Breaking up.......

AmentsChick

korby wrote:

i been awake now for 34 hrs and havnt eaten in 3 days. no drugs here,coffee but im starting to feel better. i just took a walk to the cornerstore.

im thinking. i like this house. im gonna keep it. ill toss her shit out. and it will be all man in here. what do you say?

do you think leaving her homeless ,pennyless is cruel? considering

i wonder what the guy who did this to her thinks. if he has any sympathy at all. i doubt it. im gonna hate on him for the rest of my life

"I'm in a glass case of emotion". Sorry...had to!

(I sincerely hope that got a smile out of you!)

Gossard_Is_God

korby wrote:

i been awake now for 34 hrs and havnt eaten in 3 days. no drugs here,coffee but im starting to feel better. i just took a walk to the cornerstore.

im thinking. i like this house. im gonna keep it. ill toss her shit out. and it will be all man in here. what do you say?

do you think leaving her homeless ,pennyless is cruel? considering

i wonder what the guy who did this to her thinks. if he has any sympathy at all. i doubt it. im gonna hate on him for the rest of my life

Just come back from doctors, went in there in tears no surprise and had to argue with them to give me a prescription for my meds as i havnt had any in 4 days.

AmentsChick

Gossard_Is_God wrote:

Just come back from doctors, went in there in tears no surprise and had to argue with them to give me a prescription for my meds as i havnt had any in 4 days.

What meds?

Gossard_Is_God

AmentsChick wrote:

What meds?

anti depressants amitriptiline

rearviewmiror

korby wrote:

i been awake now for 34 hrs and havnt eaten in 3 days. no drugs here,coffee but im starting to feel better. i just took a walk to the cornerstore.

im thinking. i like this house. im gonna keep it. ill toss her shit out. and it will be all man in here. what do you say?

do you think leaving her homeless ,pennyless is cruel? considering

i wonder what the guy who did this to her thinks. if he has any sympathy at all. i doubt it. im gonna hate on him for the rest of my life

I know it hurts, but I have gotten through a lot in my life with this thought. Life isnt entirely random. If it wasn't guy x it would have been someone else. It takes 2 to tango. Everybody loses, and hating 1/2 of the problem gets people nowhere. (not that he's a decent person) Time is the only thing that helps. Either she'll be happy with the new life this mess has created or she'll miss what she lost. Either way, you'll both need that time to figure out what you can salvage.

Go all man btw, best way to feel better is to move on and be okay with yourself.

AmentsChick

If this helps anyone...I heard the following saying once when going through a breakup (the worst one, the first) and it still helps to this day...

"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

sennin

rockford wrote:

I broke up with a girl who I deeply loved about three weeks ago now. It's 3:50AM, and I still can't sleep... This still happens to me most nights. My appetite is back, and I spend less time weaping, but this is still a terrible thing to go through.

Anyway, my heart is there with you, friend.

Believe me, my good friend.....I've been there. I hit the wall pretty hard.

I spent many nights here. A few days off work. A few drunken nights camping out in the woods with some good buddies. And about 40,000 hours on my bike, hanging out at the track (which I think helped the most....by far!).

In alot of ways it helped me shape who I am today.....or maybe just revealed who I really was.

I'm always around....if you ever want to tear up Alki (or Belltown!).....go for a run....kick ass on a trivia night....sit around and jam....drinking games....of course Lisa is too....

korby

rearviewmiror wrote:

I know it hurts, but I have gotten through a lot in my life with this thought. Life isnt entirely random. If it wasn't guy x it would have been someone else. It takes 2 to tango. Everybody loses, and hating 1/2 of the problem gets people nowhere. (not that he's a decent person) Time is the only thing that helps. Either she'll be happy with the new life this mess has created or she'll miss what she lost. Either way, you'll both need that time to figure out what you can salvage.

Go all man btw, best way to feel better is to move on and be okay with yourself.

the circomstances are so completly bizarre, . i cant even explain it. life isnt completly random. this guy was not a decent person. he is scum. and he deserves the worst things happening to him. i believe in karma. he did this thing maliciously. he ruined my life. he could have picked on any woman. why did he choose mine. because he didnt like me.? i know i probly could have prevented it but i was away from home alot.karma goes around. i am strong with that philosophy. i want her to get better. and i think she will. as for him...

dontloseyourheat

I broke up with a girl this fall and am finally just getting over it.
We were together for about 6 months and she was like my best friend. The problem was, i treated her like a best friend rather than a girlfriend. Anyways, just as I am starting to get serious, she is finally getting fed up. One night she hooks up with a kid who she had a crush on for years. I didnt' eat or sleep for weeks. I lost about 15 pounds and was staying up till 6 or 7 in the morning. I kept waiting for her to come back and that made it worse cause I wasn't moving on.

It was this situation that really got me into Pearl Jam. Music was my escape, it was the only that would make the time pass.

Black would make me miss her and cry.
Nothingman would make me realize that if I had been a better bf, things would be different.
and Thumbing My Way forced me to start moving on.

Every once in a while I would listen to I'm Still Here and that would help too.

Shit sucks for awhile but the best thing to do is find something that will pass the time. As the time passes, so will the feelngs. They may seem like they won't but eventually they will.

Nothing last forever, even cold November Rain (had to throw the GnR reference in there, sorry )

soulsinging

korby wrote:

the circomstances are so completly bizarre, . i cant even explain it. life isnt completly random. this guy was not a decent person. he is scum. and he deserves the worst things happening to him. i believe in karma. he did this thing maliciously. he ruined my life. he could have picked on any woman. why did he choose mine. because he didnt like me.? i know i probly could have prevented it but i was away from home alot.karma goes around. i am strong with that philosophy. i want her to get better. and i think she will. as for him...

this sounds pretty creepy and stalker-ish dude. her get better? what did he do to her? beat her and rape her or something? you're going to throw her out for that?

soulsinging

AmentsChick wrote:

This Meredith, too. I can tell that about you already.

eh, it's like your later quote implied... i've purged myself of weakness. you fuck me and i will make you pay for it hard.

Gossard_Is_God

dontloseyourheat wrote:

I broke up with a girl this fall and am finally just getting over it.
We were together for about 6 months and she was like my best friend. The problem was, i treated her like a best friend rather than a girlfriend. Anyways, just as I am starting to get serious, she is finally getting fed up. One night she hooks up with a kid who she had a crush on for years. I didnt' eat or sleep for weeks. I lost about 15 pounds and was staying up till 6 or 7 in the morning. I kept waiting for her to come back and that made it worse cause I wasn't moving on.

It was this situation that really got me into Pearl Jam. Music was my escape, it was the only that would make the time pass.

Black would make me miss her and cry.
Nothingman would make me realize that if I had been a better bf, things would be different.
and Thumbing My Way forced me to start moving on.

Every once in a while I would listen to I'm Still Here and that would help too.

Shit sucks for awhile but the best thing to do is find something that will pass the time. As the time passes, so will the feelngs. They may seem like they won't but eventually they will.

Nothing last forever, even cold November Rain (had to throw the GnR reference in there, sorry )

Sometimes music helps you, but at the beggining, there are loads of songs that beat you up even more, you try to listen to them but the first note just tears you apart, yet you keep on tryin to listen tot them, sucks

libragirl

At least you ended it on good terms so at least you can be friends if it's not too awkward. I remember having a long term relationship and it ending very badly. I never spoke to him again. It was kind of sad.

AmentsChick

soulsinging wrote:

eh, it's like your later quote implied... i've purged myself of weakness. you fuck me and i will make you pay for it hard.

Literally or figuratively?

soulsinging

AmentsChick wrote:

Literally or figuratively?

depends on how short i am on the rent

AmentsChick

soulsinging wrote:

depends on how short i am on the rent

NICE!!!

drivingrl

Hands down the worst part of a breakup is trying to accept that the other person is not going to call.

I think I've wasted a week staring at my phone. :(

genie

Gossard_Is_God wrote:

I dont get it:), thats another thing we have in common we might both be going crazy, I keep having really really long conversaions with her in my mind, we should check into a nut house

hehe, man i thought i was honest

josevolution

I'm bumping threads from the last pg