What's the point of getting married these days?

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  • Urban Hiker
    Urban Hiker Posts: 1,312
    I haven't read the entire thread yet, but I'll say


    Health Insurance!!


    I'm sure my husband and I would have married anyhow, but we did when we did, 'cause he needed health insurance. :o
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  • Linda
    Linda Posts: 1,656
    noisy mind wrote:
    hey everybody. haven't had time to read everything. oh, there's no reason to get married.....ever. okay take care. gotta go. my wife's coming.


    :D

    btw, lyrics??
    i'm not happy yet.....
  • writersu
    writersu Posts: 1,867
    well, I think it can signify a deep committment for two people. For some, it is the necessary, acceptable means for them to start a family together. For others, it is a step they are expected to take from their own family as a sign of maturity. For women, those who have never been married and perhaps those who would fall in this catagory, it is a right of society as in you were "chosen" by a man. None of those reasons are 100% true for everyone nor are they reasons that should be why you get married.

    Many people here are young and very intelligent in terms of sensitivity, relationships and love. I really applaud most of you because you seem to respect your others whether they are wives, gfs, husbands or boyfriends.
    In my age group, I have seen more people complain constantly about their others as if they are so restrained by these people that they only bitch about. But you know, (think SNL, "da bears") I live in Chicago where I must say very few men are really evolved. (If you live here and are my age group, and also disagree, I apologize because I have not met you so I do not know this about you............)

    Other than that, no hurry unless you need to wed before you have kids. Why burn the soup? (what???????)
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  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    evil....

    you get married b/c you need a woman to cook and clean for you

    and to do your "warsh"

    lol

    a wife who will bring you your slippers when you sink into your recliner after a hard day at the office and she'll greet you at the door with a smile on her face and a ribbon in her hair (and she'll keep the kids quiet b/c she knows you had a hard day at work)
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  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    iluvcats wrote:
    evil....

    you get married b/c you need a woman to cook and clean for you

    and to do your "warsh"

    lol

    a wife who will bring you your slippers when you sink into your recliner after a hard day at the office and she'll greet you at the door with a smile on her face and a ribbon in her hair (and she'll keep the kids quiet b/c she knows you had a hard day at work)

    :eek:

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