Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last part, but thanks for the laugh!
I think one person stated it is household by household. I have never been to any canadian's house where people leave their shoes on. NOT. ONE.
So if you had people over for a get together you'd asked them to take their shoes off?
i don't have to ask. it is just done. I've never had to ask one single adult ever to do it. and if someone brings their kid over and they forget, the parent tells them to take their shoes off.
it is customary for a party to have a big pile of shoes by the back door that you have to wade through as you leave. LOL
That’s nasty as hell. I can’t imagine a bunch of barefoot people walking around at a party.
they aren't barefoot. people wear socks in canada.
Hey baby, nice socks. lol I can honestly say I have never been to a party where I had to take off my shoes. Imagine if you had a hole in your sock! Hell Americans even wear their shoes in the pool!
they what???
Canadians don't have pool shoes? What about ocean shoes?
oh, haha, I thought you meant actual shoes. yes, we have shoes people (mostly kids) wear at the beach and in the water.
I have $20 that says the average Swede is more racist than the average American
Can you even get a taco in that lilly white socialist shithole? Lol
You comes off as someone who's been left by Axl Rose on the bed with your ass in the air.
What??? Bwahahahaha
Tells me i'm right
Do you know three people of color on a first name basis? How about one? Lol
Yes. I even helped out one just now with Powerpoint. A woman @mcgruff10 - me and her all alone in an office, sure hoped she called her boyfriend/husband before to see that it was okey. No chaperones used when men and women interact in Sweden. Crazy.
You were probably not really a threat to her hence the reason for the no call to the boyfriend/husband.
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
No, there’s a practical reason. The shoes you wear outside have dirt on them, even on a dry day. No need to overthink it.
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last part, but thanks for the laugh!
I think one person stated it is household by household. I have never been to any canadian's house where people leave their shoes on. NOT. ONE.
Hell, I’ve been to Canada and two out of the three houses I visited were shoe wearing indoors. maybe providencial as to the “standard”?
I have $20 that says the average Swede is more racist than the average American
Can you even get a taco in that lilly white socialist shithole? Lol
You comes off as someone who's been left by Axl Rose on the bed with your ass in the air.
What??? Bwahahahaha
Tells me i'm right
Do you know three people of color on a first name basis? How about one? Lol
Yes. I even helped out one just now with Powerpoint. A woman @mcgruff10 - me and her all alone in an office, sure hoped she called her boyfriend/husband before to see that it was okey. No chaperones used when men and women interact in Sweden. Crazy.
You were probably not really a threat to her hence the reason for the no call to the boyfriend/husband.
Exactly.
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
no, it's not the same as a hat (which I have argued on the opposite end-I say leave your hat on for all I care). and no, it's not a "what i was taught" thing. a hat doesn't track dirt through your house. it doesn't matter if it's a dry day. there's dry dirt/dust that you are tracking through my house. it is inevitable that this would be the case.
that being said, if someone is just stopping by for a sec and needs to come into my house, I'll make a point of telling them to leave their shoes on. but taking them off for a visit is just part of "making yourself comfortable".
even when someone is helping me move a couch, or even a professional mover, you'll see them fumbling to try to take their shoes off while balancing the couch in their hands. in almost all cases (barring a bunch of mud on their shoes) I'll laugh and tell them to leave them on.
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last part, but thanks for the laugh!
I think one person stated it is household by household. I have never been to any canadian's house where people leave their shoes on. NOT. ONE.
Hell, I’ve been to Canada and two out of the three houses I visited were shoe wearing indoors. maybe providencial as to the “standard”?
where?
Vancouver area
that's odd to me. I have friends in vancouver, and in any pictures of them having people over, I have never seen one shoe.
I dunno, we'd have to do a Mythbusters-type experiment but I'd venture to guess my shoes are picking up more dust, dander, & dirt particles than they are leaving behind. Even if not, the amount left behind has to be so negligible the human eye would not be able to discern. It's not like you're leaving visible footprints of a layer of dirt behind with each step.
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
EDIT: And I posed the question of what exactly makes it rude. I'm trying to understand because it doesn't make much sense to me to be uptight one way or the other about it.
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last paragraph , but thanks for the laugh!
so this is how it works?
americans think america is the best country in the world-you're right non-americans think their country is better (but not necessarily the greatest)-they have an inferiority complex
do I have that right?
Not even close, lol Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form. Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
Walking around with dirty shoes that's used outside inside when you have the pleasant option of taking them off like in other enlightened countries and not walking around in them dirtying things up when not needed - is absurd. Sleep on it. I think you will come to the same conclusion.
In Sweden where it's not the norm, I would say it's rude to take for granted you can dirty someones place up and not ask if its okey to keep your shoes on for whatever reason (like your'e just gonna use the bathroom quick, or you have some problems with your feet)
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"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
EDIT: And I posed the question of what exactly makes it rude. I'm trying to understand because it doesn't make much sense to me to be uptight one way or the other about it.
Exactly, and the case could be made that the bottom of some people’s shoes may actually be “cleaner” than the fungus harbouring sweaty feet inside of them. Hands are some of the dirtiest things around, but would it not be rude to ask people to put on gloves any time they enter a house? On the other side, some people’s floors are straight up nasty too (ever pull up carpet and catch a whif of the padding underneath?). Is it polite to make people walk shoeless on a gross floor? I agree, there is no norm and the case could be made either way. Definitely not a “your are wrong and I am right” kind of subject...it is...subjective. And in the context of this thread...not a nationality related rule.
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last paragraph , but thanks for the laugh!
so this is how it works?
americans think america is the best country in the world-you're right non-americans think their country is better (but not necessarily the greatest)-they have an inferiority complex
do I have that right?
Not even close, lol Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form. Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
You take this thread and/or your country way to serious.
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last paragraph , but thanks for the laugh!
so this is how it works?
americans think america is the best country in the world-you're right non-americans think their country is better (but not necessarily the greatest)-they have an inferiority complex
do I have that right?
Not even close, lol Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form. Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
I took the shoe thing as more of a "poking fun" thing, but since you guys keep getting your panties in a bunch over SC and his posting in this thread, you took it seriously. when I highly doubt that's how it was intended.
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last paragraph , but thanks for the laugh!
so this is how it works?
americans think america is the best country in the world-you're right non-americans think their country is better (but not necessarily the greatest)-they have an inferiority complex
do I have that right?
Not even close, lol Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form. Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
You take this thread and/or your country way to serious.
Ha, I stopped taking this place seriously a looooong time ago!
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
I don't think anyone sees it as more than being on the bottom, or even being on the list.
I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
Nobody cares what Sweden does, especially with their shoes
Norway is better than Sweden...just sayin’. And fuck that fika, I’ll take my coffee to go!
"Norwegians are so adamant about their “no shoes inside” policy, they even enforce it at primary schools—so that children learn it from a young age. "
That has no relevance to what I just said...Why are you hung up on shoes? But if shoe wearing is your measure, Norway is definitely way ahead of Sweden!
Because the context of this threads discussion is for the moment different shoe-wearing cultures. Get a grip on how social situations work and how to act within them Cruzie.
And yes, I bet Norway does a lot better than Sweden. Where is the conflict in that?
So you must agree that Norway is better than Sweden since they push taking shoes off more. I don’t have to worry too much about awkward social situations here, as people in general are pleasant with each other and enjoy socializing out in public. I couldn’t handle the Swede’s social awkwardness...just sounds snobby.
You're creating some false narrative here to back me into a corner. What has "pushing harder" to do with anything.
I would think - in the context of shoewearing - that Norway is similar to Sweden -- "it is absurd to wear your outdoor shoes inside your house".
And seems all sane people in this thread agree. Regardless of where they're from.
False narrative? Nothing false about Norway being the better country overall...especially in the shoe wearing contex...Tell me again, what culture is it weird or outside of the cultural norm to take shoes off indoors? Seems that YOU are the one creating a false narrative...pretty “pedi” if you ask me, lol. (Pedi/ petty). I take my shoes off indoors, but personally, I’d rather have a shoe wearer in my house than a snobby Swede with an inferiority complex, but that is just me...
again, I, nor anyone I know, ever wears shoes indoors, unless it's a separate pair specifically for that purpose.
Exactly, so do many I know in this not greatest country in the world, but it wouldn’t bug me either way if someone did...unless they had dog shit on their shoes or something. It would probably be best if some people left their shoes on, though. There are some nasty footed people out there and I would rather a place not smell like unhygienic feet, lol
it would bug me. I find it rude. it's not snobby at all. it's just rude to walk into someone's house and leave your shoes on.
and I don't understand why people keep saying he has an inferiority complex. if anything, it's the opposite (which I also don't believe).
You find it rude, but as others have stated, it is household by household. I’ll agree to disagree with the last paragraph , but thanks for the laugh!
so this is how it works?
americans think america is the best country in the world-you're right non-americans think their country is better (but not necessarily the greatest)-they have an inferiority complex
do I have that right?
Not even close, lol Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form. Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
You take this thread and/or your country way to serious.
Ha, I stopped taking this place seriously a looooong time ago!
How you like "You Are"?
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
EDIT: And I posed the question of what exactly makes it rude. I'm trying to understand because it doesn't make much sense to me to be uptight one way or the other about it.
of course it's trivial. it all comes down to cultural norms. if you weirdos want to vacuum your house on the daily, go for it. /s
many have answered why it is considered rude in our culture(s).
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
I don't think anyone sees it as more than being on the bottom, or even being on the list.
I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
I think it is the pattern of behavior that has people annoyed in regards to being “obsessed”, not this single subject.
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
I don't think anyone sees it as more than being on the bottom, or even being on the list.
I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
I don't think anyone sees it as more than being on the bottom, or even being on the list.
I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
Definitely obsessed... i didn't chant anything
I can hear the chanting like a mantra.
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"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
P.S. I also never boast about being American, chant "USA! USA! USA!," drape myself in the flag, pride myself in gun & war culture, nor ever express being better than any other country or put them or their people or cultures down. Been to Canada, love it. Would love to visit many other countries but I can't afford to travel the world.
But, being an American (i.e. born & raised here by no choice of my own) I can say we've got it pretty well, but we're certainly not without a ton of troubling issues, either. Shoes on or off in a house is certainly near the bottom of my list of worries.
I don't think anyone sees it as more than being on the bottom, or even being on the list.
I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
I think it is the pattern of behavior that has people annoyed in regards to being “obsessed”, not this single subject.
It's okey.
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
EDIT: And I posed the question of what exactly makes it rude. I'm trying to understand because it doesn't make much sense to me to be uptight one way or the other about it.
of course it's trivial. it all comes down to cultural norms. if you weirdos want to vacuum your house on the daily, go for it. /s
many have answered why it is considered rude in our culture(s).
Conversely, if I wear socks or go barefoot inside the bottoms of my socks or feet get dirty. So it's not like carpets and floors don't already harbor their own dirt & debris. I vacuum & broom sweep about every two weeks, seems to work out well enough. Vacuuming every day would definitely classify someone as a weirdo, though! (also /s)
Bottom line is, respect the homeowner's wishes. I'm certainly not trying to argue a for-or-against point, I just don't think it's a big deal whereas I know some people are super strict about it (which is weird to me).
What exactly is this "rudeness" of leaving your shoes on? How exactly does that insult the homeowner or what about it makes the homeowner feel offended other than "it's just what you do?" This is another one of those trivial, old-timey, customary tradition things that, when you really think about it, probably had a meaning centuries ago but makes no sense in modern times. Like taking your hat off indoors. Who the fuck is bothered by leaving a hat on?
I mean, obviously, if you have mud, snow, poop, or paint etc on your shoes, you don't want to track it all through the place. I get that. But if it's a clear, dry day or you're only stopping by for a few minutes what does it really matter? And obviously, if the homeowner asks, I'm not going to defy them. Honestly, I usually ask anyway because I know people do take offense to it. But it's just weird to me to say that it's rude without even really thinking about why it's rude, other than "that's what I was taught" etc.
Me, personally, I couldn't care less if you leave them on in my house.
What exactly is the rudeness in taking them off as the normal?
Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Never said it was rude or unnormal to take them off. I said it was trivial, as in, it doesn't make a difference nor is it absurd either way.
EDIT: And I posed the question of what exactly makes it rude. I'm trying to understand because it doesn't make much sense to me to be uptight one way or the other about it.
of course it's trivial. it all comes down to cultural norms. if you weirdos want to vacuum your house on the daily, go for it. /s
many have answered why it is considered rude in our culture(s).
Conversely, if I wear socks or go barefoot inside the bottoms of my socks or feet get dirty. So it's not like carpets and floors don't already harbor their own dirt & debris. I vacuum & broom sweep about every two weeks, seems to work out well enough. Vacuuming every day would definitely classify someone as a weirdo, though! (also /s)
Bottom line is, respect the homeowner's wishes. I'm certainly not trying to argue a for-or-against point, I just don't think it's a big deal whereas I know some people are super strict about it (which is weird to me).
But, would you say there is some kind of difference between the dust that is being created in your sock-walking home and the dirt and stuff that's under the shoes you've been walking in at Burger King, the gun ranch, the strip mall, the gravel road to the pet sematary, Etc?
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
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that being said, if someone is just stopping by for a sec and needs to come into my house, I'll make a point of telling them to leave their shoes on. but taking them off for a visit is just part of "making yourself comfortable".
even when someone is helping me move a couch, or even a professional mover, you'll see them fumbling to try to take their shoes off while balancing the couch in their hands. in almost all cases (barring a bunch of mud on their shoes) I'll laugh and tell them to leave them on.
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Many people in here are awfully black and whit (not saying you are), I guess that comes with being draped in the flag and therefore lacking critical thinking - I don't think anyone stops anyone from having the shoes on if they are to run in and catch the car keys they forgot or just gonna pop in quickly with the groceries they helped carry. Or even a new years eve party when @PJ_Soul comes with her high heels matching the dress.
But there is no logic in walking around in outdoor shoes inside your or your friends houses. It's not a Europe or Sweden VS US thing. It's about normal VS absurd.
Constantly looking for something to prove in your head that you are superior (especially nit picky things like shoe wearing as validation) reeks of an inferiority complex if one thinks this makes them superior in any fashion or form.
Americans saying that the USA is the best country ever is more related to inflated patriotism or pride or maybe even a little egocentricity.
In Sweden where it's not the norm, I would say it's rude to take for granted you can dirty someones place up and not ask if its okey to keep your shoes on for whatever reason (like your'e just gonna use the bathroom quick, or you have some problems with your feet)
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I just posted a "funny" video I stumbled upon touching on something that can be looked at, as absurd (agree or not) and certain people in here that has a history of closemindedness started calling me obsessed and a creep while chanting "USA! USA! USA!".
many have answered why it is considered rude in our culture(s).
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Ja du vet var
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