Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
its a little wordy but the alternative is I am Pro-noneofmyfuckingbusinessunlessIamdirectlyinvolvedeventhenasamanmyinputislimited
Your alternative should be practiced by more men, as it is spot on.
in another lifetime, I was recently discharged from usn due to alcoholism. back home living on a married buddys couch , "seeing" this woman. was dismissive of her and hating myself and what passed for my life. One night she made something very clear that stuck with me and shaped my stance in this. fuck, 35 years ago.
She said, if she happened to get pregnant while seeing me, she wouldnt tell me. she would just abort.
sitting on that for a time, I understood. The person she knew was in no way a potential father. I was barely a human being ffs.
I came to the conclusion that even if I was a party to a pregnancy the most I could hope for was input and that the final decision was not mine to make or really be a part of.
being well on the other side of that and how and who I was then, I am grateful I never had kids along the way. wouldnt have been fair to the mother and the child(ren) .
Still in the face of everything that came after , I understood my place in such a situation. that understanding is as firm as ever.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
19 yrs sober come April. In a profession I wanted since I'm a kid (trucking). A wife who likes it that I'm home every day and laughs at my goofy ass jokes and a dog that cant wait to see me.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
its a little wordy but the alternative is I am Pro-noneofmyfuckingbusinessunlessIamdirectlyinvolvedeventhenasamanmyinputislimited
Your alternative should be practiced by more men, as it is spot on.
in another lifetime, I was recently discharged from usn due to alcoholism. back home living on a married buddys couch , "seeing" this woman. was dismissive of her and hating myself and what passed for my life. One night she made something very clear that stuck with me and shaped my stance in this. fuck, 35 years ago.
She said, if she happened to get pregnant while seeing me, she wouldnt tell me. she would just abort.
sitting on that for a time, I understood. The person she knew was in no way a potential father. I was barely a human being ffs.
I came to the conclusion that even if I was a party to a pregnancy the most I could hope for was input and that the final decision was not mine to make or really be a part of.
being well on the other side of that and how and who I was then, I am grateful I never had kids along the way. wouldnt have been fair to the mother and the child(ren) .
Still in the face of everything that came after , I understood my place in such a situation. that understanding is as firm as ever.
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Hope you're doing well! ✌️
1996; 9/28 New York
1997: 11/14 Oakland, 11/15 Oakland
1998: 7/5 Dallas, 7/7 Albuquerque, 7/8 Phoenix, 7/10 San Diego, 7/11 Las Vegas
2000: 10/17 Dallas
2003: 4/3 OKC
2012: 11/17 Tulsa(EV), 11/18 Tulsa(EV)
2013: 11/16 OKC
2014: 10/8 Tulsa
2022: 9/20 OKC
2023: 9/13 Ft Worth, 9/15 Ft Worth
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
1996; 9/28 New York
1997: 11/14 Oakland, 11/15 Oakland
1998: 7/5 Dallas, 7/7 Albuquerque, 7/8 Phoenix, 7/10 San Diego, 7/11 Las Vegas
2000: 10/17 Dallas
2003: 4/3 OKC
2012: 11/17 Tulsa(EV), 11/18 Tulsa(EV)
2013: 11/16 OKC
2014: 10/8 Tulsa
2022: 9/20 OKC
2023: 9/13 Ft Worth, 9/15 Ft Worth
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14