That's all well and good you saying don't analyse me, but the more you lay yourself bare, the more you leave it up to other people to do what they will with whatever you present them with. Some may judge you or analyse you, and as this is a democratic message board, they may well see fit to post a response or a reply to what you say, analytically or not. As long as they are not being disrespectful to you or flamming you on line, is it not their right to have an opinion too? Just a thought...
That's pefectly fine, a lot of people tell me their analysis in private messages. Sponger gave me his analysis publicly and I didn't find one bit of what he said to be respectful.
I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
I don't buy into negative stereotyping of black men at all. There are some black men that I have met who are intelligent, erudite, and very decent in character. Same as with anyone else, there are some that aren't as well.
Its tough to talk about this stuff, because right away people seem to assume the worst ...
In an earlier post when you were describing the situation with your dad, you ended your post with "and that is a good thing I guess." What did you mean by that?
I had a difficult upbringing because my biological father wasn't around. He has at least 6 children with 5 different women and wasn't terribly keen on paying child support or looking after any of us; from some of the things I've heard about him, and through the way he speaks and has spoken to me on occasion it would definitely not have been in my best interest to have had him around in my life. I probably would have been even worse!
Even if he did apologise for shit, I wouldn't want to build a father daughter relationship with him..Not out of anger or anything. I would just find it insulting if he would to try and assume the role of 'dad'. It would piss me off and I wouldn't appreciate it to be honest.
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That's pefectly fine, a lot of people tell me their analysis in private messages. Sponger gave me his analysis publicly and I didn't find one bit of what he said to be respectful.
Its tough to talk about this stuff, because right away people seem to assume the worst ...
I had a difficult upbringing because my biological father wasn't around. He has at least 6 children with 5 different women and wasn't terribly keen on paying child support or looking after any of us; from some of the things I've heard about him, and through the way he speaks and has spoken to me on occasion it would definitely not have been in my best interest to have had him around in my life. I probably would have been even worse!
Even if he did apologise for shit, I wouldn't want to build a father daughter relationship with him..Not out of anger or anything. I would just find it insulting if he would to try and assume the role of 'dad'. It would piss me off and I wouldn't appreciate it to be honest.