I know this is a double standard but.....

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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    iluvcats wrote:
    a couple of pages back, someone said this is anonymous. it's not. many users give details, post pics and have met each other at concerts.

    acoustic guy might be joking or kidding around, but if his wife was nosey and read stuff on his computer, I doubt she would find it funny.
    I am gonna tell her to read this thread tonight so chill out. She is not that type of person, she knows that she married a wild man. I say a do a lot of crazy shit and she is the only one who can realy control me. its really not a big deal lol wtf?
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    I would not want to have that type of relationship with my wife. That type of lifestyle is not for me, group sex with other swingers i mean. No thanks, This is all for fun really, just thinking out loud.
    Some in here are way to serious




    um, who said that?
    you think there is only one way to have an open relationship?
    seriously?
    it could be however you and your wife want it to be.
    obviously, we all KNOW how you wanted it to be...you get your cake and eat it too...she gets whatever crumbs you throw her way. ;) and hey, i am sure there ARe women who would even be game for that. most, men AND women..prefer fidelity, or at least to try for that monogamous relationship...but i am sure the right couple could be open to each indulging, individually, with a new partner of their choice now and again....and then back home. just as long as BOTH got to indulge when they wanted. life is what you make it. :)


    and i am not 'too serious'..i always love that backpedal. you started a topic, obviously an interesting one...so some of us choose to actually DISCUSS it. not belittle your thoughts, or get hung up on who's 'good' or 'bad'...but discuss the topic. it happens. :p
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    I am gonna tell her to read this thread tonight so chill out. She is not that type of person, she knows that she married a wild man. I say a do a lot of crazy shit and she is the only one who can realy control me. its really not a big deal lol wtf?

    lol at wild man :)
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    iluvcats wrote:
    lol at wild man :)
    lol I am CCCCCCCCrazzzyyyy guy wild man hahahahaha
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  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.

    Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.

    From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770


    .i always love that backpedal. :p
    I am not backpedaling at all! I want it to be okay for me to sleep with other women! lol Really i do. It won't happen but i would like it to.
    She told me before that if i did she would cut it off! lol......not really lol but kinda ;)
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    saveuplife wrote:
    The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.

    Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.

    From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.


    Good for you. I didn't have the patience to type all that out. I agree.
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    saveuplife wrote:
    The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.

    Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.

    From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.
    haha, true enough
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    but acoustic guy, wild makes me think of this hairy goon for some reason.
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    saveuplife wrote:
    The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.

    Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.

    From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.

    Thanks again. people are funny in here LOL
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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Good for you. I didn't have the patience to type all that out. I agree.

    whatever. u know u dont.
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    iluvcats wrote:
    but acoustic guy, wild makes me think of this hairy goon for some reason.
    My nickname is Chewbacca! lol not really.:D
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    My nickname is Chewbacca! lol not really.:D

    but I've seen your picture before. Tell the truth. After you posted this thread, did you get any offers? Did anyone send you a pm to get together? ;)
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    iluvcats wrote:
    but I've seen your picture before. Tell the truth. After you posted this thread, did you get any offers? Did anyone send you a pm to get together? ;)
    LOL no.
    Truth be told, a while back i had a girl flirt real hard and it scared me away. i got nervous as hell and left hahaha.
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    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    LOL no.
    Truth be told, a while back i had a girl flirt real hard and it scared me away. i got nervous as hell and left hahaha.

    lol now that's funny!
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    8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
    10/10 - Brad in B'more
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    saveuplife wrote:
    The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.

    Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.

    From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.

    i like the topic. i am not actually discussing what acoustic will or won't do...i honestly couldn't care less! but it IS an interesting topic...so sure, discussed it 'seriously'...you CAN always skip such posts. some of us actually enjoying discussing a topic, not just the original poster. what acoustic, or anyone here does...is neither of interest nor concern to me...ain't my life. awhile ago i had a thread about open relationships....but it didn't get all that interessting, imo anyway...b/c people took it too 'personally' about their own relationships..whereas i wanted to discuss the IDEA, objectively. so yes..i indulged myself here an did just that.


    whether acoustic cheats or not....whateva.......:p
    btw - this is exaclty what i would expect:
    Truth be told, a while back i had a girl flirt real hard and it scared me away. i got nervous as hell and left hahaha.


    so yes...my posts anyway, not at all about aoustic...and all about the subject itself.
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    SENROCK! wrote:
    whatever. u know u dont.

    I don't what now?
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  • TrailerTrailer Posts: 1,431
    This thread is very entertaining... and makes me very glad that I am single right now and can still have guilt-free sex whenever I want. Nothing easier than picking up chicks at the beach after you've been surfing with your buds.;)
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    i like the topic. i am not actually discussing what acoustic will or won't do...i honestly couldn't care less! but it IS an interesting topic...so sure, discussed it 'seriously'...you CAN always skip such posts. some of us actually enjoying discussing a topic, not just the original poster. what acoustic, or anyone here does...is neither of interest nor concern to me...ain't my life. awhile ago i had a thread about open relationships....but it didn't get all that interessting, imo anyway...b/c people took it too 'personally' about their own relationships..whereas i wanted to discuss the IDEA, objectively. so yes..i indulged myself here an did just that.


    whether acoustic cheats or not....whateva.......:p
    btw - this is exaclty what i would expect:




    so yes...my posts anyway, not at all about aoustic...and all about the subject itself.


    That's all fine and good.

    I bet your husband (bf) wants to bang other chicks. :P
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I love to be a *freak* in bed...:)


    It's good for ya!! :p
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  • TrailerTrailer Posts: 1,431
    I love to be a *freak* in bed...:)


    It's good for ya!! :p

    It's a win-win situation!!:D
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    saveuplife wrote:
    That's all fine and good.

    I bet your husband (bf) wants to bang other chicks. :P



    i already addressed that point earlier.
    he is a heterosexual male...of course he does. so fucking what's your point? like that's news? i've yet to meet a man..or really, any woman...who wouldn't like/enjoy it. IF people choose to monogamous, it's b/c they choose to. besides which, how do you know that i don't let him? and vice versa? sheesh. seriously...some of you think that we'll be shattered to know our spouses might want someone else sexually? spare me. i AM an intelligent adult. thanks tho.


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    Let's just breathe...


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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Trailer wrote:
    This thread is very entertaining... and makes me very glad that I am single right now and can still have guilt-free sex whenever I want. Nothing easier than picking up chicks at the beach after you've been surfing with your buds.;)

    of COURSE u can get chicks anytime u want. ESPECIALLY in those wife beaters. ;)
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  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    i already addressed that point earlier.
    he is a heterosexual male...of course he does. so fucking what's your point? like that's news? i've yet to meet a man..or really, any woman...who wouldn't like/enjoy it. IF people choose to monogamous, it's b/c they choose to. besides which, how do you know that i don't let him? and vice versa? sheesh. seriously...some of you think that we'll be shattered to know our spouses might want someone else sexually? spare me. i AM an intelligent adult. thanks tho.


    it's all fine and good.


    Wow. Relax. I was messin around. No need to take out the thesauras and go into debate mode.
  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    SENROCK! wrote:
    of COURSE u can get chicks anytime u want. ESPECIALLY in those wife beaters. ;)

    because he looks like scotty weiland (in a good way)
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    I love to be a *freak* in bed...:)


    It's good for ya!! :p

    I'm an old woman who does not understand. I need to consult the urban dictionary.
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  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    saveuplife wrote:
    Wow. Relax. I was messin around. No need to take out the thesauras and go into debate mode.

    thesaurus
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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    iluvcats wrote:
    I'm an old woman who does not understand. I need to consult the urban dictionary.

    watch SWINGTOWN cats. You will learn something. ;) Maybe youre Janet and only schedules sexxx on fridays! :eek: jk :D
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  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    chadwick wrote:
    thesaurus


    Thank you. I wasn't using my dictionary, thesaurus or spell check. :)
  • TrailerTrailer Posts: 1,431
    iluvcats wrote:
    because he looks like scotty weiland (in a good way)

    iluvcats!! I haven't seen you around here in a little while.. hope everything's good!:D
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
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