I always found that humorous as well. It was common opinion here that I was the only person remotely intrigued by the idea of determinism, so any 3rd party interest, simply, must be me posing as a 3rd person. In actuality, the concept of determinism is quite popular amongst philosophical and scientific groups.
Yeah. Yeah. They do. We did. We do. For a time, anyway.
And not in whole, but largely. Since a child will be more apt to waver under social pressure than parental pressure.
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More than once people have accused me of being ahnimus.
I can't really figure that one out, but I do like the fellow, and share some common thoughts with him.
No chance of that happening to me gue!
And besides, I'm fairly certain I've seen what you both look like and can tell the difference in your posting. Of course I'm just a dumb girl, so I'm probably wrong!
And besides, I'm fairly certain I've seen what you both look like and can tell the difference in your posting. Of course I'm just a dumb girl, so I'm probably wrong!
oh yeah. i remember that, kind of. that was taken when i was living in a tent. i look better now.
Well that's nice gue. Although completely irrelevant to me.
I like people for who they are, not how they look.
And besides, I don't think it would be possible for you to look any better than you did without being Eddie Vedder himself. And he always looks so lovely based on who he is.
Well that's nice gue. Although completely irrelevant to me.
I like people for who they are, not how they look.
And besides, I don't think it would be possible for you to look any better than you did without being Eddie Vedder himself. And he always looks so lovely based on who he is.
I think people interpret their own gender in a personal way, regardless of society. At a young age.
My sister in law is having the same eye opening situation at the moment with my nephew!!
Not so sure about early interpretations of my own sexuality or gender. Don't really remember much. But I do remember being very sociable at times as a very small child, and also being a ratbag, highly fanciful and imaginative and very hyperactive.
You are probably right. I just can't recall my own situation.
My sister in law is having the same eye opening situation at the moment with my nephew!!
Not so sure about early interpretations of my own sexuality. Don't really remember them much. But I do remember being very sociable at times as a very small child, and also being a ratbag, highly fanciful and imaginative and very hyperactive.
so, gender awareness is sexual awareness, in a way?
so, gender awareness is sexual awareness, in a way?
i dunno. i'm not sure about that.
I don't think so.
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I don't think gender awareness and sexual awareness are the same thing but I based this post on your last one before you edited! :rolleyes: And of course I edited accordingly!! :eek:
gue I'm doing my best to keep up with your editing! Pay attention!!
I don't think gender awareness and sexual awareness are the same thing but I based this post on your last one before you edited! :rolleyes:
See, the thing is, i was being confessional and then you were too, so the problem would have been solved if we had been two little kids together kind of discovering that stuff.
But, i reconsidered the post, TMI.
sorry
but, you read it, and now you know...some of the story...bwhahahhahaha
See, the thing is, i was being confessional and then you were too, so the problem would have been solved if we had been two little kids together kind of discovering that stuff.
But, i reconsidered the post, TMI.
sorry
but, you read it, and now you know...some of the story...bwhahahhahaha
See, the thing is, i was being confessional and then you were too, so the problem would have been solved if we had been two little kids together kind of discovering that stuff.
But, i reconsidered the post, TMI.
sorry
but, you read it, and now you know...some of the story...bwhahahhahaha
So hope you're not editing again now!
Yes, I understand about the TMI. I'm highly guilty of it myself.
Anyhoo, no biggy. So we are agreeing that kids become aware of their gender at an early age.
I think people interpret their own gender in a personal way, regardless of society. At a young age.
i think society determines gender identification. it's fine when youre a little kid but as you grow up and develop physically you are restrained from doing what you had been doing for years previously with no problem. now all of a sudden what you considered natural is wrong. remember being told, girls dont do that. or boys dont behave like that?
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i think society determines gender identification. it's fine when youre a little kid but as you grow up and develop physically you are restrained from doing what you had been doing for years previously with no problem. now all of a sudden what you considered natural is wrong. remember being told, girls dont do that. or boys dont behave like that?
yeah.
but i had such a strong identification with my own personal gender at such a young age, i don't think those rules applied to me much.
i think society determines gender identification. it's fine when youre a little kid but as you grow up and develop physically you are restrained from doing what you had been doing for years previously with no problem. now all of a sudden what you considered natural is wrong. remember being told, girls dont do that. or boys dont behave like that?
Well I can agree with that too cate. But I do believe that small children have an understanding of their gender from an early age. Of course societal influences come along and mess with that, but I do recall very vaguely before then.
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I don't even know what that means.
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Yeah. Yeah. They do. We did. We do. For a time, anyway.
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And not in whole, but largely. Since a child will be more apt to waver under social pressure than parental pressure.
No chance of that happening to me gue!
And besides, I'm fairly certain I've seen what you both look like and can tell the difference in your posting. Of course I'm just a dumb girl, so I'm probably wrong!
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Well not those of us that were well socialized before we got to school.
My social identity was fairly well formed long before I got to school.
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You've seen my picture?
How the hell did that happen?
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:eek: Scarily enough for me, I think I understand it!!?? :eek:
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You showed it to me once when we were talking on gabbly.
Or someone else showed it to me after asking you if it was ok.
Anyway, it was bloody months ago, so I can't remember how it went.
But you were involved in the conversation after, that I do recall.
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oh yeah. i remember that, kind of. that was taken when i was living in a tent. i look better now.
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Well that's nice gue.
I like people for who they are, not how they look.
And besides, I don't think it would be possible for you to look any better than you did without being Eddie Vedder himself. And he always looks so lovely based on who he is.
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Oh my. Thank you.
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Your welcome.
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"The personality over the gender."
You're onto something there, gue.
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The personality or the learned behaviour? Just curious.
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I think people interpret their own gender in a personal way, regardless of society. At a young age.
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My sister in law is having the same eye opening situation at the moment with my nephew!!
Not so sure about early interpretations of my own sexuality or gender. Don't really remember much. But I do remember being very sociable at times as a very small child, and also being a ratbag, highly fanciful and imaginative and very hyperactive.
You are probably right. I just can't recall my own situation.
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so, gender awareness is sexual awareness, in a way?
i dunno. i'm not sure about that.
I don't think so.
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gue I'm doing my best to keep up with your editing! Pay attention!!
I don't think gender awareness and sexual awareness are the same thing but I based this post on your last one before you edited! :rolleyes: And of course I edited accordingly!! :eek:
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See, the thing is, i was being confessional and then you were too, so the problem would have been solved if we had been two little kids together kind of discovering that stuff.
But, i reconsidered the post, TMI.
sorry
but, you read it, and now you know...some of the story...bwhahahhahaha
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Unless...
OMG!
If you're my cousin, Jeanie, Holy Moly.
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So hope you're not editing again now!
Yes, I understand about the TMI. I'm highly guilty of it myself.
Anyhoo, no biggy. So we are agreeing that kids become aware of their gender at an early age.
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:eek: I SO HOPE YOU'RE NOT!! :eek:
That would be highly f**king embarrassing!!
And besides you'd know too much!!
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She became a spinster. I don't know why. Very high-strung. High IQ, over achiever, teacher in the public school system. Nice boobs.
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Even as a kid, she was put-offish, like being a kid wasn't good enough for her.
She liked me, for some reason. It was sexual in nature. She was threatened yet enthralled, all at once.
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Then, years later, after her 3-month marriage failed she went headstrong into Jeusus..jesses..JESUS.
She continues to speak of him like an engorged penis.
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i think society determines gender identification. it's fine when youre a little kid but as you grow up and develop physically you are restrained from doing what you had been doing for years previously with no problem. now all of a sudden what you considered natural is wrong. remember being told, girls dont do that. or boys dont behave like that?
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
yeah.
but i had such a strong identification with my own personal gender at such a young age, i don't think those rules applied to me much.
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Jesus never goes limp in the world of my cousin Jeanie, the Baptist spinster.
True story.
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Well I can agree with that too cate. But I do believe that small children have an understanding of their gender from an early age. Of course societal influences come along and mess with that, but I do recall very vaguely before then.
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Yes, having read all those descriptions I can safely say that I am NOT your cousin gue!!
It's sad when people can't go to something because they are attracted for the right reasons.
But then I probably shouldn't judge, I am also attracted to weird and wonderful things because of my self interpretation.
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