My friend was going to see Eddie last night. Since he was in Vegas, I gave him 5 Grand to gamble with. I told him I wanted it all to go on Black. Bastard! PhillyCrownOfThorns-11-2-12
lol, no way I'm calling her. At this point I'd have a complete anxiety break down if I tried to do that.
Here's a simple Idea. She knows the only reason I'm on IM is to talk to her. She made me download it.. I'll just stay logged on all night and play it cool, like "I'm interested, I'm here, please respond!"
lol, no way I'm calling her. At this point I'd have a complete anxiety break down if I tried to do that.
Here's a simple Idea. She knows the only reason I'm on IM is to talk to her. She made me download it.. I'll just stay logged on all night and play it cool, like "I'm interested, I'm here, please respond!"
No don't waste your time waiting around for her. Either be clear that you're interested (but not pushy)! or move on. You need hand!
Wait a week til you phone her. Like other people have said, if you keep texting her and she doesn't respond you can never text her again or you'll come across as a stalker. Just sit back for a few days and then contact her. If she's interested waiting a few days isn't going to hurt, but if you keep trying you run the risk of annoying her.
Paul
'06 - London, Dublin, Reading
'07 - Katowice, Wembley, Dusseldorf, Copenhagen, Nijmegen
'09 - London, Manchester, London
'12 - Manchester, Manchester, Berlin, Stockholm, Copenhagen
I wouldn't message her anymore. If she is interested in seeing you again, she will respond.
It's just odd that she seemed so into me when we went out.. maybe she's dating multiple guys? Just trying a few people out before she makes a second date decision?
It's just odd that she seemed so into me when we went out.. maybe she's dating multiple guys? Just trying a few people out before she makes a second date decision?
I've met guys like that in the past....you think they are all into you, whether you put out or not and then BAM! Nothing, no phone call, nothing. I learned the hard way only to make 1 attempt at a phone call, if they don't call back, fuck em. There is no explanation for it, I've come to that conclusion. That happened, sort of, with my boyfriend now. When we first met, he would say everynight, "call me when you get outta work" (which is 11PM) so I would then he would totally blow me off. Sooooooo, I stopped calling and didn't see him for 3 weeks. One phone call, left a message and I left it at that for him to call me back. We have been together for 1.5 years now, but it wasn't easy in the beginning.
I'm sure the right one is out there for you, just keep your head up and the search going.
Opinions are like assholes, everyones got one.
"do gay midgets come out of the cupboard"
~CreedDisease~
I'm at the same stage... Met a girl at a party (I was drunk, she was not) so we made out, w/e... She asked for my number, and has been texting me all week, which is nice (even texting me at 2:30 am to say goodnight...) Problem is, I'm out of town all next week! Hopefully I'll see her when I get back, but damn, I have the worst timing for vacation (ok, I'm seeing Ed, it's not THAT horrible haha).
Basically, I hope I can get somethin goin.
And LAO, I'd wait a few days, like everyone's said, a few days can't kill her!
Believe me, when I was growin up, I thought the worst thing you could turn out to be was normal, So I say freaks in the most complementary way. Here's a song by a fellow freak - E.V
Just communicate your thoughts and feelings with her. All you can do is be upfront and honest...if she isn't on the same page as you, it's good to at least have it out in the open instead of the constant worrying and wondering.
If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
-Oscar Wilde
Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..
But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?
We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..
Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..
Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???
another chapter in that dating life book I mentioned last thread?
personally, if I was into her...I'd try her on IM...three strikes, right?
If she ignores you on IM too, you can be sure she's ignoring you, and your confusion is over....
Don't be pushy, but try to find out what she's thinking about it all...if she's playing games, you'll know...and if she is, you can decide if you want to play along, or get out.
How did you meet? Any chance she's deciding between you and someone else/others right now?
How did you meet? Any chance she's deciding between you and someone else/others right now?
match.com.. my account expired a while back, but she winked anyways. I re-signed up and sent a little message saying hi, and she instantly sent me her IM and wanted to chat. A day later she mentioned how she really wanted to see Batman and I mentioned it was awesome and was up for seeing it again. She said lets go tonight!.. so we did and the hot date ensued..
But anyways, I'm done thinking about it. Beer sounds better right now. Beer and some PJ for old times sake.
Maybe she's just not that into you. It sounds so harsh, but some girls are really picky or just not sure what they want. Personally I have given up on trying to meet anyone for the time being, because it's been hard to find someone I really like...I'd rather wait until someone I really like finds me. I got the perfect pair of boots using this method, so I know it works.
When I'm interested in a guy, sometimes my feelings of turned on vs. turned off can vary a lot within a short time. If she liked you, but maybe had second thoughts the next day, she will probably be more likely to call you again later if you play it cool for now. It does seem a little disingenuous to make out and then not call back, but I would give her the benefit of the doubt and just assume she needs some space to decide how she wants to proceed.
If you push it now, she might move faster than she wants to, to avoid missing her chance with you. But believe me, you don't want to keep things going forever unless she really wants you too. I have realized months into a relationship that the dude was just not doing it for me, and it's much worse to figure it out then.
I hope my assessment doesn't hurt your feelings. The "he's just not that into you" possibility has helped me make sense of relationships before. You seem like a good guy from what I've read of this thread ;-) so remember that you deserve to be with someone who really wants you. As they say in Debbie country, expect the best, and hold out for it.
match.com.. my account expired a while back, but she winked anyways. I re-signed up and sent a little message saying hi, and she instantly sent me her IM and wanted to chat. A day later she mentioned how she really wanted to see Batman and I mentioned it was awesome and was up for seeing it again. She said lets go tonight!.. so we did and the hot date ensued..
But anyways, I'm done thinking about it. Beer sounds better right now. Beer and some PJ for old times sake.
match? ya, she's dating multiple guys....good luck man, enjoy your beers
Just communicate your thoughts and feelings with her. All you can do is be upfront and honest...if she isn't on the same page as you, it's good to at least have it out in the open instead of the constant worrying and wondering.
Yeah, but my feelings for her are based on just knowing her for a few hours.. By now I'm sure she is not on the same page. I just thought it was odd the date went so well. If she was expecting more out of me on the first date, I sure wasn't expecting I was supposed to give it to her. I have my urges, but don't expect that out of somebody I barely know.
But like I said above, I'm done thinking about it.
Maybe she's just not that into you. It sounds so harsh, but some girls are really picky or just not sure what they want. Personally I have given up on trying to meet anyone for the time being, because it's been hard to find someone I really like...I'd rather wait until someone I really like finds me. I got the perfect pair of boots using this method, so I know it works.
When I'm interested in a guy, sometimes my feelings of turned on vs. turned off can vary a lot within a short time. If she liked you, but maybe had second thoughts the next day, she will probably be more likely to call you again later if you play it cool for now. It does seem a little disingenuous to make out and then not call back, but I would give her the benefit of the doubt and just assume she needs some space to decide how she wants to proceed.
If you push it now, she might move faster than she wants to, to avoid missing her chance with you. But believe me, you don't want to keep things going forever unless she really wants you too. I have realized months into a relationship that the dude was just not doing it for me, and it's much worse to figure it out then.
I hope my assessment doesn't hurt your feelings. The "he's just not that into you" possibility has helped me make sense of relationships before. You seem like a good guy from what I've read of this thread ;-) so remember that you deserve to be with someone who really wants you. As they say in Debbie country, expect the best, and hold out for it.
Melissa
The assessment doesn't hurt at all. Although she did seem really into me, but you may be right that she had second thoughts the next day and my best chance is laying low..
But, yeah, I'm done thinking about it tonight........
The assessment doesn't hurt at all. Although she did seem really into me, although you may be right that she had second thoughts the next day and my best chance is laying low..
But, yeah, I'm done thinking about it tonight........
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Girls just love messing with us. lol
But it's true and I'm sure they will say the same about us.
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Any of you girls got plans tonight?
Whatcha gonna do LAO???
Yea I say IM her if she is on. What's the worst that could happen. You only have one life so I say go for it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azddGazTvv0
Its the comeback girl and 3inputchick show!!
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My friend was going to see Eddie last night. Since he was in Vegas, I gave him 5 Grand to gamble with. I told him I wanted it all to go on Black. Bastard! PhillyCrownOfThorns-11-2-12
Here's a simple Idea. She knows the only reason I'm on IM is to talk to her. She made me download it.. I'll just stay logged on all night and play it cool, like "I'm interested, I'm here, please respond!"
There's a constant ringing in my ears
Sense of humor's void and numb
And I'm bored to tears.......
Oh thank you.
I'm so glad I picked Companion Animal Resource and Adoption Center or (CARAC) for short. For the Milwaukee Ed preparty.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zqa44fpwa0
No time like the present.
'06 - London, Dublin, Reading
'07 - Katowice, Wembley, Dusseldorf, Copenhagen, Nijmegen
'09 - London, Manchester, London
'12 - Manchester, Manchester, Berlin, Stockholm, Copenhagen
"do gay midgets come out of the cupboard"
~CreedDisease~
10/27/06
I've met guys like that in the past....you think they are all into you, whether you put out or not and then BAM! Nothing, no phone call, nothing. I learned the hard way only to make 1 attempt at a phone call, if they don't call back, fuck em. There is no explanation for it, I've come to that conclusion. That happened, sort of, with my boyfriend now. When we first met, he would say everynight, "call me when you get outta work" (which is 11PM) so I would then he would totally blow me off. Sooooooo, I stopped calling and didn't see him for 3 weeks. One phone call, left a message and I left it at that for him to call me back. We have been together for 1.5 years now, but it wasn't easy in the beginning.
I'm sure the right one is out there for you, just keep your head up and the search going.
"do gay midgets come out of the cupboard"
~CreedDisease~
10/27/06
Basically, I hope I can get somethin goin.
And LAO, I'd wait a few days, like everyone's said, a few days can't kill her!
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
-Oscar Wilde
She saw all of your White Sux shit dude.
Or yeah, you're a bad kisser.
personally, if I was into her...I'd try her on IM...three strikes, right?
If she ignores you on IM too, you can be sure she's ignoring you, and your confusion is over....
Don't be pushy, but try to find out what she's thinking about it all...if she's playing games, you'll know...and if she is, you can decide if you want to play along, or get out.
How did you meet? Any chance she's deciding between you and someone else/others right now?
But anyways, I'm done thinking about it. Beer sounds better right now. Beer and some PJ for old times sake.
When I'm interested in a guy, sometimes my feelings of turned on vs. turned off can vary a lot within a short time. If she liked you, but maybe had second thoughts the next day, she will probably be more likely to call you again later if you play it cool for now. It does seem a little disingenuous to make out and then not call back, but I would give her the benefit of the doubt and just assume she needs some space to decide how she wants to proceed.
If you push it now, she might move faster than she wants to, to avoid missing her chance with you. But believe me, you don't want to keep things going forever unless she really wants you too. I have realized months into a relationship that the dude was just not doing it for me, and it's much worse to figure it out then.
I hope my assessment doesn't hurt your feelings. The "he's just not that into you" possibility has helped me make sense of relationships before. You seem like a good guy from what I've read of this thread ;-) so remember that you deserve to be with someone who really wants you. As they say in Debbie country, expect the best, and hold out for it.
Melissa
match? ya, she's dating multiple guys....good luck man, enjoy your beers
But like I said above, I'm done thinking about it.
hehehe
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
But, yeah, I'm done thinking about it tonight........
next comment?
Girls just love messing with us. lol
But it's true and I'm sure they will say the same about us.