of what bothers you most, and at least you can remove any and all piercings as soon as you get bored with them.

    depends alot on where (on your body) you get it done as well the toung heals realtivlt quickly cause of teh high blood flow volume in the mouth
    (i read that somewhere once i think haha)
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  • It's all stupid, really. I mean, I'd never get my ears, tongue or elbows pierced, but what of it if someone does? I know you're just pointing out the accepted stereotype, and not really agreeing with it as such, so I don't mean to sound off on you.:) The OP's playground mentality just grates with me.

    Well yeah I totally agree that people should be free to do what they want. As a side issue though, I find people being self-righteous (not you) about political corectness to be just as irritating as ignorant people.

    I think we're all guilty of stereotyping from time to time, even if it's on a subconscious level - yet some people feel the need to aggressively lambast some people's stereotyping and portray themselves as some totally liberal and perfect person who never makes mistakes etc. I think in general it's far better to challenge people's assumtions on an intellectual level than just insulting etc.