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  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    They're telling you to 'allow yourself to be vulnerable'...

    ..and I'm always getting 'be less vulnerable.' :rolleyes:

    You can't win.

    well of course not, it's common knowledge women want what they can't have... if you're sensitive, you need to toughen up. if you're hard, you need to be vulnerable ;) they want it all how they want it when they want it... cos they're selfish ;) guys... we want her to be supportive, sexy, and a kinky whore in bed... cos we're selfish!
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    soulsinging wrote:
    10 to 1 if he does what i suggested, she'll have her legs wrapped around him in a matter of days. if he gives her some wilty "i really like you" bullshit over the phone, she will say "that's great, but i like this other guy... let me tell you about how much i love him and how mean he is to me and how hard it is to find a decent guy."

    cynicism and bitterness are words used by the naive to discredit realism.

    Absolutely! But will it last? When the bad boy thing get's old, will she stick around? And don't say 'who cares'? because I'm not talking about you. :)
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    soulsinging wrote:
    well of course not, it's common knowledge women want what they can't have... if you're sensitive, you need to toughen up. if you're hard, you need to be vulnerable ;)

    That's your problem then and you know it! Some women just look for honesty. Pureness and I'm not just talking about myself. You guys are completely deluded! (Sorry Mark! XXX :D)
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Absolutely! But will it last? When the bad boy thing get's old, will she stick around? And don't say 'who cares'? because I'm not talking about you. :)

    Well she's going to scarper even earlier if he's acting like the wilty sensitive guy.... remember the dreaded friendzone? At least if he acts like a dick he'll have fun for a while, that's all one can hope for.....
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Absolutely! But will it last? When the bad boy thing get's old, will she stick around? And don't say 'who cares'? because I'm not talking about you. :)

    if it's an act just to get in with her, then he can shed the bad boy thing later to keep her around. regardless though, he's got a better shot of her sticking around if he can get in the door than he does if he ends up sitting there in the friend-zone while she asks his advice about how to seduce and entice other guys.
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    That's your problem then and you know it! Some women just look for honesty. Pureness and I'm not just talking about myself. You guys are completely deluded! (Sorry Mark! XXX :D)

    pureness?

    i am honest. i'm being very honest here. one of my old gf's used to say i was one of the most genuine people she ever knew. again, what has that got to do with anything?
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    That's your problem then and you know it! Some women just look for honesty. Pureness and I'm not just talking about myself. You guys are completely deluded! (Sorry Mark! XXX :D)

    It's no problem. I don't apologise for the way I am. And for the record, you're deluded as well :D...... Honesty? Pureness? No, those things really haven't served me very well. They've got me a lot of friends but I may as well be gay if that's what I've been looking for.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    soulsinging wrote:
    if it's an act just to get in with her, then he can shed the bad boy thing later to keep her around. regardless though, he's got a better shot of her sticking around if he can get in the door than he does if he ends up sitting there in the friend-zone while she asks his advice about how to seduce and entice other guys.

    It's like looking at my post in a mirror....
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Well there you go. Thanks guys. Now I've sank to your level. :(

    But I haven't because I'm not naive and although I know deep down people are selfish, I also know people can be very good sometimes as well.
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    It's like looking at my post in a mirror....

    but ten years later if you don't grow up! :)
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    but ten years later if you don't grow up! :)

    I'll probably have given up on women altogether in ten years. I certainly won't be writing about them. ;)
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Well there you go. Thanks guys. Now I've sank to your level. :(

    But I haven't because I'm not naive and although I know deep down people are selfish, I also know people can be very good sometimes as well.

    Hey man, didn't mean to upset you. Shit I'm doing a lot of that tonight.

    People do good things, sometimes, no doubt. I'd like to think I try and do good for others.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Hey man, didn't mean to upset you. Shit I'm doing a lot of that tonight.

    People do good things, sometimes, no doubt. I'd like to think I try and do good for others.


    Bloody Ell !!! You two sod off!
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    If you want and thats all, be good looking, maybe witty. That's all that matters.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    If you want and thats all, be good looking, maybe witty. That's all that matters.

    Well I'm both of those things.

    :cool:
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Bloody Ell !!! You two sod off!

    Oh sod off you cheeky devil, you!

    *I'm going to put the kettle on now so that I can have a cuppa*
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Oh sod off you cheeky devil, you!

    *I'm going to put the kettle on now so that I can have a cuppa*

    Don't you MEAN to say "A spot o' tea, love"
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Oh sod off you cheeky devil, you!

    *I'm going to put the kettle on now so that I can have a cuppa*

    Pour me one... there's a love.

    :D
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Well I'm both of those things.

    :cool:

    Let me re-phrase that. I meant 'If you want a SHAG and nothing more...' :D
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Don't you MEAN to say "A spot o' tea, love"

    Don't be so stereotypical with your English language use! No one really says that...

    Cor. Blimey. Governor!
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison

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