Why do gay people think they can say whatever they want?

nuffingman

Heineken Helen wrote:

Although perhaps it's because I'd already made fun of his sunglasses in the pub and his fake tan that he thought it best to just leave it well enough alone Hmm... perhaps I'M gay? :eek:

Wearing sunglasses in a pub deserves derision in great quantities.... but taking the piss of his false tan...your heartless.

yosi1

dunkman wrote:

Ali G used to show up that defensive strategy very well when he said "is it cos I is black" whenever someone went against him.

Well, we all know that it is the case that people only disagreed with him because he's black.

Heineken Helen

stu gee wrote:

I agree. I dont have a problem with gay people personally, but the idea of it naturally makes me feel sick, i cant help that. People are sometimes outraged when you speak like that as they try to demonstrate how accepting and righteous they are but im just being honest. I cant help my natural reactions.

I think it's better to be honest, no matter how bad the honesty is, than to keep something bottled up or deny your true feelings . Yeh, a lot of people may give you shit for it. I don't agree with ya but I appreciate your honesty and fuck those who think you should just think what they think anyway.

AND while quite a few men are extremely comfortable with their sexuality... I think it's funny if you even talk about going to a gay bar and some of them think they won't get out of there walking straight :eek: . I always look at them and think 'don't bloody flatter yourself'

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

1. what the hell does that even mean?

2. it's the lisp. it makes any words spoken sound so fucking ridiculous nobody can possibly be offended becos inside they're laughing at what a fop the speaker sounds like.

what does what mean?

and yeh, he did have a bit of a lisp

Heineken Helen

nuffingman wrote:

Wearing sunglasses in a pub deserves derision in great quantities.... but taking the piss of his false tan...your heartless.

I'll take the piss out of anyone and I normally do and I'm normally in situations where people just take the piss out of eachother which is why I think I noticed the other night cos nobody would take the piss back... and it was just HIM taking the piss

yosi1

Heineken Helen wrote:

I'll take the piss out of anyone and I normally do and I'm normally in situations where people just take the piss out of eachother which is why I think I noticed the other night cos nobody would take the piss back... and it was just HIM taking the piss

I think you should just admit it Helen, you hate gays.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

what does what mean?

and yeh, he did have a bit of a lisp

the "insult?" you look better standing up? how is that an insult? what does it even mean?

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

well it COULD be the case I suppose... but I think nuffingman's on to something also. Actually more I think of it, the more I think he might be right . Hmmmmmmm

oh so he's right.. i said the same as him in my first post!!!!!!


fucking hell

*storms off in huff*

stu gee

Heineken Helen wrote:

I think it's better to be honest, no matter how bad the honesty is, than to keep something bottled up or deny your true feelings . Yeh, a lot of people may give you shit for it. I don't agree with ya but I appreciate your honesty and fuck those who think you should just think what they think anyway.

AND while quite a few men are extremely comfortable with their sexuality... I think it's funny if you even talk about going to a gay bar and some of them think they won't get out of there walking straight :eek: . I always look at them and think 'don't bloody flatter yourself'

I dont have a problem talking, or to be more honest and accurate, joking, about it with my friends, but just the physical thought of it makes me feel less than comfortable.

yosi1

Heineken Helen wrote:

I'll take the piss out of anyone and I normally do and I'm normally in situations where people just take the piss out of eachother which is why I think I noticed the other night cos nobody would take the piss back... and it was just HIM taking the piss

Just thought I'd point out that you said "take the pis" four times in about 3 sentences.

dunkman

dunkman wrote:

and this is what your thread should be called... gay people say what they want and yet the person takes the insult... and the reason is that the only insult they can quickly think of back is "hey jobbyjabber, go suck a pink one" and this is deemed unlawful... if she had shat in his face then the police would have laughed and gave her a certificate.. take the piss out of him being gay and she'd be put into Auswitch knitting socks for the policemen.

translated this meant that its ok for a gay guy to take the piss cos if she had taken the piss out of him back then he'd have played the "oh its cause i'm gay..." card

Heineken Helen

yosi wrote:

I think you should just admit it Helen, you hate gays.

Trust me, I don't. They fascinate me. If I was in the least bit bothered by any of it, I would have no problem saying anything (as most of you probably know)... but they always seem to be so interesting and just the best conversationalists.

I was the only one talking back to him... so I think that proves I was the only non homophobe in the pub Saturday night

soulsinging, he was saying she looked fat.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

I think it's better to be honest, no matter how bad the honesty is, than to keep something bottled up or deny your true feelings . Yeh, a lot of people may give you shit for it. I don't agree with ya but I appreciate your honesty and fuck those who think you should just think what they think anyway.

AND while quite a few men are extremely comfortable with their sexuality... I think it's funny if you even talk about going to a gay bar and some of them think they won't get out of there walking straight :eek: . I always look at them and think 'don't bloody flatter yourself'

i think a lot of straight people, guys especially, have been strongly influenced by old prejudices about homosexuals. they think it's just a purely sexual thing and that gay men are all like the worst kind of frat boy only for men instead of co-eds. they figure they're only gay becos they love the sex and care about nothing more than having as much of it as possible. i know it kinda surprised my gf to hear one of her gay co-workers talking about his type. she had never thought about gay people having a type of person they want to date like the rest of us... becos all she ever heard about was how disgusting gay sex is she kinda never thought beyond that aspect of the relationship and figured gay people would take whatever they can get or any offer they get. that's why your friends figure a gay bar would have them leaving walking funny... they figure those horny homos will see virgin ass and just have to have a piece. it never enters their head that those guys might not find them attractive.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

soulsinging, he was saying she looked fat.

im not seeing the connection, but if you say so. that's pretty weak. you should have kicked his ass for a lack of wit.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

i think a lot of straight people, guys especially, have been strongly influenced by old prejudices about homosexuals. they think it's just a purely sexual thing and that gay men are all like the worst kind of frat boy only for men instead of co-eds. they figure they're only gay becos they love the sex and care about nothing more than having as much of it as possible. i know it kinda surprised my gf to hear one of her gay co-workers talking about his type. she had never thought about gay people having a type of person they want to date like the rest of us... becos all she ever heard about was how disgusting gay sex is she kinda never thought beyond that aspect of the relationship and figured gay people would take whatever they can get or any offer they get. that's why your friends figure a gay bar would have them leaving walking funny... they figure those horny homos will see virgin ass and just have to have a piece. it never enters their head that those guys might not find them attractive.

yep, a lot of guys seem to be of that impression too. I've been lucky I suppose cos I've always had gay friends, even in school. Probably my best gay school friend though, I lost touch with him for a few years and we met last year for drinks and stuff and he's become SO camp. He was always let's say obviously gay anyway but now he's just men men men and that's all he talks about . It's quite funny but having not seen him for so long it was actually like drinking with someone I didn't really know (he used to pretend he was straight back then... but we all knew)

yosi1

Heineken Helen wrote:

Trust me, I don't. They fascinate me. If I was in the least bit bothered by any of it, I would have no problem saying anything (as most of you probably know)... but they always seem to be so interesting and just the best conversationalists.

I was the only one talking back to him... so I think that proves I was the only non homophobe in the pub Saturday night

Only kidding.

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

soulsinging, he was saying she looked fat.

which was probably true.. see i dont get this.

my wife thinks its bad that i call people "fat bastards"... not the bastard bit but the fat bit. why??? they are fucking fat.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

im not seeing the connection, but if you say so. that's pretty weak. you should have kicked his ass for a lack of wit.

it's easier to hold your stomach in when you're standing up and you look thinner! This is pretty much common knowledge The three of us (my friend and his boyfriend) all looked at eachother like 'did he really just say that?' :eek:

nuffingman

dunkman wrote:

oh so he's right.. i said the same as him in my first post!!!!!!


fucking hell

*storms off in huff*

Drama queen!

dunkman

nuffingman wrote:

Drama queen!

you are such a bitch!!!

its my manicure time darlings... see ya