Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......
And we can take it from there....
WHATEVER YOU DO... JUST PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO KEEP ME IN THE DARK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES LIKE I'M SOME WEAK AND NONSEXUAL BEING THAT COULDN'T HANDLE IT. BUT THEN POST ALL ABOUT IT ON SOME MESSAGE BOARD!!
ENDULGE IT!
ENDULGE ME!
...whatever....guys either get it or they don't. :(
...many women love sex and love the fact that they have a sexual man in their lives.
Hail Hail!!
Amen!
But....if you ask me my thoughts and fantasies and I tell you? don't be all upset and turn your back on me when the thoughts and fantasies are 1)not of you and 2)dirtier than you ever expected. Don't ask if you expect my answers to be innocent, soft core. I dated one guy who thought it was some cool, kinky pillow talk to ask about certain things and being comfortable enough with myself and him, I told him. He was mortified to find out I wasn't the Virgin Mary. Women are sexual beings too, very much so.
believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......
And we can take it from there....
WHATEVER YOU DO... JUST PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO KEEP ME IN THE DARK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES LIKE I'M SOME WEAK AND NONSEXUAL BEING THAT COULDN'T HANDLE IT. BUT THEN POST ALL ABOUT IT ON SOME MESSAGE BOARD!!
ENDULGE IT!
ENDULGE ME!
...whatever....guys either get it or they don't. :(
...many women love sex and love the fact that they have a sexual man in their lives.
Hail Hail!!
What she said :cool:
Yeah - that seems to be the issue here for me. NOT that men fantasize about other women and want variety. No mystery there. It's the belief that women don't want the same things. Oh silly silly boys
But....if you ask me my thoughts and fantasies and I tell you? don't be all upset and turn your back on me when the thoughts and fantasies are 1)not of you and 2)dirtier than you ever expected. Don't ask if you expect my answers to be innocent, soft core. I dated one guy who thought it was some cool, kinky pillow talk to ask about certain things and being comfortable enough with myself and him, I told him. He was mortified to find out I wasn't the Virgin Mary. Women are sexual beings too, very much so.
hell yeah! someone posted a while back that this is the reason men like porn. ummmm....some women like porn too Seriously - it's not all rose petals on pillows that gets us off - sure there can be a time and a place for that...but there's also a place for fantasies that can make a grown man blush
hell yeah! someone posted a while back that this is the reason men like porn. ummmm....some women like porn too Seriously - it's not all rose petals on pillows that gets us off - sure there can be a time and a place for that...but there's also a place for fantasies that can make a grown man blush
Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.
believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......
And we can take it from there....
i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman. i've seen whole parties ruined because some chick sees her dude eyeing another girl at a party and freaks and makes a huge scene. no girl i have ever known has been turned on by her guy talking about other girls. they get insecure and whiny or just righteously angry and pissed off and make you pay for it.
i can guarantee you 95% of the guys on here speaking from experience dating women will tell you you do NOT talk about other girls that you're attracted to with your mate... EVER! at least not if you want to get laid or have a week that isn't a living hell as she wreaks vengeance on you for your mental infidelity.
also, you bring up honestly a very serious topic...but oh no! you can ONLY discuss it as a joke! all too serious! damn, just discussing it is 'serious'...? what, are all the guys supposed to come on in here, pat each other on the back and laugh...and say yea man...exactly! and all women are supposed to ignore...or just agree? then it'll be 'fun'...? damn....quite a few weighed in saying hey...a-ok.....just got to give to get, all play, etc.....why is that too serious?
hey, it isn't his fault! people were ready to string him up from post one, so he HAS to say he's joking. double standard discussion or not, the second anyone brings up the idea that maybe it's ok for someone to have action on the side not with their s.o. people hit the fucking roof. i suspect it's because most of them are either terrified of their s.o. doing this or have some religious thing where they pass judgment on any lustful pervy sinner who would dare consider casual sex to be fun.
he was backpedaling from moment one because people couldn't line up fast enough to tell him what a scumbag he was... and not just because of the double standard thing. just for floating the idea that maybe it's not SO bad to have sex with more than one person.
i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman. i've seen whole parties ruined because some chick sees her dude eyeing another girl at a party and freaks and makes a huge scene. no girl i have ever known has been turned on by her guy talking about other girls. they get insecure and whiny and cry-ey.
i can guarantee you 95% of the guys on here speaking from experience dating women will tell you you do NOT talk about other girls that you're attracted to with your mate... EVER! at least not if you want to get laid or have a week that isn't a living hell as she wreaks vengeance on your mental infidelity.
All depends on the PERSON, dewd. Everything you're sayin' about girls could be said about a great many boys. Most PEOPLE are insecure about that stuff and would freak out if they caught their partner/mate/whatever scopin' out some foreign ass.
All depends on the PERSON, dewd. Everything you're sayin' about girls could be said about a great many boys. Most PEOPLE are insecure about that stuff and would freak out if they caught their partner/mate/whatever scopin' out some foreign ass.
oh, no doubt. guys are 10 times as bad. i've seen twice as many parties ruined because some drunk dude starts a fight because his girl was flirting with some other guy. but at least in this thread, all the guys are saying girls shouldn't do this anyway the girls are all in here acting like they're totally cool with their guy leering at other women and they want to hear all about it and egg him on and i think that is pure bullshit.
i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman.
Two questions...one honest and second sarcastic.
1. Honestly...if you would care to respond? Approximately how old are you?
2. Who the hell have you been hanging out with???
And...for the record... ha... cyberspace.
For many, many, many of us... this board is ANYTHING but anonymous!!!
oh, no doubt. guys are 10 times as bad. i've seen twice as many parties ruined because some drunk dude starts a fight because his girl was flirting with some other guy. but at least in this thread, all the guys are saying girls shouldn't do this anyway the girls are all in here acting like they're totally cool with their guy leering at other women and they want to hear all about it and egg him on and i think that is pure bullshit.
Well for me it's the difference between reality and fantasy. I don't want him out there trying to sleep with girls behind my back. That's just gonna put a wedge of mistrust in our relationship. And at this point in my life and in my relationship I'm not down with an open relationship either. But as to the fantasy of it - yeah I'm all for hearing about that...and sharing my own. I think those are 2 very different things....and being open with fantasies can build trust - cause you're not being all guilty and sneaky about it. I don't want him to lie about being attracted to someone else - like you said before - unless you don't have a pulse, chances are you've felt attraction for someone besides your partner.
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think about myself
And then there she was
Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had too much caffeine
And I was thinkin' 'bout myself
And then there she was
In platform double suede
Yeah there she was
Like disco lemonade
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
Yeah mama this must be my dream
anyhoo....from MY reading if gtfgirl's posts, i seem to recall her stating to share your ideas, and experiences that you had outside her presence..and then gave the girl on the subway scenario. so she did not suggest that a woman finds a man ignoring her and oogling another woman in her presnece sexy...i don't think many would, and most would find it disrespectful....altho like ANYthing, i am sure there are many who DO like it. humiliation IS quite a popular, even if underground...sexual fantasy. point is, it's sharing thoughts.....not actions. and yes, again, any woman confident in herself, her sexual identity, her relationship...doesn't feel 'threatened' by such. on the contrary...it's another degree of intimacy..sharing such thoughts. if one wants to think BS, so be it...doesn't change the fact that it IS true, for many.
btw - i keep reading 'poor acoustic'...being read the riot act for this thread. um...no? i've read SOME posts, sure...but the bulk actually discuss the TOPIC...and NOT HIM! and hello....you start a thread and even admit the 'double-standard' of it's premise...wtf would you expect anyway? i am sure, either way...he's enjoying the laughs...and even if he isn't, i couldn't care less. it ain't 'all about him'....or you, gentlemen...about time you got over it.
1. Honestly...if you would care to respond? Approximately how old are you?
2. Who the hell have you been hanging out with???
And...for the record... ha... cyberspace.
For many, many, many of us... this board is ANYTHING but anonymous!!!
ANYTHING BUT!!!!
Anyone want to vouch that i am the real me??
Can you see the real me?????
1. i can tell you exactly how old i am: 26.
2. what do you want? names and addresses? these are old college friends, professional coworkers, fellow law students, other people and friends from all walks of life and all ages. this isn't like my high school drama team or anything. i'm not sure what you were looking for... some way to pigeonhole me, i'm sure. so let's see what you can come up with.
i'm sure you're the real you, i just suspect you are vastly simplifying and overstating things here, as i have been in various points of this thread. i find it almost impossible to believe you are the only human being utterly immune to jealousy and insecurity and that it never bothers you in the least to hear someone you love talking in detail about how badly they want to fuck other people. if that is the case, hats off to you. you're a rare specimen. but to most of us guys trying to get laid in the real world, it's all about playing the odds. and the odds are that unless you want to have a REALLY bad week, when you're with your girl, you check other girls out VERY discreetly and you keep your mouth shut about finding any of them attractive.
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think about myself
And then there she was
Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had too much caffeine
And I was thinkin' 'bout myself
And then there she was
In platform double suede
Yeah there she was
Like disco lemonade
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
Yeah mama this must be my dream
end of quote (I screwed up my quoting!)
that's a good song. I lied though. I don't eat candy and have sex!
but I do want it all, not necessarily together!
9/98, 9/00 - DC, 4/03 - Pitt., 7/03 - Bristow, 10/04 - Reading, 10/05 - Philly, 5/06 - DC, 6/06 - Pitt., 6/08 - Va Beach, 6/08 - DC, 5/10 - Bristow, 10/13 B'more
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
btw - i keep reading 'poor acoustic'...being read the riot act for this thread. um...no? i've read SOME posts, sure...but the bulk actually discuss the TOPIC...and NOT HIM! and hello....you start a thread and even admit the 'double-standard' of it's premise...wtf would you expect anyway? i am sure, either way...he's enjoying the laughs...and even if he isn't, i couldn't care less. it ain't 'all about him'....or you, gentlemen...about time you got over it.
my point was look at ladygoddiva, chadwick, allie, and others who just couldn't wait to judge him a scumbag for his only half serious thoughts, thus his backpedaling into "hey guys, im just joking! quit acting like i pissed on your mother!" there are a number of us having an interesting discussion about it all, but i don't blame the dude for taking the joking route. some of the people around here seemed damn near ready to cut his balls off, hehe.
Comments
men are a little more than just silly
i know plenty of em
many i know or don't even know are pretty fuckin stupid
silly and fuckin stupid are not the same thing
if i wanted to go into huge details i could give you a list of fuckin stupid
shit dudes have done and continue on doing
i myself am a man and i see, hear alot of it
im not impressed all that much i can tell ya that
you women are pretty fuckin far from perfect yourselves
as a whole, people are pretty fucked up and fulla shit
however, for the most part people are decent
does that make sense? does to me
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Sure it makes sense....
But I'm not supposed to be posting on this thread!!
yeah me either
i said i was leavin it a few times
told the OP i'd leave him alone a few times to, that didn't happen either
oh well, free country internet thingy web
fuck em
im here...or not
either way im cool
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Amen!
But....if you ask me my thoughts and fantasies and I tell you? don't be all upset and turn your back on me when the thoughts and fantasies are 1)not of you and 2)dirtier than you ever expected. Don't ask if you expect my answers to be innocent, soft core. I dated one guy who thought it was some cool, kinky pillow talk to ask about certain things and being comfortable enough with myself and him, I told him. He was mortified to find out I wasn't the Virgin Mary. Women are sexual beings too, very much so.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
Yeah - that seems to be the issue here for me. NOT that men fantasize about other women and want variety. No mystery there. It's the belief that women don't want the same things. Oh silly silly boys
Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
that's what acoustic is looking for, i think you're set
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Nah...I think she'd scare the hell out of him!
:eek:
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
funny stuff flychic
poor lil mr. acoustic
i think the poor guy has been beat down to a bloody nub
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman. i've seen whole parties ruined because some chick sees her dude eyeing another girl at a party and freaks and makes a huge scene. no girl i have ever known has been turned on by her guy talking about other girls. they get insecure and whiny or just righteously angry and pissed off and make you pay for it.
i can guarantee you 95% of the guys on here speaking from experience dating women will tell you you do NOT talk about other girls that you're attracted to with your mate... EVER! at least not if you want to get laid or have a week that isn't a living hell as she wreaks vengeance on you for your mental infidelity.
Whiz has no time for your bullshit, gents.
::calls in WHEB and requests Maneater::
hey, it isn't his fault! people were ready to string him up from post one, so he HAS to say he's joking. double standard discussion or not, the second anyone brings up the idea that maybe it's ok for someone to have action on the side not with their s.o. people hit the fucking roof. i suspect it's because most of them are either terrified of their s.o. doing this or have some religious thing where they pass judgment on any lustful pervy sinner who would dare consider casual sex to be fun.
he was backpedaling from moment one because people couldn't line up fast enough to tell him what a scumbag he was... and not just because of the double standard thing. just for floating the idea that maybe it's not SO bad to have sex with more than one person.
hey I want it all!
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
oh, no doubt. guys are 10 times as bad. i've seen twice as many parties ruined because some drunk dude starts a fight because his girl was flirting with some other guy. but at least in this thread, all the guys are saying girls shouldn't do this anyway
Two questions...one honest and second sarcastic.
1. Honestly...if you would care to respond? Approximately how old are you?
2. Who the hell have you been hanging out with???
And...for the record... ha... cyberspace.
For many, many, many of us... this board is ANYTHING but anonymous!!!
ANYTHING BUT!!!!
Anyone want to vouch that i am the real me??
Can you see the real me?????
sometimes, things I say are not the REAL me, they are sarcastic.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
Those are the best kind
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
I've just let it all hang out in this ridiculous thread!!
But tell me..... You don't want it all?
I especially want candy and sex at the same time.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
Good answer.
oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had so much time
To sit and think about myself
And then there she was
Like double cherry pie
Yeah there she was
Like disco superfly
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Hangin' round downtown by myself
And I had too much caffeine
And I was thinkin' 'bout myself
And then there she was
In platform double suede
Yeah there she was
Like disco lemonade
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
I smell sex and candy here
Who's that lounging in my chair
Who's that casting devious stares
In my direction
Mama this surely is a dream
Mama this surely is a dream
Yeah mama this must be my dream
anyhoo....from MY reading if gtfgirl's posts, i seem to recall her stating to share your ideas, and experiences that you had outside her presence..and then gave the girl on the subway scenario. so she did not suggest that a woman finds a man ignoring her and oogling another woman in her presnece sexy...i don't think many would, and most would find it disrespectful....altho like ANYthing, i am sure there are many who DO like it. humiliation IS quite a popular, even if underground...sexual fantasy.
btw - i keep reading 'poor acoustic'...being read the riot act for this thread. um...no? i've read SOME posts, sure...but the bulk actually discuss the TOPIC...and NOT HIM! and hello....you start a thread and even admit the 'double-standard' of it's premise...wtf would you expect anyway?
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
1. i can tell you exactly how old i am: 26.
2. what do you want? names and addresses? these are old college friends, professional coworkers, fellow law students, other people and friends from all walks of life and all ages. this isn't like my high school drama team or anything. i'm not sure what you were looking for... some way to pigeonhole me, i'm sure. so let's see what you can come up with.
i'm sure you're the real you, i just suspect you are vastly simplifying and overstating things here, as i have been in various points of this thread. i find it almost impossible to believe you are the only human being utterly immune to jealousy and insecurity and that it never bothers you in the least to hear someone you love talking in detail about how badly they want to fuck other people. if that is the case, hats off to you. you're a rare specimen. but to most of us guys trying to get laid in the real world, it's all about playing the odds. and the odds are that unless you want to have a REALLY bad week, when you're with your girl, you check other girls out VERY discreetly and you keep your mouth shut about finding any of them attractive.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
my point was look at ladygoddiva, chadwick, allie, and others who just couldn't wait to judge him a scumbag for his only half serious thoughts, thus his backpedaling into "hey guys, im just joking! quit acting like i pissed on your mother!" there are a number of us having an interesting discussion about it all, but i don't blame the dude for taking the joking route. some of the people around here seemed damn near ready to cut his balls off, hehe.