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  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Yeah. That's what we said.
    but i never did say anything about me acting like a prick though.... where'd she get that from?

    i only said i would ignore her... that's not being a prick, is it?
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    NO! That's completely wrong! Fuckin' hell! Are you all single, by any chance? :)
    i tell you this.... being a "bad boy" has gotten me laid more than being a "nice boy".
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    but i never did say anything about me acting like a prick though.... where'd she get that from?

    i only said i would ignore her... that's not being a prick, is it?

    No... it turned into a conversation about the idea of 'Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen'... it's not really a reflection on you.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    i tell you this.... being a "bad boy" has gotten me laid more than being a "nice boy".

    It's up to you. If you just want to get laid. Carry on doing what you've always done. If it's not working, then I and I'm sure no other woman on here will try and help you trick her into bed.
  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    No... it turned into a conversation about the idea of 'Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen'... it's not really a reflection on you.
    well, you did say that i suggested being a prick to her so maaybe she'll like me.
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    well, you did say that i suggested being a prick to her so maaybe she'll like me.

    No, Soulsinging did.. but it was a rash generalisation. He does that. He was referring to the ignoring thing... I guess giving the 'cold shoulder' is being a prick in a passive way. Maybe he thought that's what you meant. No big deal.... conversation's past. We're now talking about MCKB slapping my meat.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    but i never did say anything about me acting like a prick though.... where'd she get that from?

    i only said i would ignore her... that's not being a prick, is it?

    Sorry... Yes. Ignoring a woman because she only wants to be your friend is being a prick. If you're okay with being a prick, then fine.

    ...This seems like an odd question to me. :o
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    This thread gives me a migraine.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    It's up to you. If you just want to get laid. Carry on doing what you've always done. If it's not working, then I and I'm sure no other woman on here will try and help you trick her into bed.
    well, i'm not talking about tricking women into bed either. is there really such a thing? if there are no drugs involved, it's always the two of them who are responsible when getting into bed.
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    AmentsChick wrote:
    This thread gives me a migraine.

    Would you like an Ibuprofen?
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Would you like an Ibuprofen?

    Got anything stronger?
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Got anything stronger?

    A mallet?
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    well, i'm not talking about tricking women into bed either. is there really such a thing? if there are no drugs involved, it's always the two of them who are responsible when getting into bed.

    This thread is very long... What do you really want? A relationship or a shag?
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    This thread is very long... What do you really want? A relationship or a shag?

    To be fair on the guy, I don't think it's HIS fault this is a long thread. ;):D
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Sorry... Yes. Ignoring a woman because she only wants to be your friend is being a prick. If you're okay with being a prick, then fine.

    ...This seems like an odd question to me. :o
    i don't know... there's something not clicking here.

    it's not your fault though. i guess, what i'm trying to say is... that i don't want to be "just friends". and being the nice guy that you talk about will not get me any closer. it's like reverse-psychology... it's part of being human. and for some odd reason it's what triggers something inside a women's brain that makes them respond to it.

    i'm not suggesting being a prick. and i guess when we're speaking about it there's like a very thin line when it comes to ignoring and being a prick. all i know is that we both have feelings. and being the guy that chases her around while she's chasing the other guy around will not make things any better for either one of us. in fact, there are much more chances of actually going out with this girl if i go on with my life than i would chasing her around.
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    This thread is very long... What do you really want? A relationship or a shag?
    that's none of your business ;):D

    or what about having both?
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    that's none of your business ;):D

    or what about having both?

    Surely a good relationship means the best of both worlds..
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • deadnothingbetter
    deadnothingbetter Posts: 2,202
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Surely a good relationship means the best of both worlds..
    totally
    This isn't the land of opportunity, it's the land of competition.
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    deadnothingbetter wrote:
    it's not your fault though. i guess, what i'm trying to say is... that i don't want to be "just friends". and being the nice guy that you talk about will not get me any closer. it's like reverse-psychology... it's part of being human. and for some odd reason it's what triggers something inside a women's brain that makes them respond to it.

    Only sexually. Being tough won't last, the same as being physically attractive, bud. :)

    I can't speak for her. Everyone is different, that's why I think honesty is the best policy. If you tell her you really like her, genuinely, she'll either run a mile, in which case it was not meant to be, or let her think about it for a while and she'll realise you're the right one for her. You can't do any more than that. :)

    No woman on this board can speak for her! You should know her better than the rest of us!

    What is it about this other guy that she really likes, anyway? :confused:
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Sorry... Yes. Ignoring a woman because she only wants to be your friend is being a prick. If you're okay with being a prick, then fine.

    ...This seems like an odd question to me. :o

    how is he supposed to be a real friend to her if he has feelings for her and wants her for himself? how is he supposed to be cool and supportive of her and her relationship when he wants nothing more than for her to drop the other guy and come to him? i know this is incredibly easy for women to do, but men cannot do it. we cannot fake sympathy and support to someone's face while resenting them behind their back as easily as you.

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