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brianlux said:ecdanc said:brianlux said:amethgr8 said:I am 53, female. Raised very traditionally, married to a male. And maybe a little bit of wanting to be married with children like a good wife. But four of us raised the same environment, but two boys and two girls,boys got motor cycles and we got horses. They had to shovel the do lawn and we cleaned and cook.
I hated wearing dresses and have never worn make up. There may have been a little envy, boys could do so much different. But now I see maybe they could have looked at us the same, who knows. I don't think it matters much, kids grow and do what they want as adults, there has to be a baseline.
I think 50 years from now, all the labels will be gone, people will have little pretense about what they or their parts "should" look like as they all deliver intimatcy, love and organism. It will just be people that can carry babies and people that don't.
IDK, I got thru 6pages of this post and had to give my 2cents.
On the other hand (and I know I will get clawed by some cat for saying this), but on the other hand, some of this reminds me of the way some of my generation thought back in the sixties- all that age of Aquarius bullshit and living on communes etc. Many of my peers thought they were "enlightened" and shoved these ideas onto their kids, gave then weird names like Wavy Gravy did (who also did some fine work, so I'm not saying it was all b.s.), or brought them up in squalor and that that was groovy. But then a lot of these kids grew up and rejected theirs parents notions a far fetched, and some (and I know some of these people well, so this is not conjecture), some even hated their parents for a time for raising them under conditions that they later considered questionable at best. Young parents would do well to consider that not everything they believe will be seen as gold by their kids as they grow up."Antiquated notion of gender"? WTF?Anyway, so I take it you're cool with letting your kids figure out what gender they are and wouldn't fill their heads with confusion about why Timmy has a penis and Jane has a vagina and wouldn't tell both that maybe they have the wrong parts or that it's not cool to think of ones self as a man or a woman. Cool. But if your bring them up with the notion that they are an "it", you may find that kind of parenting can be like a nasty boomerang.0 -
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mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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My sister in law had a female and her olderest male came home from school and said he does not want to decide the baby's gender and will refer to her as it.
mom said, she is a she until she tells me different. I don't think a baseline is bad, they are going to have one anyway. As long as they know they can become who they want and parents are their to support and help them find their way even tho it's not the way mom and dad went, or dad n dad, etc.Amy The Great #74594
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cincybearcat said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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If I’m a millennial, does that mean you’re going full boomer?0
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Just curious, since now you’re claiming to be more of an expert than me: how many philosophy classes have you taken?0
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A little off topic, think we should circle around to pertinent inquiries, not resumes.Amy The Great #74594
New Orleans LA 7/4/95 reschedule 9/17/95
Chicago IL 1998, 10/9/00, 06/18/03, 05/16/06, 05/17/06
08/23/09, 08/24/09, Lolla 08/05/07
Champaign IL 4/23/03
Grand Rapids MI VFC 10/03/04
Grand Rapids MI 19May06
Noblesville IN 05/07/10 Cleveland OH 05/09/10
PJ 20 2011
Baltimore MD, Charlottesville VA, Seattle WA 2013
St. Louis MO, Milwaukee WI 2014
Tampa FL, Chicago IL, Lexington KY 2016
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ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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@cincybearcat - tear me out of this thread please. Shame me if I post again.Oh brother. Piled High and Deep. Look man, it's not that I don't value education. I have somewhere between 200 210* college credits. But that shit means nothing compared to common sense. If you're going to flaunt a degree around here like that, you won't get a lot of oohs and ahhs.(*I honestly don't remember any more. More than enough to Pile High and Deep.)Post edited by brianlux on"It's a sad and beautiful world"-Roberto Benigni0 -
brianlux said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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@cincybearcat - tear me out of this thread please. Shame me if I post again.
Oh brother. Piled High and Deep. Look man, it's not that I don't value education. I have somewhere between 120 and 130 college credits. But that shit means nothing compared to common sense. If you're going to flaunt a degree around here like that, you won't get a lot of oohs and ahhs.0 -
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ecdanc said:brianlux said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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@cincybearcat - tear me out of this thread please. Shame me if I post again.
Oh brother. Piled High and Deep. Look man, it's not that I don't value education. I have somewhere between 120 and 130 college credits. But that shit means nothing compared to common sense. If you're going to flaunt a degree around here like that, you won't get a lot of oohs and ahhs.
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brianlux said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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@cincybearcat - tear me out of this thread please. Shame me if I post again.Oh brother. Piled High and Deep. Look man, it's not that I don't value education. I have somewhere between 200 210* college credits. But that shit means nothing compared to common sense. If you're going to flaunt a degree around here like that, you won't get a lot of oohs and ahhs.(*I honestly don't remember any more. More than enough to Pile High and Deep.)hippiemom = goodness0 -
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ecdanc said:brianlux said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:
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@cincybearcat - tear me out of this thread please. Shame me if I post again.
Oh brother. Piled High and Deep. Look man, it's not that I don't value education. I have somewhere between 120 and 130 college credits. But that shit means nothing compared to common sense. If you're going to flaunt a degree around here like that, you won't get a lot of oohs and ahhs.
Good. Then let's talk about waste management (it's too late for the boots, save your watches!)
"It's a sad and beautiful world"-Roberto Benigni0
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