Is 35 or 40 too old to have kids?

Spunkie
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edited October 2023 in All Encompassing Trip
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  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    I think it's after 40 that women start having problems with carrying children. (I could be wrong though).

    What does good health care have to do with it?
  • redrock
    redrock Posts: 18,341
    Why? What does being able to afford good healthcare come into play? Not trying to be difficult or anything, but if you are healthy at 40, there is no problem having a kid. Is it then OK being 25 but not in great health and having a kid if you don't have good healthcare?
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    tish wrote:
    I mean, I just figure it's game over at 35 unless you can afford really good health care. That number is like doomsday.

    um, everyone who's having a kid should have really good health care.

    there's no "doomsday number." Obviously it is different for every individual. some people pop out kids perfectly fine when they're 40. Other people are at high risk at 35.
  • pj10alive42
    pj10alive42 Posts: 381
    tish wrote:
    I mean, I just figure it's game over at 35 unless you can afford really good health care. That number is like doomsday.

    My mother gave birth to me when she was 41 and I cant honestly answer that question. I think I may be retarded, but nobody wants to tell me.
    I'm trying to drink away the part of the day I cannot sleep away...
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    I think it's after 40 that women start having problems with carrying children. (I could be wrong though).

    What does good health care have to do with it?


    after 30 you get tested for Downs and other such bad stuff..

    health care means a lot more in the US than here Kelis.. we get it free here.. but in the US you have to pay for it?!??
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Hawkshore
    Hawkshore Posts: 2,185
    pj10alive42 wrote:
    My mother gave birth to me when she was 41 and I cant honestly answer that question. I think I may be retarded, but nobody wants to tell me.

    The first step is always recognizing you have a problem ....your on your way! :)
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  • redrock
    redrock Posts: 18,341
    dunkman wrote:
    health care means a lot more in the US than here Kelis.. we get it free here.. but in the US you have to pay for it?!??
    True.. forgot about that.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    pj10alive42 wrote:
    My mother gave birth to me when she was 41 and I cant honestly answer that question. I think I may be retarded, but nobody wants to tell me.

    i'll tell you. you are retarded. :p:D
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  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    dunkman wrote:
    after 30 you get tested for Downs and other such bad stuff..

    health care means a lot more in the US than here Kelis.. we get it free here.. but in the US you have to pay for it?!??

    usually yes you have to pay for health care (insurance or out of pocket), but there are many nuances. I think for any pregnant woman there is adequate care provided for by some means. Plenty of low income women who may not have insurance receive prenatal care.
  • pj10alive42
    pj10alive42 Posts: 381
    catefrances wrote:
    i'll tell you. you are retarded. :p:D

    Fuck...now I gotta call my mom.
    I'm trying to drink away the part of the day I cannot sleep away...
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    dunkman wrote:
    after 30 you get tested for Downs and other such bad stuff..

    health care means a lot more in the US than here Kelis.. we get it free here.. but in the US you have to pay for it?!??

    Fair enough on the second point. (F*n weird country) :) but I was tested for all kinds of things when I was pregnant. (Including a risk of down syndrome).

    What kind of weird country do you Americans live in??? These thing should be free in AMERICA!!! :rolleyes:

    (Okay. You're right, dunkman).
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    usually yes you have to pay for health care, but there are many nuances. I think for any pregnant woman there is adequate care provided for by some means. Plenty of low income women who may not have insurance receive prenatal care.

    all my children were born within the public health system here in australia and though i may be biased they are all fabulous. i walked out of the hospital with treasure and paid not a cent for it.


    ALL HAIL A SOCIALISED HEALTH SYSTEM!!!! :D:D
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  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Hawkshore wrote:
    The first step is always recognizing you have a problem ....your on your way! :)

    Why do you think you're retarded?
  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    dunkman wrote:
    after 30 you get tested for Downs and other such bad stuff..

    health care means a lot more in the US than here Kelis.. we get it free here.. but in the US you have to pay for it?!??

    Hell, I'm Canadian otherwise known as: WeAllFair.
    I was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef 
    Animals were hiding behind the Coral 
    Except for little Turtle
    I could swear he's trying to talk to me 
    Gurgle Gurgle
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Fair enough on the second point. (F*n weird country) :) but I was tested for all kinds of things when I was pregnant. (Including a risk of down syndrome).

    What kind of weird country do you Americans live in??? These thing should be free in AMERICA!!! :rolleyes:

    (Okay. You're right, dunkman).

    the truth is it's not really "free" anywhere. under any system trade offs are made. in canada for example people often have to wait for extensive periods to receive "free" care and often people such as the elderly are made to wait longer or are denied in favor of someone else.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    pj10alive42 wrote:
    Fuck...now I gotta call my mom.

    dont bother... she already knows. :p:D:D
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  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    edited October 2023
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Fair enough on the second point. (F*n weird country) but I was tested for all kinds of things when I was pregnant. (Including a risk of down syndrome).

    What kind of weird country do you Americans live in??? These thing should be free in AMERICA!!! :rolleyes:

    (Okay. You're right, dunkman).

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    Post edited by Spunkie on
    I was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef 
    Animals were hiding behind the Coral 
    Except for little Turtle
    I could swear he's trying to talk to me 
    Gurgle Gurgle
  • pj10alive42
    pj10alive42 Posts: 381
    catefrances wrote:
    dont bother... she already knows. :p:D:D

    Damn cate, you are ruthless...I like that.

    -Chuck
    I'm trying to drink away the part of the day I cannot sleep away...
  • Hawkshore
    Hawkshore Posts: 2,185
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Why do you think you're retarded?


    :confused: I didn't think so....but maybe I’ am because I have no fuckin clue where your comment is coming from? :p
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  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    tish wrote:
    Did you have a boy or girl? How old were you when pregnant. Please don't tell your kid I kicked the buttpoo out of you. :)

    I was 26. I didn't have to wait for anything.

    I did read today though, that my town has one of the best maternity care systems in England.

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