The last two pages are entirely too serious. The guy is obviously not going to cheat on his wife. He's just like "ALL" other guys. Yes, even the magical guys that some of you lady jammers married. We are all human. We all have desires (even if they are well hidden). And when a guy sees a hot chick walking down the street, he may think to himself.... wow I'd like to do her. That doesn't mean he would. Girls, obviously, may think the same.
Bottom line, if he was presented with an open invite from his wife to bang any chicka he wanted, I'm betting he wouldn't. I know that I wouldn't. But, that doesn't mean I (he) don't think it would be fun (hence the point of the thread). I think it would have a cost (hurting my wife) and that cost is not worth it.
From the way I took the thread, he was jokingly saying he thinks it would be good to allow this. Then a bunch of people got their collective panties in a bunch. It's not for real, he didn't do anything, so please settle. This is not a law that's being passed through congress.... it's a f'ing message board. So, you have nothing to worry about. Chillax.
A lot of guys marry women that don't really LOVE sex...
Because they are not the ones you marry.
Why? Because the men are too insecure to believe that the women who REALLY love sex would ever be faithful to them... because they are not secure enough with their own manhood. They don't believe a sexually charged woman could ever really be satisfied by them and keep just coming back to them for more and more and more...
They want a woman that they think will "always be there" for them and in turn wind up with a woman who is not really "there for them"? in one of the most important ways of all.
If you want a woman who can get REALLY freaky with you...why wouldn't you marry one of those?
A lot of guys marry women that don't really LOVE sex...
Because they are not the ones you marry.
Why? Because the men are too insecure to believe that the women who REALLY love sex would ever be faithful to them... because they are not secure enough with their own manhood. They don't believe a sexually charged woman could ever really be satisfied by them and keep just coming back to them for more and more and more...
They want a woman that they think will "always be there" for them and in turn wind up with a woman who is not really "there for them"? in one of the most important ways of all.
If you want a woman who can get REALLY freaky with you...why wouldn't you marry one of those?
This baffles me.
I think i answered my question a few lines up.
However... i still find the phenomenon amazing.
this is remarkable insight! Well done!
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A lot of guys marry women that don't really LOVE sex...
Because they are not the ones you marry.
Why? Because the men are too insecure to believe that the women who REALLY love sex would ever be faithful to them... because they are not secure enough with their own manhood. They don't believe a sexually charged woman could ever really be satisfied by them and keep just coming back to them for more and more and more...
They want a woman that they think will "always be there" for them and in turn wind up with a woman who is not really "there for them"? in one of the most important ways of all.
If you want a woman who can get REALLY freaky with you...why wouldn't you marry one of those?
This baffles me.
I think i answered my question a few lines up.
However... i still find the phenomenon amazing.
precisely for the reasons you listed. we know how much we want to bang other girls, and it's spooky to think she might be as tempted as we are for 2 reasons:
1. it is WAY easier for a girl to get laid. period. so the wife would have 10 times as many opportunities as we did. if guys had as many opportunities as any reasonably attractive woman does, they'd all cheat. but we have to make the moves most of the time, so cheating is just too much work and too dangerous. not so for a woman. so a freak in bed is a dangerous bet, because not only is she as horny and wild as we are, she can act on that much more easily than we can. makes our position very precarious.
2. it is much harder to please women sexually, and if she's as freaky in bed and eager for new things as a guy, she's going to find them and quite possibly find a guy to leave us for. women are all pretty much the same for sex, like dante says in clerks. we might stray, but we'll come back. but as i said earlier, if the woman is a freak in bed and strays and finds a guy who can one-up her man, then she's going to leave the guy in the cold.
guys know deep down we are animals. if we have a woman who might be as bad as we are, that's not a reassuring thought. we only stay faithful because we're afraid of your anger, and we know that even if she cheated, we'd somehow end up the bad guy for it in any argument. we're outgunned!
precisely for the reasons you listed. we know how much we want to bang other girls, and it's spooky to think she might be as tempted as we are for 2 reasons:
1. it is WAY easier for a girl to get laid. period. so the wife would have 10 times as many opportunities as we did. if guys had as many opportunities as any reasonably attractive woman does, they'd all cheat. but we have to make the moves most of the time, so cheating is just too much work and too dangerous. not so for a woman. so a freak in bed is a dangerous bet, because not only is she as horny and wild as we are, she can act on that much more easily than we can. makes our position very precarious.
2. it is much harder to please women sexually, and if she's as freaky in bed and eager for new things as a guy, she's going to find them and quite possibly find a guy to leave us for. women are all pretty much the same for sex, like dante says in clerks. we might stray, but we'll come back. but as i said earlier, if the woman is a freak in bed and strays and finds a guy who can one-up her man, then she's going to leave the guy in the cold.
guys know deep down we are animals. if we have a woman who might be as bad as we are, that's not a reassuring thought. we only stay faithful because we're afraid of your anger, and we know that even if she cheated, we'd somehow end up the bad guy for it in any argument. we're outgunned!
Just 'cos a women is a freak in the bedroom, does that make her more likely to stray from a commited relationship? I'm not sure thats true. If a woman is going to stray 'cos of sex, then she was gonna do it anyway.
1. it is WAY easier for a girl to get laid. period. so the wife would have 10 times as many opportunities as we did. if guys had as many opportunities as any reasonably attractive woman does, they'd all cheat. but we have to make the moves most of the time, so cheating is just too much work and too dangerous. not so for a woman. so a freak in bed is a dangerous bet, because not only is she as horny and wild as we are, she can act on that much more easily than we can. makes our position very precarious.
2. it is much harder to please women sexually, and if she's as freaky in bed and eager for new things as a guy, she's going to find them and quite possibly find a guy to leave us for. women are all pretty much the same for sex, like dante says in clerks. we might stray, but we'll come back. but as i said earlier, if the woman is a freak in bed and strays and finds a guy who can one-up her man, then she's going to leave the guy in the cold.
I find that logic totally skewed.
BECAUSE.... Most all women have a freaky side. They are just waiting for the right man to bring it out.
If the sex is hum drum for you...
It is for them too.
Women with hum drum sex lives end up cheating and/or leaving.
of course it is. i'm not saying it makes sense. i'm just explaining why guys get nervous about committing to girls that seem as horny and sex addicted as we are because we know what we're capable of and we sure as hell don't want to marry someone who is the same! we know we're not a safe bet
precisely for the reasons you listed. we know how much we want to bang other girls, and it's spooky to think she might be as tempted as we are for 2 reasons:
1. it is WAY easier for a girl to get laid. period. so the wife would have 10 times as many opportunities as we did. if guys had as many opportunities as any reasonably attractive woman does, they'd all cheat. but we have to make the moves most of the time, so cheating is just too much work and too dangerous. not so for a woman. so a freak in bed is a dangerous bet, because not only is she as horny and wild as we are, she can act on that much more easily than we can. makes our position very precarious.
2. it is much harder to please women sexually, and if she's as freaky in bed and eager for new things as a guy, she's going to find them and quite possibly find a guy to leave us for. women are all pretty much the same for sex, like dante says in clerks. we might stray, but we'll come back. but as i said earlier, if the woman is a freak in bed and strays and finds a guy who can one-up her man, then she's going to leave the guy in the cold.
guys know deep down we are animals. if we have a woman who might be as bad as we are, that's not a reassuring thought. we only stay faithful because we're afraid of your anger, and we know that even if she cheated, we'd somehow end up the bad guy for it in any argument. we're outgunned!
of course it is. i'm not saying it makes sense. i'm just explaining why guys get nervous about committing to girls that seem as horny and sex addicted as we are because we know what we're capable of and we sure as hell don't want to marry someone who is the same! we know we're not a safe bet
Yeah... but the chick who isn't getting what she really wants deep down (all the pun in the world INTENDED)... well there's a good chance she will eventually realize that and cheat and/or split. Probably both.... cheat with the guy that can really do it for her and then leave the guy for THAT guy.
So what makes you guys think that a sexually SATISFIED woman is more likely to cheat than an UNSATISFIED woman?
The woman that loves to fuck you more than life itself is more than likely going to stick to you better than the one who is close to indifferent about fucking you!
Sex is the foundation of most adult relationships. If it's humdrum and boring then it's usually down to lack of effort and imagination from BOTH parties. I think that some men are too eager to blame this on their partners. They need to take the initiative to change things themselves. Surprise your ladies boys
Yeah... but the chick who isn't getting what she really wants deep down (all the pun in the world INTENDED)... well there's a good chance she will eventually realize that and cheat and/or split. Probably both.... cheat with the guy that can really do it for her and then leave the guy for THAT guy.
So what makes you guys think that a sexually UNSATISFIED woman is more likely to cheat than a SATISFIED woman?
The woman that loves to fuck you more than life itself is more than likely going to stick to you better than the one who is close to indifferent about fucking you!
Men=silly. :rolleyes:
that's the point. guys know no one woman will ever totally satisfy them and they'll always wonder about other girls. so a girl as horny as us is a risk because are we won't always satisfy her forever. it's human nature. the difference is, it's more work for a guy to cheat and you could end up with a chick who gets possessive and wrecks your marriage. women can wave their finger and find a guy to fuck them. so it's a huge risk with a high-libido woman. one bad week on your part and you could lose her forever. a lot of pressure to always have the a-game. thus, safer to have a girl who is just grateful to have the week off.
Sex is the foundation of most adult relationships. If it's humdrum and boring then it's usually down to lack of effort and imagination from BOTH parties. I think that some men are too eager to blame this on their partners. They need to take the initiative to change things themselves. Surprise your ladies boys
For the record, don't tie a spider to your junk and try to act out any Miss Muffet fantasies. That didn't go over well at all.
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huh?
i am as relaxed as could be.
and what exactly in my post required a thesaurus?
this whole thread is messing around...and that's cool. just don't get your panties in a bunch if some of us enjy discussing it seriously.
it does indeed go both ways.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
You're taking this way too seriously. Relax...
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You can't tell someone to relax after they just told you to relax. It's a sign of weakness. You'll probably learn this in college.
Because they are not the ones you marry.
Why? Because the men are too insecure to believe that the women who REALLY love sex would ever be faithful to them... because they are not secure enough with their own manhood. They don't believe a sexually charged woman could ever really be satisfied by them and keep just coming back to them for more and more and more...
They want a woman that they think will "always be there" for them and in turn wind up with a woman who is not really "there for them"? in one of the most important ways of all.
If you want a woman who can get REALLY freaky with you...why wouldn't you marry one of those?
This baffles me.
I think i answered my question a few lines up.
However... i still find the phenomenon amazing.
Calmer than you are.
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Impressive retort.
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Actually it was pretty good if he's quoting what I think he's quoting.
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awesome
and yep, i didn't see one speck of your message that required such a book
as a thesaurus to help guide your wording.
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I am tired; my heart is
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no more forever."
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Lebowski; I know. That's why I said what I said.
this is remarkable insight! Well done!
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and Metsy!
Got'cha. Sarcasm detector is on the fritz...
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precisely for the reasons you listed. we know how much we want to bang other girls, and it's spooky to think she might be as tempted as we are for 2 reasons:
1. it is WAY easier for a girl to get laid. period. so the wife would have 10 times as many opportunities as we did. if guys had as many opportunities as any reasonably attractive woman does, they'd all cheat. but we have to make the moves most of the time, so cheating is just too much work and too dangerous. not so for a woman. so a freak in bed is a dangerous bet, because not only is she as horny and wild as we are, she can act on that much more easily than we can. makes our position very precarious.
2. it is much harder to please women sexually, and if she's as freaky in bed and eager for new things as a guy, she's going to find them and quite possibly find a guy to leave us for. women are all pretty much the same for sex, like dante says in clerks. we might stray, but we'll come back. but as i said earlier, if the woman is a freak in bed and strays and finds a guy who can one-up her man, then she's going to leave the guy in the cold.
guys know deep down we are animals. if we have a woman who might be as bad as we are, that's not a reassuring thought. we only stay faithful because we're afraid of your anger, and we know that even if she cheated, we'd somehow end up the bad guy for it in any argument.
That's right, Dude, they peed on your fucking rug.
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I find that logic totally skewed.
BECAUSE.... Most all women have a freaky side. They are just waiting for the right man to bring it out.
If the sex is hum drum for you...
It is for them too.
Women with hum drum sex lives end up cheating and/or leaving.
Sexually satisfied women much more likely to
1. Not stray
and
2. Stay.
of course it is. i'm not saying it makes sense. i'm just explaining why guys get nervous about committing to girls that seem as horny and sex addicted as we are
i strongly disagree
but that's nothing new
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Yeah... but the chick who isn't getting what she really wants deep down (all the pun in the world INTENDED)... well there's a good chance she will eventually realize that and cheat and/or split. Probably both.... cheat with the guy that can really do it for her and then leave the guy for THAT guy.
So what makes you guys think that a sexually SATISFIED woman is more likely to cheat than an UNSATISFIED woman?
The woman that loves to fuck you more than life itself is more than likely going to stick to you better than the one who is close to indifferent about fucking you!
Men=silly. :rolleyes:
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
that's the point. guys know no one woman will ever totally satisfy them and they'll always wonder about other girls. so a girl as horny as us is a risk because are we won't always satisfy her forever. it's human nature. the difference is, it's more work for a guy to cheat and you could end up with a chick who gets possessive and wrecks your marriage. women can wave their finger and find a guy to fuck them. so it's a huge risk with a high-libido woman. one bad week on your part and you could lose her forever. a lot of pressure to always have the a-game. thus, safer to have a girl who is just grateful to have the week off.
For the record, don't tie a spider to your junk and try to act out any Miss Muffet fantasies. That didn't go over well at all.
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that's the thing right there.
boys trying to surprise, ect, ect, their ladies.
men?
hhmm interesting isn't?
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce