Meeting the parents...

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

is this the same dude u have to fly to see every week? lol

Nope... he's just my bit on the side :cool:

Heineken Helen

small town beck wrote:

:eek:

Well how could they NOT love ya???

Good point

MuaH!!!!!!!!

NY PJ1

Heineken Helen wrote:

Nope... he's just my bit on the side :cool:

does he pay at least?

this gets more sad by the minute

so let me understand ... he just sits in his town and u fly to see him all the time ??


lmao im sorry

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

does he pay at least?

this gets more sad by the minute

so let me understand ... he just sits in his town and u fly to see him all the time ??


lmao im sorry

Nope... he comes over here too, did ya not see where I mentioned he's meeting MY family in 2 weeks? :rolleyes:

Besides, it's so cheap over there... I actually spend less money on the weekend than I would staying at home and going out ONE night

Apology accepted besides... you'd know ALL about sad, eh?

urbanhippie

NY PJ1 wrote:

does he pay at least?

this gets more sad by the minute

so let me understand ... he just sits in his town and u fly to see him all the time ??


lmao im sorry

It's called being in love


And Helen, they'll love you...if they're like their kids... Take wine

NY PJ1

Heineken Helen wrote:

Nope... he comes over here too, did ya not see where I mentioned he's meeting MY family in 2 weeks? :rolleyes:

Besides, it's so cheap over there... I actually spend less money on the weekend than I would staying at home and going out ONE night

Apology accepted besides... you'd know ALL about sad, eh?

believe it or not i dont read all of your stuff ,so no, i must of missed that

ah yes, justify it by saying its cheap ... :rolleyes:

the spending less money comment i believe
100 pints can be expensive

NY PJ1

urbanhippie wrote:

It's called being in love


And Helen, they'll love you...if they're like their kids... Take wine

lol no comment

being in love? lol then move somewhere and be together instead of
flying back and forth to wherever all the time

this is 2 people hooking up on the weekend and doing whatever during the week

quite the relationship

ok helen,, honestly enjoy ,, whatever floats your boat

Heineken Helen

urbanhippie wrote:

It's called being in love : )


And Helen, they'll love you...if they're like their kids... Take wine

it's ok... he wouldn't know much about that! From the beginning I've been of the opinion that once it starts feeling tedious there'd be no point... but it just gets better and better. Even if it's not to be, I wouldn't regret any of this cos if you ask me what I want to be doing this weekend... my answer would be exactly what I WILL be doing . Some people don't understand, bless!

Anyway, I have no need to defend us

urbanhippie

NY PJ1 wrote:

lol no comment

being in love? lol then move somewhere and be together instead of
flying back and forth to wherever all the time

this is 2 people hooking up on the weekend and doing whatever during the week

quite the relationship

ok helen,, honestly enjoy ,, whatever floats your boat

So....?
Thats what me and my b/f do too... Circumstances dictate when we can see each other. Doesn't mean its not a commitment.




Besides, I've seen these two together...Tis love alright

fanch75

Show up with a copy of the new Whitesnake album, Good To Be Bad, and just start jamming.

That will win over any parent and any that aren't won over, aren't worth trying for.

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

being in love? lol then move somewhere and be together instead of
flying back and forth to wherever all the time

that's the plan but for reasons I'll keep to myself (mainly money/work related, one of us could be much richer soon) we can't do that JUST yet but thanks for your advice.

NY PJ1

urbanhippie wrote:

So....?
Thats what me and my b/f do too... Circumstances dictate when we can see each other. Doesn't mean its not a commitment.




Besides, I've seen these two together...Tis love alright

and im sure he isnt doing anything when you're not around either :rolleyes:

urbanhippie

NY PJ1 wrote:

and im sure he isnt doing anything when you're not around either :rolleyes:

And so am I

Heineken Helen

fanch75 wrote:

Show up with a copy of the new Whitesnake album, Good To Be Bad, and just start jamming.

That will win over any parent and any that aren't won over, aren't worth trying for.

thanks fanch... I'll take your advice :eek: I'm sure HE'D find it funny anyway!

And I agree with your last bit. I will make an effort towards his family... a big one... BUT I'm going out with him, not his parents!

fanch75

Heineken Helen wrote:

thanks fanch... I'll take your advice :eek: I'm sure HE'D find it funny anyway!

And I agree with your last bit. I will make an effort towards his family... a big one... BUT I'm going out with him, not his parents!

You want them to like you, especially if you eventually go the big "M" route someday, which is the eventuality of nearly all for-life-type relationships.

Heineken Helen

fanch75 wrote:

You want them to like you, especially if you eventually go the big "M" route someday, which is the eventuality of nearly all for-life-type relationships.

Oh I agree... of course I want them to like me and I want to like them... cos it makes life SOOOOOOOOOOO much easier and we've talked about most of this pretty thoroughly

Heineken Helen

urbanhippie wrote:

So....?
Thats what me and my b/f do too... Circumstances dictate when we can see each other. Doesn't mean its not a commitment.




Besides, I've seen these two together...Tis love alright

Thanks besides, I think the one thing some people fail to grasp is that over here flying is like getting on a bus

urbanhippie

Heineken Helen wrote:

Thanks besides, I think the one thing some people fail to grasp is that over here flying is like getting on a bus : )

LOL yep

And I DO get the bus.... On Monday :eek:

Heineken Helen

urbanhippie wrote:

LOL yep : )

And I DO get the bus.... On Monday :eek : ; ) : D

Oh really? :eek: the flying bus or the regular bus?

urbanhippie

Heineken Helen wrote:

Oh really? :eek: the flying bus or the regular bus?

Nah, just the regular bus


Anyway thread integrity Not quite at the meeting parents stage yet, but I feel your anxiety too... I'm sure I'll be a nervous wreck