Explain something to me, women..

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I haven't read the whole thread, but my advice is this: Don't play any silly games. You're a grown man! Just be yourself. Whether this girl wants to be with you or not, no one wants to be with someone who is insincere.

Besides, you don't know what's going on with her or what she wants, so there's no sense in trying to figure it out. Maybe even she doesn't know what she wants. Maybe she hasn't checked her email and her phone is acting up, so she didn't get either of your messages. Maybe she's just really busy. Maybe she really doesn't want to see you again. But, then again, maybe she had a great time too and she does want to see you again. Maybe she's shy. Maybe she's embarassed by how "far" she went on your first date. Maybe she really is already dating someone else (or multiple people). If they aren't in a committed relationship (i.e. she wouldn't be cheating on him), is that a problem? Or do you expect her to drop everyone else for a guy she barely knows? If you do, be sincere about that too!

I'm just sayin', if you want to contact her, contact her. Maybe she'll respond or maybe she won't. Then, next time you feel like contacting her, contact her again. Once again, maybe she'll respond and maybe she won't. But at least you won't go through life missing out on things because of silly games.

Regardless, GOOD LUCK! (And keep us posted! )

robowski

maybe she just wanted to shag - and that was all she wanted -or just someone to talk to
but i'd air dry that shit if its tight - drop it like it's hot my man

dunkman

robowski wrote:

but i'd air dry that shit if its tight - drop it like it's hot my man

i have no idea what that means.


anyhoo, in relation to this thread... i would have went down the 'gently pummel her' route... but i'm intrigued about this PJ singles website... any hot wenches from Scotland on it?

CityMouse

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..

But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?



We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..

Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..

Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???

She might just be playing hard to get. You know, the ol' 3 day rule and shit like that. her friends probably gave her shit for letting you know she likes you on the first date.

or she just changed her mind. at least she didn't say "my boyfriend has a watch just like that."

polaris

without reading the first 6 pages ... i'm guessing she was horny on the first date but probably isn't that into you ...

i would move on and let her chase you

nick1977

Wait a couple days, and give her a call to see if she wants to go to dinner or get drinks.

No IM'ing or texting. That is the cowards way out. If you want to say something to someone, give them a call and tell them. I'm showing my age here I guess.....I came of age in a day with no texting or IM, and honestly still don't understand it all that much when you can just call your friend to visit.

dunkman

nick1977 wrote:

Wait a couple days, and give her a call to see if she wants to go to dinner or get drinks.

No IM'ing or texting. That is the cowards way out. If you want to say something to someone, give them a call and tell them. I'm showing my age here I guess.....I came of age in a day with no texting or IM, and honestly still don't understand it all that much when you can just call your friend to visit.

wow... you're still bitter about the Korean War aint you old man!! In your day women also painted on their stockings using gravy.

I'm older than you btw.... btw is the internet abbreviation for by the way btw... soooo c u l8r.

nick1977

dunkman wrote:

wow... you're still bitter about the Korean War aint you old man!! In your day women also painted on their stockings using gravy.

I'm older than you btw.... btw is the internet abbreviation for by the way btw... soooo c u l8r.

haha. I don't have a problem with IM or texting in some situations....but people should not use it to say something they are afraid to say to their face, as I know many people use it in this way.

Hell, a freind of mine got dumped by a gril through a text message. What a coward! She could not break up with him to his face, or even through a phone call!

dunkman

nick1977 wrote:

haha. I don't have a problem with IM or texting in some situations....but people should not use it to say something they are afraid to say to their face, as I know many people use it in this way.

Hell, a freind of mine got dumped by a gril through a text message. What a coward! She could not break up with him to his face, or even through a phone call!

you're right... i remember how angry i got when Phil Collins dumped his wife via FAX!!!!

PatrickBateman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZChD_Gni8U

KosmicJelli

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..

But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?



We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..

Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..

Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???

Dude, CHILLAX!!!

Take it easy... its all gonna workout... dont be psycho and freak if you havent talked.... pffftttt... and Men say they dont think with their penises!!!!!

genie

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..

But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?



We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..

Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..

Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???

no. 1

maybe she just wanted you as a one night stand

no. 2

maybe she invited you back to her place, and then didn't have sex with you because she realized for some reason or another you are not for her/not her type therefore she just fell asleep on your chest and didn't do anything.

no. 3

i don't fucking know it can be anything,it can be the fact that your shirt didn't match the color of your eyes in the morning that's why i'm happy i'm a straight woman by choice and deal with simple being such as men.

just move on to another woman, don't waste your life analyzing women.

SENROCK

genie wrote:

don't waste your life analyzing women.

that is ALWAYS what i tell the guys here!!!

genie

SENROCK! wrote:

that is ALWAYS what i tell the guys here!!!

you must be getting tired of telling them, cause whenever i talk to guys about their girl problems/relationships, they always try to over analyze and in turn become very confused. silly buggers

Cree Nations

Oh she is probably playing hard to get or you may indeed be a lousy kisser but even then, its probably not why.
She will call.

Cosmo

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..

But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?



We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..

Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..

Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???

...
Why the complaint? Haven't guys been doing this to gals since the invention of genetailia?

Cree Nations

Cosmo wrote:

...
Why the complaint? Haven't guys been doing this to gals since the invention of genetailia?

awesome...invention of genetailia

LikeAnOcean

lol, people are still bumping this???

Thanks for caring for me guys.


She sent me a randon text yesterday saying she JUST got my message and was really busy this week and wants to make plans next week..

I little weird it took 4 days to get my message, but oh well. I'll see if she calls next week..

Mr. Beeks

LikeAnOcean wrote:

lol, people are still bumping this???

Thanks for caring for me guys.


She sent me a randon text yesterday saying she JUST got my message and was really busy this week and wants to make plans next week..

I little weird it took 4 days to get my message, but oh well. I'll see if she calls next week..

My man...if you meet her again and she is all over you like last time, plow that like a fucking Nebraska cornfield.

After that, you'll either be at the start of a cool relationship or the end of some fun.

Either way, life is too short as it is, summer 08 is doneski in like three weeks.

LikeAnOcean

Mr. Beeks wrote:

My man...if you meet her again and she is all over you like last time, plow that like a fucking Nebraska cornfield.

After that, you'll either be at the start of a cool relationship or the end of some fun.

Either way, life is too short as it is, summer 08 is doneski in like three weeks.

Ha ha.. Will do.