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Explain something to me, women..

LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
edited October 2013 in All Encompassing Trip
Nevermind. :D
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  • justamjustam Posts: 21,410
    You probably made her feel rejected when you didn't actually DO anything.
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    justam wrote:
    You probably made her feel rejected when you didn't actually DO anything.
    She knew I was shy and not the type of person who would do that on a first date.. I would think calling her back right away would show her I wanted more..

    She even asked me a few seconds after she started kissing me if it was ok, and I was pretty much like hell yeah!
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    You didn't put out
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,410
    I don't know, but that's what it sounds like to me.
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  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    It's that passionate look they give that hooks me everytime.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    comebackgirl wrote:
    You didn't put out
    Oh come on.. are women really like that? This girl was really down to earth.

    She can't wait until a second date?, I didn't want to push it further by accident and take a chance of getting slapped.. she was too cool of a girl.
  • release30release30 Posts: 2,051
    First off how old are you??? 15, 25, 35, or 45??




    And I'd say GO until she says STOP....;)
    Conversations getting dull
    There's a constant ringing in my ears
    Sense of humor's void and numb
    And I'm bored to tears.......
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Oh come on.. are women really like that? This girl was really down to earth.

    She can't wait until a second date?, I didn't want to push it further by accident and take a chance of getting slapped.. she was too cool of a girl.
    I was kidding - I really have no idea. I would have said maybe she didn't get your text - but you sent an email too...so I don't really know. The only thing I can think is that maybe she didn't think you were that into her.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    She's on IM right now.. I'm tempted to say something, but think my phone call and email should have been sufficiant to show I was interested.. I don't want to push it if she has other things going on in her mind..
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    Awww. that stinks- her loss!


    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Why would you ask a guy out for a first date to a movie and bar, invite him back to your place for pizza and another movie, initiate to make out with him, fall asleep with your head on his chest, give him another passionate kiss when he leaves at five in the morning with a passionate look in your eyes..

    But not respond to his phone call or email barely two days later?



    We both had a good time, she pretty much jumped all over me..

    Women confuse me. I think I'm doomed to be single the rest of my life..

    Maybe I'm a lousy kisser, or is there something else going on with this girl???
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • OffHeGoes29OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    Thats one of the reasons why "Nice Guy Dave" died......


    You need to be an ass....thats what women seem to like nowadays......
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    She's on IM right now.. I'm tempted to say something, but think my phone call and email should have been sufficiant to show I was interested.. I don't want to push it if she has other things going on in her mind..
    let me talk to her



    if you IM her you are a total loser
    you need to play hard to get now
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I was kidding - I really have no idea. I would have said maybe she didn't get your text - but you sent an email too...so I don't really know. The only thing I can think is that maybe she didn't think you were that into her.
    Yeah but If I wasn't into her why would I have called and emailed her right away? She knows I'm shy. She's a professional shrink for christs sakes.
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I was kidding - I really have no idea. I would have said maybe she didn't get your text - but you sent an email too...so I don't really know. The only thing I can think is that maybe she didn't think you were that into her.


    When girls think were not into them they get turned off so fast. But maybe we wanna take it slow this time.

    Btw I think your signature is cute. :)
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Thats one of the reasons why "Nice Guy Dave" died......


    You need to be an ass....thats what women seem to like nowadays......
    totally not true-
    just some
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:


    You need to be an ass....thats what women seem to like nowadays......


    Yea they like that guy for fun but is that what they really want?
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    Go bang her best friend that will get her attention
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Yeah but If I wasn't into her why would I have called and emailed her right away? She knows I'm shy. She's a professional shrink for christs sakes.

    Well I would definitely take that as you being interested...I'm not sure why she didn't respond. Maybe she's into games...I hate games! All you can do is let her know you had a great time and you'd like to see her again...the rest is up to her. I hope it works out for her - sounds like you really like her.
    patrickredeyes wrote:
    When girls think were not into them they get turned off so fast. But maybe we wanna take it slow this time.

    Btw I think your signature is cute. :)
    Thank you :) Which reminds me...time to update it!

    It's true...If I think someone's not interested I do get turned off very fast...but only because I don't wanna waste my time chasing someone if they have no interest in me. I don't wanna "convince" anyone they should date me - either they wanna or they don't. In the case it sounds like he made his interest pretty clear - so not really sure why she didn't respond.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • tvismyfriendtvismyfriend Posts: 2,118
    3inputchick wrote:
    Go bang her best friend that will get her attention
    I don't see how jumping out of nowhere and screaming "bang" to her best friend is going to help.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    ok, here's an idea. I don't want to be all up in her face about this, so I'm not going to call her for a second day in a row after no response to yesterdays call.

    Would a simple text message saying "Hey I'm thinking about going to a few bars in the area later on, let me know if you're interested in joining me." be ok?
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ok, here's an idea. I don't want to be all up in her face about this, so I'm not going to call her for a second day in a row after no response to yesterdays call.

    Would a simple text message saying "Hey I'm thinking about going to a few bars in the area later on, let me know if you're interested in joining me." be ok?
    no

    it sucks but this is the do nothing stage. If you do that and she does not respond you can never ever text her again.
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ok, here's an idea. I don't want to be all up in her face about this, so I'm not going to call her for a second day in a row after no response to yesterdays call.

    Would a simple text message saying "Hey I'm thinking about going to a few bars in the area later on, let me know if you're interested in joining me." be ok?
    Of course. Do what comes naturally to you - if she's the right girl for you, you're not gonna scare her away. That let's her know you'd like to see her but gives her the option to decide whether or not she wants to.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • pjtradekingpjtradeking Posts: 4,045
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ok, here's an idea. I don't want to be all up in her face about this, so I'm not going to call her for a second day in a row after no response to yesterdays call.

    Would a simple text message saying "Hey I'm thinking about going to a few bars in the area later on, let me know if you're interested in joining me." be ok?

    What have you got to lose. As far as that goes, I would IM her and just say "Hey...Did you get my message, I havent heard back from you? Anyhow, was thinking about going out for a beer, care to join me? my treat!" If she blows you off, THEN find her best friend and nail her! ;)
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  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    3inputchick wrote:
    no

    it sucks but this is the do nothing stage. If you do that and she does not respond you can never ever text her again.


    I hate these freaking games. lol
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    3inputchick wrote:
    no

    it sucks but this is the do nothing stage. If you do that and she does not respond you can never ever text her again.
    hahah - see LAO - different girls think differently about a lot of things. There's no way you can figure us out :p
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    you like this girl do you? well then call her, ask her if shed like to get together again. if she says no, or doesnt reply, then its done. or alternately you can sit around wondering and soliciting advice from pjammers and never know for sure. :D
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  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    lol..... comeback girl and I should have a radio talk show- with our views we would have a huge fan base
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    3inputchick wrote:
    lol..... comeback girl and I should have a radio talk show- with our views we would have a huge fan base
    I'm liking this idea! We would leave them still totally confused...yet riveted!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'm liking this idea! We would leave them still totally confused...yet riveted!

    He totally should not call her!
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    comebackgirl wrote:


    Thank you :) Which reminds me...time to update it!

    It's true...If I think someone's not interested I do get turned off very fast...but only because I don't wanna waste my time chasing someone if they have no interest in me. I don't wanna "convince" anyone they should date me - either they wanna or they don't. In the case it sounds like he made his interest pretty clear - so not really sure why she didn't respond.


    Glad I could remind you btw. :)
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