Does it make is racist...

UKDave

redrock wrote:

I've lived in many countries and travelled a lot..

And Dave... we can't hijack this thread with our rubbish!!!! (Just trying to save some face here....)

Ooops!! did we do it again....? :eek:

soulsinging

Cuntified C wrote:

To say I don't date people from my own ethnic background? I am a black woman who has never been on a date with a black man in my life; neither have I slept with a black man in 16 years, and I'm 32. I don't date a lot to be honest, but when I do, it's always white people. I have nothing bad to say about black men - there are good ones and bad ones out there just like with all men. Just like with all people for that matter! I don't see a problem with people like me, who have a tendancy to date outside their race. I just think you make a connect to a person according to their spirit or personality rather than their skin colour or cultural background. However, a LOT of black people - especially women - would find it very offensive to hear of a black person never dating their race, and that annoys me to be honest as I think it's none of their business and not an issue. I don't find black men attractive, and never have done. I don't know why as there are some who are gorgeous, and I would never rule out dating a black man in the future, but I DO prefer to date white men as I do find that I tend to feel more attraction towards them. I don't know if I'd call it a preference or just a tendancy but this is honestly how I feel and I'm just interested to know your thoughts about it.

why would you want to date white guys? dont you know black men are hung like horses?

for the record, redheads ARE wilder. it's been statistically studied... women with red hair have more sex, and even blond/brunette women have more sex when they dye their hair red (signals looking for a mate). i wish i could find that article again. when i met my gf, she had recently dyed her hair red

rebornFixer

soulsinging wrote:

why would you want to date white guys? dont you know black men are hung like horses?

Believe it or not, there's actually been a penis size study, and basically there are no ethnic differences in the size of one's willy.
Lots of within-group individual differences, mind you.

decides2dream

reborncareerist wrote:

Believe it or not, there's actually been a penis size study, and basically there are no ethnic differences in the size of one's willy.
Lots of within-group individual differences, mind you.

i've read that as well.


anyway, as others have said...i don't think it makes one a racist, it's merely what attracts you. if it was a *conscious* choice for other reasons, perhaps....but otherwise, we cannot control our tastes.


and believe you me, not ALL redheads are wild. my mother is a redhead, and yikes...you really couldn't get much more puritanical.

soulsinging

reborncareerist wrote:

Believe it or not, there's actually been a penis size study, and basically there are no ethnic differences in the size of one's willy.
Lots of within-group individual differences, mind you.

i know, i was just messin. what's the saying? black guys show, white guys grow, hehe.

decides2dream

soulsinging wrote:

i know, i was just messin. what's the saying? black guys show, white guys grow, hehe.

for a hetero male, you sure do seem to know an awful lot about other men's penises.

i've never heard that saying before. haha.

miller8966

Is it racist if you only hook up for certain parts of the anatomy due to race?

Like black girls for their glutes...

Spanish girls for their fire

and white girls for their eyes?

Ms. Haiku

miller8966 wrote:

Is it racist if you only hook up for certain parts of the anatomy due to race?

Like black girls for their glutes...

Spanish girls for their fire

and white girls for their eyes?

I'm not Spanish, but why would you be with anyone without fire? By fire I'm thinking embracing life, and sharing it.

Boom The Cat

I'm white and will never date a black woman, because I'm not into them, I dont care if you say I'm racist, name calling isnt gonna change my choice of women.

rebornFixer

Boom The Cat wrote:

I'm white and will never date a black woman, because I'm not into them, I dont care if you say I'm racist, name calling isnt gonna change my choice of women.

That's basically where I am at. Some group attributes just don't attract me, whereas others do. My fiance is Metis, so I cannot claim that only completely white chicks catch my eye.

Byrnzie

Heineken Helen wrote:

...I wouldn't go out with a white French man..

Yeah, right! :rolleyes: Are there really any girls alive who wouldn't go out with a white French man? Hmm, me thinks you are telling a fibb Helen! :rolleyes:

Byrnzie

Heineken Helen wrote:

Je ne comprends pas. J'etais courrement quand j'y habitais mais maintenant je le parle seulement quand j'ai trop bu . J'habitais a Paris il y a 8 ans.

Do what? You going all Johnny Foreigner on me?

soulsinging

decides2dream wrote:

for a hetero male, you sure do seem to know an awful lot about other men's penises.

i've never heard that saying before. haha.

hetero men know more about penises than anyone else, i can assure. constantly worried about measuring up

rebornFixer

Byrnzie wrote:

Do what? You going all Johnny Foreigner on me?

Ha!

Can I use this?

Byrnzie

reborncareerist wrote:

Ha!

Can I use this?

Use it? Ermm...sure! Now I'm really confused! :eek:

Ahnimus

Boom The Cat wrote:

I'm white and will never date a black woman, because I'm not into them, I dont care if you say I'm racist, name calling isnt gonna change my choice of women.

Dude, some black chicks are super hot. Check out Gabrielle Union in Cradle 2 The Grave. She's an amazing woman.

I think philiphino girls are really hot. They have dark skin and asian phsyique. Good good stuff.

I won't lie, I like women of all ethnicity.

Vedderlution_Baby

I just like women!


Gonna be my death too.

sponger

Interracial love is cool n all, but think of how your kids are going to feel. The world just isn't ready for what it calls "oreos" and "half-breeds". I'm not saying that half black/half white people are less human than anyone else. I'm just saying it's going to be that much harder for him/her to fit in on the playground. That's an unfortunate and embarassing truth about our society, but I'm just telling it like it is.

Ahnimus

sponger wrote:

Interracial love is cool n all, but think of how your kids are going to feel. The world just isn't ready for what it calls "oreos" and "half-breeds". I'm not saying that half black/half white people are less human than anyone else. I'm just saying it's going to be that much harder for him/her to fit in on the playground. That's an unfortunate and embarassing truth about our society, but I'm just telling it like it is.

It isn't like that. My cousin is black, his parents are white, his sister is white, his brothers are white. He was adopted, but so were all my aunt's other children. He fits in just fine. When they first adopted him they spoiled him too much, I mean way too much and he had a superiority complex. It's a lot different now though. The other kids only didn't like him because every other day was his "birthday" and he received presents. My aunt is weird.

This is in Alberta where blacks aren't exactly filling up the streets. It was to the point where a kid pointed at him and said "look mom, a chocolate boy!" but he was too young to care anyway. That's the only time I've ever heard of something being said racially, and I think the boy saying it was about 5 years old. Anyway, my cousin Spencer is cool and fits in just fine.

Ms. Haiku

sponger wrote:

Interracial love is cool n all, but think of how your kids are going to feel. The world just isn't ready for what it calls "oreos" and "half-breeds". I'm not saying that half black/half white people are less human than anyone else. I'm just saying it's going to be that much harder for him/her to fit in on the playground. That's an unfortunate and embarassing truth about our society, but I'm just telling it like it is.

Attitudes aren't just carved in stone, though. I haven't heard/read such a hard line of thought in a very long time except in fiction.

Whatever the kids are going through, hopefully the parents have figured out a way to say things so the kids feel they are exactly who they are suppose to be at exactly the right time.