I know this is a double standard but.....

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  • catch22catch22 Posts: 1,081
    WHAT? Thats fucked up right there. If yuo are married then the women needs to satisfy her man period and the same goes for him. I am all about that. She should be a whore in bed...your whore. WTF?

    that's what i thought! and she certainly didn't make it easy... god knows she was always into it. guess she just felt guilty for enjoying it afterwards. stupid uptight christian values.

    we weren't married though.

    im with you 100% on this. there are way too many beautiful women out there, it's too much for a simple man like myself. there may only be one that i love and want to share my life and start a family with, but that shouldn't mean every now and again i can't fool around with one of the other sexy women out there just for some harmless fun.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • My3rdEyeMy3rdEye Posts: 927
    They are all here working for the summer from Russia, Ukraine and Bulgaria hahahahahahaha.

    That is so true in Jersey. The only problem is they're maybe 15/16.

    Just tell your wife you want to fuck from time to time instead of make love. If that fails... get caught looking at porn and she'll realize you need soemthing a little bit more :p
  • Gremmie95Gremmie95 Posts: 749
    LOL you got that right. If she reads this I will be sleeping on the couch for a week.

    Stupid question here BUT. IF your wife reads the forum why on Gods green earth would you post that?!?!?!?!
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    LOL Hahahaha, People are reading into this way way to much! All I am saying is men should be allowed to have more then one women! Thats it! I am not gonna go cheat on my wife people! i love her to much. I have not given any details on this subject. My wife and i are fine, we are very much in love and again, we have a great relationship. I just want it to be okay to sleep with other women! LOL Isnt this what every guy wants? :D

    not hardly.
    so why don't you go talk to her about your feelings on this issue?
    tell her you are dead serious, you want many women.
    go tell her that.
    tell her you are very serious, look her in the eyes, go do it.
    you have a great deal of shit spewing out of your keyboard dude.
    it's farely entertaining @ best.
    in my humble opinion here's a prophecy for you, i see a divorce in your near future.
    brace yourself my friend, it isn't pretty.
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catch22catch22 Posts: 1,081
    chadwick wrote:
    not hardly.
    so why don't you go talk to her about your feelings on this issue?
    tell her you are dead serious, you want many women.
    go tell her that.
    tell her you are very serious, look her in the eyes, go do it.
    you have a great deal of shit spewing out of your keyboard dude.
    it's farely entertaining @ best.
    in my humble opinion here's a prophecy for you, i see a divorce in your near future.
    brace yourself my friend, it isn't pretty.

    talk to her about your feelings? did your wife take your penis or something? ;)

    this is the perfect place to vent stuff. you can have some fun with it and move past it, get objective and amusing feedback, and not have to hurt the feelings of someone you love by a heavy conversation on a topic you're not totally serious about. where's the harm in this post? some of you all are taking this way too seriously.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    My3rdEye wrote:
    The only problem is they're maybe 15/16. No, more like 18 to 20.

    get caught looking at porn and she'll realize you need soemthing a little bit more :p
    I am not one of those sissy guy are affraid to admit that they like porn. I love it! LOL My wife knows all about it hahahahaha she breaks my balls all the time.

    Like there is a guy in here that does not like pron? Pfst...please....
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    catch22 wrote:
    talk to her about your feelings? did your wife take your penis or something? ;)

    this is the perfect place to vent stuff. you can have some fun with it and move past it, get objective and amusing feedback, and not have to hurt the feelings of someone you love by a heavy conversation on a topic you're not totally serious about. where's the harm in this post? some of you all are taking this way too seriously.
    Holy Shit thank you! Very well said. You hit it right on the nose my friend!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • catch22catch22 Posts: 1,081
    I am not one of those sissy guy are affraid to admit that they like porn. I love it! LOL My wife knows all about it hahahahaha she breaks my balls all the time.

    Like there is a guy in here that does not like pron? Pfst...please....

    there is a term for men who say they don't like porn... it's "liars."
    and like that... he's gone.
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Wow Sen, not a bad idea for some. Many couples get married way to quickly. I did also, but i would not change it for the world. i have a great woman, and now i have a beautiful daughter.

    haha its something me and the guy i used to date thought up. It just seems too many people get divorced and marriage isnt what it used to be. The way everyone complains about it and all the problems they have, it confirms me not ever wanting to get married!!!! :D Im sure everyone has good times being married too but.....nobody EVER talks about that!!! And of course u have a beautiful daughter!! she watches ALMOST FAMOUS with you!!!! :D
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    catch22 wrote:
    there is a term for men who say they don't like porn... it's "liars."
    LOL :D Married men would go crazy without the variety of porn no matter how hot the wife is ;)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    catch22 wrote:
    this is the perfect place to vent stuff. you can have some fun with it and move past it, get objective and amusing feedback, and not have to hurt the feelings of someone you love by a heavy conversation on a topic you're not totally serious about. where's the harm in this post? some of you all are taking this way too seriously.

    as i wait for kid rock to perform......

    this is definitely a place where EVERYONE vents. There has been some STOOOOOOPID threads started about stuff. Then there are the serious threads where people come HERE to get their emotions or whatever out cuz u cant or dont really tell your real life frenz. Sometimes its easier here cuz its sort of open therapy and u get alot of good responses with ALOT of badd ones!!!! If u can take both, i say speak your mind!!!! And as u said sort of, its better to say it HERE rather than get into an argument THERE. With that being said......KID ROCK IS UP NEXXXT!!!! WOOHOO!!!!
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  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    chadwick wrote:
    not hardly.
    so why don't you go talk to her about your feelings on this issue?
    tell her you are dead serious, you want many women.
    go tell her that.
    tell her you are very serious, look her in the eyes, go do it.
    you have a great deal of shit spewing out of your keyboard dude.
    it's farely entertaining @ best.
    in my humble opinion here's a prophecy for you, i see a divorce in your near future.
    brace yourself my friend, it isn't pretty.


    Take it you've been down that road (divorce) before? Maybe it's because you are so f'ing judgemental?

    Look, the guy isn't completely serious. If he was, I'm sure he'd have done something outside of his marriage. This is a f'ing message board. It's anonymous. Calm down. The heavy majority (if not all) men fantasize about being with other women besides their wife. It's part of life. If I could sap that desire out of me, I'd do so in one second. But, I can't. Because it's built in. I'm not doing anything. Neither is he. He's just venting. Go scream at someone for not leaving a quarter in a parking meter or something, dude.
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    saveuplife wrote:
    Take it you've been down that road (divorce) before? Maybe it's because you are so f'ing judgemental?

    Look, the guy isn't completely serious. If he was, I'm sure he'd have done something outside of his marriage. This is a f'ing message board. It's anonymous. Calm down. The heavy majority (if not all) men fantasize about being with other women besides their wife. It's part of life. If I could sap that desire out of me, I'd do so in one second. But, I can't. Because it's built in. I'm not doing anything. Neither is he. He's just venting. Go scream at someone for not leaving a quarter in a parking meter or something, dude.

    i to was and am venting my humble opinions.
    i did not realize i was screaming.
    i did however realize i was about to tell you to go fuck yourself.
    with that said, go fuck yourself.
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    chadwick wrote:
    i to was and am venting my humble opinions.
    i did not realize i was screaming.
    i did however realize i was about to tell you to go fuck yourself.
    with that said, go fuck yourself.

    Must've hit a nerve. Little upset, are we? Awww.
  • Flannel ShirtFlannel Shirt Posts: 1,021
    LOL Hahahaha, People are reading into this way way to much! All I am saying is men should be allowed to have more then one women! Thats it! I am not gonna go cheat on my wife people! i love her to much. I have not given any details on this subject. My wife and i are fine, we are very much in love and again, we have a great relationship. I just want it to be okay to sleep with other women! LOL Isnt this what every guy wants? :D
    No. If I did, I wouldnt have gotten married. Thats the truth. I am not being passively judgemental either in saying that. To each their own.

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  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    saveuplife wrote:
    Must've hit a nerve. Little upset, are we? Awww.

    not hardly
    just havin some quality entertainment
    with a few jerk off's that's all
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    chadwick wrote:
    i did however realize i was about to tell you to go fuck yourself.
    with that said, go fuck yourself.
    Easy bro! No need for that kind of talk.
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Easy bro! No need for that kind of talk.

    what, you can't handle it?
    so go and rat me out like you did that one fuckin dude.
    that was you that got someone banned right?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    "we want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed to say."

    hey thats what i said a couple posts back!!! :D
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    LOL Hahahaha, People are reading into this way way to much! All I am saying is men should be allowed to have more then one women! Thats it! I am not gonna go cheat on my wife people! i love her to much. I have not given any details on this subject. My wife and i are fine, we are very much in love and again, we have a great relationship. I just want it to be okay to sleep with other women! LOL Isnt this what every guy wants? :D



    and all many of us are saying is SURE! but the flipside arrangement for women too. why should the husband's have all the fun and variety? ;) ALL get to play, or no game. simple. :)
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    Would you do it if it was "allowed"? I really don't get your argument. You say you wouldn't cheat on your wife and you love her very much, but it sounds like the only reason you're not screwing around is because it's not " allowed". What about your wife's feelings? If she'd ask you not to go fuck around even though it's allowed, would you do it? And why would you want it to be allowed if you wouldn't ever do it?

    Sorry, dude, but you lost me...

    You are a weird but very funny, dude :D

    I bet you're thinking ahead... :D
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  • LOL Hahahaha, People are reading into this way way to much! All I am saying is men should be allowed to have more then one women! Thats it! I am not gonna go cheat on my wife people! i love her to much. I have not given any details on this subject. My wife and i are fine, we are very much in love and again, we have a great relationship. I just want it to be okay to sleep with other women! LOL Isnt this what every guy wants? :D

    I know that and I know most people feel that way. I was just meaning if my boyfriend started this thread, I'd want to kick him in the nuts. :p
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    and all many of us are saying is SURE! but the flipside arrangement for women too. why should the husband's have all the fun and variety? ;) ALL get to play, or no game. simple. :)

    yep, all are equal.
    pretty simple shit.
    a dude isn't any better than the chic.

    i will laugh my ass right off if and when his misses ventures out a bit
    or discusses her thoughts on the sanctity of their marriage with some bullshit message board and he finds it.

    that will be quality entertainment.
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    chadwick wrote:
    what, you can't handle it?
    so go and rat me out like you did that one fuckin dude.
    that was you that got someone banned right?
    Just got back. WHAT??????
    I have no fucking idea what you are talking about guy? Who got banned?
    I am not that type of guy. I don't tell on people like a pussy got it? Don't accuse me of something i did not do again!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Collin wrote:
    Would you do it if it was "allowed"? I really don't get your argument. You say you wouldn't cheat on your wife and you love her very much, but it sounds like the only reason you're not screwing around is because it's not " allowed". What about your wife's feelings? If she'd ask you not to go fuck around even though it's allowed, would you do it? And why would you want it to be allowed if you wouldn't ever do it?

    Sorry, dude, but you lost me...

    You are a weird but very funny, dude :D

    I bet you're thinking ahead... :D



    well isn't THAT the REAL issue. it IS allowed, right now. there is NO law that says you cannot have sexual relations with numerous people after mariage. sure, it can be used in divorce proceedings, it IS socially frowned upon, etc. but there ARE fringe groups/couples who live this very lifestyle. beyond that, we also know of the numerous people who DO so with their partners none the wiser. so it really comes down to is wanting it BE 'socially acceptible'.....so he just can. :D hell, 200 years ago i was more than likely the norm for men to bed as many women as they like, even after marriage...while the wives turned a blind eye, and/or didn't care. w/o birth control being tied to the home, no social or financial rights of their own...the wife more than likely married to a man she didn't love in any case, she was probably happpy for the break. now that we more often than not marry for LOVE.....and there IS much more equality in relationships, women have choice and can leave......fidelity has gained more and more acceptance and to be 'expected.' so yes....today is WAY better imo. :) but that 'allowing' factor...is still there...you just need to respet your partner and ASK, preferably before you marry ;).....and either have an open marriage or one of fidelity...depending what you BOTH want, or choose another partner. simple.
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    Let's just breathe...


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  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Just got back. WHAT??????
    I have no fucking idea what you are talking about guy? Who got banned?
    I am not that type of guy. I don't tell on people like a pussy got it? Don't accuse me of something i did not do again!


    hhmmm..if i am mistaken i am sorry
    (i have been known to be wrong, it is rare but it has happened) :D
    i must have gotten you mixed up with someone else
    if that is the case i retract my assumption

    i will leave you be
    and dude, good luck
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    well isn't THAT the REAL issue. it IS allowed, right now. there is NO law that says you cannot have sexual relations with numerous people after mariage. sure, it can be used in divorce proceedings, it IS socially frowned upon, etc. but there ARE fringe groups/couples who live this very lifestyle. beyond that, we also know of the numerous people who DO so with their partners none the wiser. so it really comes down to is wanting it BE 'socially acceptible'.....so he just can. :D hell, 200 years ago i was more than likely the norm for men to bed as many women as they like, even after marriage...while the wives turned a blind eye, and/or didn't care. w/o birth control being tied to the home, no social or financial rights of their own...the wife more than likely married to a man she didn't love in any case, she was probably happpy for the break. now that we more often than not marry for LOVE.....and there IS much more equality in relationships, women have choice and can leave......fidelity has gained more and more acceptance and to be 'expected.' so yes....today is WAY better imo. :) but that 'allowing' factor...is still there...you just need to respet your partner and ASK, preferably before you marry ;).....and either have an open marriage or one of fidelity...depending what you BOTH want, or choose another partner. simple.

    I would not want to have that type of relationship with my wife. That type of lifestyle is not for me, group sex with other swingers i mean. No thanks, This is all for fun really, just thinking out loud.
    Some in here are way to serious
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    a couple of pages back, someone said this is anonymous. it's not. many users give details, post pics and have met each other at concerts.

    acoustic guy might be joking or kidding around, but if his wife was nosey and read stuff on his computer, I doubt she would find it funny.
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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    I would not want to have that type of relationship with my wife. That type of lifestyle is not for me, group sex with other swingers i mean. No thanks, This is all for fun really, just thinking out loud.
    Some in here are way to serious

    hey! whats wrong with SWINGERS!!!! :eek:
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    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    well isn't THAT the REAL issue. it IS allowed, right now. there is NO law that says you cannot have sexual relations with numerous people after mariage. sure, it can be used in divorce proceedings, it IS socially frowned upon, etc. but there ARE fringe groups/couples who live this very lifestyle. beyond that, we also know of the numerous people who DO so with their partners none the wiser. so it really comes down to is wanting it BE 'socially acceptible'.....so he just can. :D hell, 200 years ago i was more than likely the norm for men to bed as many women as they like, even after marriage...while the wives turned a blind eye, and/or didn't care. w/o birth control being tied to the home, no social or financial rights of their own...the wife more than likely married to a man she didn't love in any case, she was probably happpy for the break. now that we more often than not marry for LOVE.....and there IS much more equality in relationships, women have choice and can leave......fidelity has gained more and more acceptance and to be 'expected.' so yes....today is WAY better imo. :) but that 'allowing' factor...is still there...you just need to respet your partner and ASK, preferably before you marry ;).....and either have an open marriage or one of fidelity...depending what you BOTH want, or choose another partner. simple.


    very well stated
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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