I know this is a double standard but.....

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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,335
    Uh, that's why you DON'T get married.

    Pretty simple.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Whizbang wrote:
    contrary to what we're brought up to believe how we're "supposed" to behave, sometimes we want just that...f**k the flowers, candy and romance and give it to me, damn it. ;)

    absofreakenlutely!!!!!!
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  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    SENROCK! wrote:
    thats cute. girls can definitely cheat. dont let them off the hook so easy. chicks are NOT innocent. As it goes-if u cant get what ure looking for HERE....look elsewhere!!! ;)

    i meant can't as in "guys shouldn't let their girls cheat" not as in "women are incapable of it." i know all too well that they are. i just meant a guy will cheat, have his fling, and never think of the girl again except the occasional yank session. he'll still love his main squeeze with all his heart. a girl probably won't. she'll cheat and never come home again and forgot she ever even had a sig other to cheat on! ;)
    and like that... he's gone.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    catch22 wrote:
    i meant can't as in "guys shouldn't let their girls cheat" not as in "women are incapable of it." i know all too well that they are. i just meant a guy will cheat, have his fling, and never think of the girl again except the occasional yank session. he'll still love his main squeeze with all his heart. a girl probably won't. she'll cheat and never come home again and forgot she ever even had a sig other to cheat on! ;)

    i can see it now:

    chick: babyyy?? can i have permission to have dirty pornstar sexxx with another guy?

    dude: HELL NO! now get over here.
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  • Born.Mine.Die
    Born.Mine.Die Vancouver Posts: 225
    catch22 wrote:
    a guy will cheat, have his fling, and never think of the girl again except the occasional yank session. he'll still love his main squeeze with all his heart. a girl probably won't. she'll cheat and never come home again and forgot she ever even had a sig other to cheat on! ;)

    I think this is true actually...BUT its still NOT ok for the guy to cheat.
    If I got cheated on that would be the end...
    I would get over it and find a new man...

    Woman should not cheat either...BUT watch out if they do...BEcaUse like Catch22 said...she will never come home again and forget about YOU...
    SO treat her right in the first place and it won't have to come to that point. Communicate if your sex life is getting boring...I am sorry to hear you are feeling like slamming another chick besides your wife. I feel sorry for your wife....
    she is probably feeling distant from you right now if these are always the thoughts going threw your head...
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  • People that are married and cheat is just fucked up IMO.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    I think this is true actually...BUT its still NOT ok for the guy to cheat.
    If I got cheated on that would be the end...
    I would get over it and find a new man...

    Woman should not cheat either...BUT watch out if they do...BEcaUse like Catch22 said...she will never come home again and forget about YOU...
    SO treat her right in the first place and it won't have to come to that point. Communicate if your sex life is getting boring...I am sorry to hear you are feeling like slamming another chick besides your wife. I feel sorry for your wife....
    she is probably feeling distant from you right now if these are always the thoughts going threw your head...

    it just all comes down to plain old dirty LUST. the REASON people cheat!!!!
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  • Born.Mine.Die
    Born.Mine.Die Vancouver Posts: 225
    SENROCK! wrote:
    it just all comes down to plain old dirty LUST. the REASON people cheat!!!!

    Ahhh yesss.....LUST! that bastard!.....a deadly sin indeed!
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    SENROCK! wrote:
    it just all comes down to plain old dirty LUST. the REASON people cheat!!!!
    one of the seven deadly sins! (isn't it?)
    but also b/c I think some people (ahem!) are not pleased with the 'home cookin' so instead of trying to work it out or work on it, they get lazy and look elsewhere

    there is a saying about what woman won't do, another woman will. (NOT like I support that at all--I'm just saying...)
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • thats up there in the dumbest things i havent posted catergory.
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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Allie wrote:
    one of the seven deadly sins! (isn't it?)
    but also b/c I think some people (ahem!) are not pleased with the 'home cookin' so instead of trying to work it out or work on it, they get lazy and look elsewhere

    there is a saying about what woman won't do, another woman will. (NOT like I support that at all--I'm just saying...)

    "what you only dream about, wild women DO and they dont regret it."

    and yes, its like i said up there: 'if you cant get what u want HERE then look elsewhere!' its not right but thats just the way people deal withthings i guess.
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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    SENROCK! wrote:
    "what you only dream about, wild women DO and they dont regret it."

    and yes, its like i said up there: 'if you cant get what u want HERE then look elsewhere!' its not right but thats just the way people deal withthings i guess.

    where's that quote from? It's a good one!

    That is true but I think that's like a society thing too, people are in a rush and want 'instant gratification' for everything
    It's one thing if you're dating but if you're married, you took a vow, you know. Even looking at another person lustfully while you are married is a sin! :eek:
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Allie wrote:
    It's one thing if you're dating but if you're married, you took a vow, you know. Even looking at another person lustfully while you are married is a sin! :eek:

    yes it is!
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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Okay, this is the truth....
    I love love love my hot wife and we have a really good relationship. Our life is good and we are very happy together.
    BUT, as a man I want many many women! Thats just what I want. I want you and her and her and her and her. Oh and that hotty from Texas! ;)
    Thats the way men are and if they say they don't they are totally full of shit!
    Sorry married women but your husband feels the same way.


    like i stated previously,
    you are full of shit dude.
    are your eyes brown? if not, they should be

    in all actuality i am thinking it's you that has the problem with yours
    and the misses sex life.

    just my opinion, i could be wrong, but im probably not.

    it's pretty disrespectful how you chit chat about yours and her's
    relationship on here like you do.

    why not go to the source? your wife, tell her what's on your mind..
    don't be such a chicken shit.

    i don't understand what the fuck.....

    and why am i even wasting my time in this bunk ass thread?
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  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    Allie wrote:
    Beat? Smash!
    I was not aware of the new terminology. That's not nice! :(
    you're better off. Its my ghetto friends who think theyre gonna get some by saying YO YO MA! LEMME HOLLA AT U! :rolleyes:

    after all these yrs they still dont realize girls hate that shit. Not even the girls that are even more ghetto than them dont respond to that.

    anyways bottom line is if the sex is not good in a relationship then the relationship in all likelihod is going down at some point

    everyones got needs and if the guy aint doing it for the girl chances are shes gonna want some hardcore action and vice versa..if the girl doesnt fullfill the mans fantasies chances are he's gonna cheat. No matter how hard people wanna deny it good sex is key in every relationship..you could love each other to death and be the most compatible people in the world but both GOTTA be happy sexually
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  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    Allie wrote:
    Beat? Smash!
    I was not aware of the new terminology. That's not nice! :(
    stupid internet service double posting piece of crap :mad:
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    anyone giving acoustic guy a hard time for his 'impure' thoughts better re-read post #24.....

    man, you need to find a way to help your wife loosen up if you love her and want to stay with her....a lifetime of lights-out missionary sex is a life wasted! (imho:p) maybe i'm reading into it more than I should from one post...but it sounds like either:
    she has some insecurities to deal with (which eventually you'll be blamed for if you keep wanting other women - careful ;) )
    or
    you have some sexual chemistry/compatibility issues...communication helps that.

    ...so now I'm a shrink analyzing your marriage in your fun thread :p sorry.
  • AC, I remember when you wrote that your wife said you need a filter over your mouth. I think this may be one of those times. Could you not just have discussed this with a friend? :):)
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    AC, I remember when you wrote that your wife said you need a filter over your mouth. I think this may be one of those times. Could you not just have discussed this with a friend? :) : )

    no way kelly, tis way more fun when you seek advice from peeps on the internet. plus the advice has more validity. ;):D:D

    yes yes i realise he wasnt exactly seeking advice, just support for his wandering mind. :D
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  • no way kelly, tis way more fun when you seek advice from peeps on the internet. plus the advice has more validity. ;):D:D

    damn it cate. I was just about to delete that last bit. Sounded far too condescending. :)