Should I ask Agnes out on a date?

F Me In The Brain

No

Spiritual_Chaos said:

F Me In The Brain said:

(And likely, she is afraid you are inviting her to play MarioKart in the basement.)

Yeah that would keep me up at night.  Too many questions but I really don't want to know where that pic came from.     

(Pliers?  Yikes!)

PJ_Soul

Yes

F Me In The Brain said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

F Me In The Brain said:

(And likely, she is afraid you are inviting her to play MarioKart in the basement.)

Yeah that would keep me up at night.  Too many questions but I really don't want to know where that pic came from.     

(Pliers?  Yikes!)

It's the two gallons of water that concerns me most, lol.

bootlegger10

Yes

Every good relationship doesn't start with love at first sight. 

mcgruff10

Yes

What kind of date: just ask her to go to dinner somewhere.  And please pay the whole bill, don’t be a cheap ass. And buying falafels off a street vendor does not count.  

lastexitlondon

Yes

Tofu anyone?

lastexitlondon

Yes

I need to know more about Agnes.
How long has she been single?
Have you met any of her previous partners?
Has she given any sign of wanting more than friendship. Earlier in the thread it was all about male and female "friendly relationships" then you asked her out? Which kind of goes against the whole  we can just be friends . You clearly have more than friendly feelings ?

PJ_Soul

Yes

lastexitlondon said:

I need to know more about Agnes.
How long has she been single?
Have you met any of her previous partners?
Has she given any sign of wanting more than friendship. Earlier in the thread it was all about male and female "friendly relationships" then you asked her out? Which kind of goes against the whole  we can just be friends . You clearly have more than friendly feelings ?

Obviously he will answer for himself, but clearly he developed feelings beyond friendship at some point. Sometimes that happens, of course. When it does, you deal with it.

bbiggs

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

^ Not close the thread...close the deal.

Spiritual_Chaos

lastexitlondon said:

I need to know more about Agnes.
How long has she been single?
Have you met any of her previous partners?
Has she given any sign of wanting more than friendship. Earlier in the thread it was all about male and female "friendly relationships" then you asked her out? Which kind of goes against the whole  we can just be friends . You clearly have more than friendly feelings ?

Single since spring, or early summer I think.

Yes, we went to the same school a few years back. So know her ex pretty well. Do not have bi-monthly bears with him though. 

No, she has not. She said I should get a bigger bed. But I think that had more to do with concern about my nightly sleep. Falling for someone, man or woman, doesn't go against having women or men as friends. 

F Me In The Brain

No

bbiggs said:

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

Thank you for using Aroldis Chapman for this example

lastexitlondon

Yes

I like the bigger bed comment  . Maybe a sign

Spiritual_Chaos

bbiggs said:

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

^ Not close the thread...close the deal.

That would be my impulse to do, also. But maybe its best to get a clear answer, and not try to recreate this scene from 40 year old virgin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuG4G4BRUxQ

lastexitlondon

Yes

I'm only asking about previous partner because  maybe if she I was fresh out of a relationship ,she may be still confused. Or still not sure of her feelings. It's a tough one for sure

bbiggs

F Me In The Brain said:

bbiggs said:

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

Thank you for using Aroldis Chapman for this example

Lol!  He did help us get a ring but he’s such a POS. 

lastexitlondon

Yes

But  you did fall for a friend which is kind of what I and mcgruff were kind of saying as to why wives/husbands  have a hard time understanding  the friendship. 
I have female friends . And have done more than male. But I get both sides.

PJ_Soul

Yes

Spiritual_Chaos said:

lastexitlondon said:

I need to know more about Agnes.
How long has she been single?
Have you met any of her previous partners?
Has she given any sign of wanting more than friendship. Earlier in the thread it was all about male and female "friendly relationships" then you asked her out? Which kind of goes against the whole  we can just be friends . You clearly have more than friendly feelings ?

Single since spring, or early summer I think.

Yes, we went to the same school a few years back. So know her ex pretty well. Do not have bi-monthly bears with him though. 

No, she has not. She said I should get a bigger bed. But I think that had more to do with concern about my nightly sleep. Falling for someone, man or woman, doesn't go against having women or men as friends. 

You should definitely get a bigger bed no matter what happens.

PJ_Soul

Yes

Maybe you should just reply with "A date date." The she will you know that you "like like her."

lastexitlondon

Yes

PJ_Soul said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

lastexitlondon said:

I need to know more about Agnes.
How long has she been single?
Have you met any of her previous partners?
Has she given any sign of wanting more than friendship. Earlier in the thread it was all about male and female "friendly relationships" then you asked her out? Which kind of goes against the whole  we can just be friends . You clearly have more than friendly feelings ?

Single since spring, or early summer I think.

Yes, we went to the same school a few years back. So know her ex pretty well. Do not have bi-monthly bears with him though. 

No, she has not. She said I should get a bigger bed. But I think that had more to do with concern about my nightly sleep. Falling for someone, man or woman, doesn't go against having women or men as friends. 

You should definitely get a bigger bed no matter what happens.

Yeah and tidy the basement  just incase

F Me In The Brain

No

Spiritual_Chaos said:

bbiggs said:

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

^ Not close the thread...close the deal.

That would be my impulse to do, also. But maybe its best to get a clear answer, and not try to recreate this scene from 40 year old virgin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuG4G4BRUxQ

I love Elizabeth Banks.  (and he loves Lamp)

F Me In The Brain

No

bbiggs said:

F Me In The Brain said:

bbiggs said:

If someone answered my question with a question, I’d play the same game. In this case I’d respond with, “What kind of date would you like it to be?” 

If that doesn’t work, fly McGruff out there to play Mariano Rivera and close this shit. 

Thank you for using Aroldis Chapman for this example

Lol!  He did help us get a ring but he’s such a POS. 

Yes, yes he is.