My girlfriends younger brother wants to get his tongue pierced

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  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056
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  • Jeremy1012 wrote:
    any you are, of course, aware that oral sex isn't only a homosexual activity?

    Why of course! I understand the point you are making, but it's kind of like when you ask someone to name a type of cola, 9 times out of ten people will say Coke, if you catch my drift? I'm just trying to point out that a tongue piercing is more often than not associated with fellatio. It may be an unfair and and silly stereotype to make, but denying the existence of that stereotype just for the sake of being politically correct seems a bit daft.

    More power to any bloke who wants to get their tongue pierced to improve their 'performance', I think it's a little extreme, but it's all about personal choice I guess.
  • know1know1 Posts: 6,794
    Tell him he's an idiot.
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  • Why of course! I understand the point you are making, but it's kind of like when you ask someone to name a type of cola, 9 times out of ten people will say Coke, if you catch my drift? I'm just trying to point out that a tongue piercing is more often than not associated with fellatio. It may be an unfair and and silly stereotype to make, but denying the existence of that stereotype just for the sake of being politically correct seems a bit daft.

    More power to any bloke who wants to get their tongue pierced to improve their 'performance', I think it's a little extreme, but it's all about personal choice I guess.


    I think you hit it on the "head"!!
    If sexual perfromance is what it is about, he might as well just get his wang pierced.

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  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Why of course! I understand the point you are making, but it's kind of like when you ask someone to name a type of cola, 9 times out of ten people will say Coke, if you catch my drift? I'm just trying to point out that a tongue piercing is more often than not associated with fellatio. It may be an unfair and and silly stereotype to make, but denying the existence of that stereotype just for the sake of being politically correct seems a bit daft.

    More power to any bloke who wants to get their tongue pierced to improve their 'performance', I think it's a little extreme, but it's all about personal choice I guess.
    I never said that tongue piercings weren't used predominantly for that reason. I don't know where you got that from. I just said that pjoasisrule is ridiculous for saying that makes them homosexual. A piercing cannot define your sexuality, whether or not it is used for it.
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  • I told him that only homosexuals get that done. Why would a guy get his tongue pierced?

    Sweeping generalisations make everything so much more fun!:)
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  • Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I never said that tongue piercings weren't used predominantly for that reason. I don't know where you got that from. I just said that pjoasisrule is ridiculous for saying that makes them homosexual. A piercing cannot define your sexuality, whether or not it is used for it.

    Oh I totally agree that it's a stupid stereotype, but nonetheless, that is what the vast majority of people think. Thus, if he goes ahead and gets his tongue pierced, he should at least be aware that a lot of people will make assumptions about his sexuality. All I was pointing out was that whilst I dodn't necessarily agree with the original poster, I can understand why they might have that preconceived idea - becasue it's a popular belief.
  • stargirl69stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    One FANTASTIC reason :)



    Yup equal to a battery attachment on the tongue ;)
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  • jojojojo Posts: 645
    I told him that only homosexuals get that done. Why would a guy get his tongue pierced?

    i don't have my tounge pierced and have wanted to to it for a while
    (i am a woman for those of you who don't know me)
    the reason i don't there is a small chance of loosing sense of tatse if they hit a nerve and i am a chef so that would suck

    however i dated a guy who had on who was very hetero LMAO
    and it was very fun

    everyone jumps to the oral sex reasoning but it was really fun just to kiss him

    plus some people just get them because they are orally fixated and it's a toy to play with

    my 2cents for what it's worth
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  • pjoasisrulepjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    know1 wrote:
    Tell him he's an idiot.

    I have but not just for that, for other things as well. He is a kid with serious issues, basically he is on a downward spiral. Got into a few fights, got caught selling drugs at school and spent some time in jail while also getting expelled from school. He most likely wont graduate from his easy high school where he only goes like 3 days a week for just a few hours doing work that is equivelant to probably 5 grades younger. He wastes all the money that he does have on abercrombie clothes and things that will make him appear to be cool and wealthy. And worst of all, he impregnated a girl and wont talk to her and refuses to believe that the baby exists. I am pretty sure he has actual mental problems.
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  • pjoasisrulepjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    Oh I totally agree that it's a stupid stereotype, but nonetheless, that is what the vast majority of people think. Thus, if he goes ahead and gets his tongue pierced, he should at least be aware that a lot of people will make assumptions about his sexuality. All I was pointing out was that whilst I dodn't necessarily agree with the original poster, I can understand why they might have that preconceived idea - becasue it's a popular belief.

    I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.
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  • jojojojo Posts: 645
    I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.
    do you live in a urban area at all cause it's not uncommon to see guys with them
    women i would say are more so bit i would guess and say it's about 2:1 or 3:1
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  • Steve DunneSteve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    jojo wrote:
    do you live in a urban area at all cause it's not uncommon to see guys with them
    women i would say are more so bit i would guess and say it's about 2:1 or 3:1

    yo jo!!!!!!!! :D
    I love to turn you on
  • I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.

    And to most right-thinking people, getting an earring in your right ear is not much different to getting one in your left ear.

    I forget who it was, but I saw an Autralian stand-up comedian do a bit about this kind of thing.
    "It's so weird. Here in England, having an earring in your right ear... makes you gay. Which is strange for me, because back in Australia, having a cock in your arse makes you gay!" :p
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  • jojojojo Posts: 645
    yo jo!!!!!!!! :D

    ((HUGS))


    steve i know i haven't been on much lol
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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    How does a piercing affect sexuality?.... Don't gay women ever have tongue piercings? I bet they do.....
    I'm a girl and ragingly hetero...and I have a tongue piercing....I'm not sure all these facts are related though.... :confused:
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  • I dont know what the percentage of females is to males getting this done but I have known many many girls that have done it and no guys but the guys I have seen on tv and such were all homosexual. To me, its not much different than getting an earring in your right ear.

    Yeah I wouldn't say it was especially common among men, I know far more women who have their tongues pierced.
  • Steve DunneSteve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    jojo wrote:
    ((HUGS))


    steve i know i haven't been on much lol

    hey just happy to see yerass!!!
    I love to turn you on
  • And to most right-thinking people, getting an earring in your right ear is not much different to getting one in your left ear.

    I forget who it was, but I saw an Autralian stand-up comedian do a bit about this kind of thing.
    "It's so weird. Here in England, having an earring in your right ear... makes you gay. Which is strange for me, because back in Australia, having a cock in your arse makes you gay!" :p

    LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.
  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)
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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    jamie uk wrote:
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.
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  • LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.

    It's all stupid, really. I mean, I'd never get my ears, tongue or elbows pierced, but what of it if someone does? I know you're just pointing out the accepted stereotype, and not really agreeing with it as such, so I don't mean to sound off on you.:) The OP's playground mentality just grates with me.
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  • jojojojo Posts: 645
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.


    a tattoo is def more perm
    but i argue with the more painful

    i have a few a tats and a few piercings
    the healing process can be a bitch with both
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  • jamie uk wrote:
    It's about the most mentalist thing ever, I mean why would you choose to have that pain and discomfort brought upon yourself? Only the though of a Prince Albert makes my eyes water more ;)

    I can see where this is going. *Braces for apocryphal tales of nobslicing and makeshift stapling incidents*
  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    It only hurts for a little while.... then it's fun, fun, fun....;)

    Seriously though... a tattoo is much more painful, and a whole lot more permanent.

    A mate had it done a few years back, he was in agony for a week, couldn't eat. He was pissed when he had it done...silly get! Now...Prince Albert, now that's gotta hurt, serious!!
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  • pjoasisrulepjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    LOL! I don't know where that assumption came from, but it seems to be widely accepted. Although it appears quite acceptable to have both ears pierced these days; I see loads of chavs with fake diamond studs in both ears.

    I really do wonder who decided in the first place that right ear piercing would be a sign of homosexuality and how it became such a common way of knowing that persons sexual orientation.
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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    jojo wrote:
    a tattoo is def more perm
    but i argue with the more painful

    i have a few a tats and a few piercings
    the healing process can be a bitch with both
    My tattoo hurt like a bitch, but the tongue piercing was over and done with in seconds....
    Apart from a bit of bruising I was fine the next day... The tattoo took ages and itched like crazy...
    I guess it's just a case of what bothers you most, and at least you can remove any and all piercings as soon as you get bored with them.
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  • jojojojo Posts: 645
    My tattoo hurt like a bitch, but the tongue piercing was over and done with in seconds....
    Apart from a bit of bruising I was fine the next day... The tattoo took ages and itched like crazy...
    I guess it's just a case of what bothers you most, and at least you can remove any and all piercings as soon as you get bored with them.

    depends alot on where (on your body) you get it done as well the toung heals realtivlt quickly cause of teh high blood flow volume in the mouth
    (i read that somewhere once i think haha)
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  • It's all stupid, really. I mean, I'd never get my ears, tongue or elbows pierced, but what of it if someone does? I know you're just pointing out the accepted stereotype, and not really agreeing with it as such, so I don't mean to sound off on you.:) The OP's playground mentality just grates with me.

    Well yeah I totally agree that people should be free to do what they want. As a side issue though, I find people being self-righteous (not you) about political corectness to be just as irritating as ignorant people.

    I think we're all guilty of stereotyping from time to time, even if it's on a subconscious level - yet some people feel the need to aggressively lambast some people's stereotyping and portray themselves as some totally liberal and perfect person who never makes mistakes etc. I think in general it's far better to challenge people's assumtions on an intellectual level than just insulting etc.
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