Please answer my anonymous survey (QUICK SURVEY ONLY 3 QNS) - Should I stay or go?

jnimhaoileoin

lastexitlondon said:

This thread is harmful to everyone. I personally do not like it

Well yes, it was a terrible idea to begin with but once you put something like this out there, people are going to engage. We probably should all have ignored it but that would have also been interpreted negatively

Malroth

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Thanks a lot!
Here I thought I meant something.
Stay anyway.

lastexitlondon

I feel like this is not helpful to all parties. Its obvious T.A is struggling and i didn't want to keep posting here because i feel its not helpful. So i will just say please get some help. To understand your feelings of worthlessness .From past posts i would say parent issues have caused trouble and pain. But i will add nobody hates you here. Because they don't know you.

mickeyrat

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

MOST here can seperate how someone is here from who we see them as.

can you make that same distinction of others as well as yourself? Is how I was in that pm exchange all that I am to you? I'd say no given whats been posted afterwards in a couple threads.

so please cite some direct examples. that lead you to these conclusions.

unsung doesnt count, I havent seen where you've approached him  to debate or discuss with reasoned thought or argument.

Thoughts_Arrive

Maybe hate is too strong a word. What about dislike?

mickeyrat

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Maybe hate is too strong a word. What about dislike?

sometimes how you are isnt likeable. but that isnt WHO you are.

rgambs

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Thoughts_Arrive

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

elvistheking44

Thoughts_Arrive said:

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

Who cares even if they do?  Move on.

rgambs

Thoughts_Arrive said:

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

Do you have a dislike for you?  Honestly, do you like yourself?
Do you think you have something to offer the world and this forum?

If the answer is no, then you have bigger fish to fry than these forums.  If the answer is yes, then act like it!  Show yourself to the world unapologetically and without deprecation, people will dig you or they won't, but if you dig you, neither matters.
If you don't dig you, then that's what you need to work on ASAP.  

Thoughts_Arrive

elvistheking44 said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

Who cares even if they do?  Move on.

I've been feeling down about it. I just want to be accepted and liked.

lastexitlondon

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

rgambs

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

Thoughts_Arrive

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I thought we as PJ fans would all be alike. To be disliked by more people than liked here sucks.

Thoughts_Arrive

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

rgambs said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.

Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

Do you have a dislike for you?  Honestly, do you like yourself?
Do you think you have something to offer the world and this forum?

If the answer is no, then you have bigger fish to fry than these forums.  If the answer is yes, then act like it!  Show yourself to the world unapologetically and without deprecation, people will dig you or they won't, but if you dig you, neither matters.
If you don't dig you, then that's what you need to work on ASAP.  

I hate myself a lot.
But why should that matter here?
I've disgraced myself over the past 10 years and I think I better leave for good.

Thoughts_Arrive

It's late here, I better go.
Keep voting GO people.

rgambs

 I hope you find a way to feel better.

lastexitlondon

rgambs said:7

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.

rgambs

lastexitlondon said:

rgambs said:7

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.

I can just tell.  Everyone who's ever met me was visibly impressed with my rugged charm and my mastery of all things.

The Juggler

Thoughts_Arrive said:

mickeyrat said:

I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.

Hedonist
PJ Soul
Oftenreading
Jnimhaoileoin
Northerndragon
The Juggler
Unsung
You?

There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

Are you kidding? Dude---you send me the most random pms ever... yet we don't interact that much. 

Plus I think I responded to all of them except the last two? The last one was just something like "Hi." ?  One of them you waited like 10 hours and then after a no response you said something like "Fine don't respond."

I'm not a big PM guy. I don't know what else to say. This is pretty ridiculous. 

mcgruff10

This thread is like a high school drama on netflix.  what the heck op?  it's a message board, who cares if people disagree with you?

lastexitlondon

rgambs said:

lastexitlondon said:

rgambs said:7

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.

I can just tell.  Everyone who's ever met me was visibly impressed with my rugged charm and my mastery of all things.

I admit i did think that when i saw your alpha male beard and knowledge of quantum physics. So add me to the list for sure!

rgambs

lastexitlondon said:

rgambs said:

lastexitlondon said:

rgambs said:7

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.

I can just tell.  Everyone who's ever met me was visibly impressed with my rugged charm and my mastery of all things.

I admit i did think that when i saw your alpha male beard and knowledge of quantum physics. So add me to the list for sure!

Meltdown99

Perhaps @Thoughts_Arrive giving these forums a break might help.  Let me ask you this, in which particular forum do you feel you receive the most grief.  Is it AMT...thats the only place i see heated exchanges happening...but that's going to happen from time to time.  Maybe just roll with the waves and see where it takes you, avoid those threads that cause you grief.  

People are around here are good people.  

Bentleyspop

Thoughts_Arrive said:

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I thought we as PJ fans would all be alike. To be disliked by more people than liked here sucks.

You have spent some time on the AMT so you should be aware by now that not all PJ fans are alike or have the same beliefs.

Cliffy6745

rgambs said:

lastexitlondon said:

rgambs said:7

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I am.

You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.

I can just tell.  Everyone who's ever met me was visibly impressed with my rugged charm and my mastery of all things.

Are you?

https://goo.gl/images/QbE3i8

jnimhaoileoin

Bentleyspop said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

lastexitlondon said:

There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.

I thought we as PJ fans would all be alike. To be disliked by more people than liked here sucks.

You have spent some time on the AMT so you should be aware by now that not all PJ fans are alike or have the same beliefs.

And how boring would this place be if we did?! Of course we discuss some pretty controversial topics and things can get heated but it's still just an exchange of opinions. It's true that the opinions expressed by some people would make me less inclined to want to meet them or develop a personal relationship with them but I sincerely doubt that bothers them any more than it does me. 

even flow - question mark

Where are you going to post your paintings if you leave?

PJ_Soul

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Disappointed only 8 responses. Come on people. If you really dislike me and want me to then here's your chance to make it happen!

Kay, now this just seems like a bizarre, self-indulgent form of trolling.

PJ_Soul

Thoughts_Arrive said:

jnimhaoileoin said:

As for people not answering your PMs, if I disagreed with someone on a thread and they then pursued me in a PM demanding an explanation then I would certainly be likely to ignore it. I would find it intrusive and aggressive, when things are taken private it adds a personal edge to it that does not exist in the public forum.

My PMs were not related to any thread or disagreement or argument but just to connect and say hello in a friendly way.

Some people just aren't in the mood for random private chatting. They just don't feel like making a personal connection with a stranger. Don't take it personally.