Biggest Relationship Pet Peeves

Sprunkn7

Chronic lateness

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

The same reason he shaves right after I clean the bathroom and the shiny sink is then sprinkled with tiny little cut whiskers

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

dankind said:

RKCNDY said:

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

it's the same reason why he destroys the kitchen right after I scrub it sparkling clean.

We'd probably be more careful if we noticed that you did anything.

(actually, HE cleans our kitchen )

WhatYouTaughtMe

Chronic lateness

hedonist said:

dankind said:

RKCNDY said:

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

it's the same reason why he destroys the kitchen right after I scrub it sparkling clean.

We'd probably be more careful if we noticed that you did anything.

(actually, HE cleans our kitchen )

Well, if you want something done right... :whistle:

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

WhatYouTaughtMe said:

hedonist said:

dankind said:

RKCNDY said:

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

it's the same reason why he destroys the kitchen right after I scrub it sparkling clean.

We'd probably be more careful if we noticed that you did anything.

(actually, HE cleans our kitchen )

Well, if you want something done right... :whistle:

Oh, I've made a point of making sure he knows this.

Saves my back, boosts his meticulous self...win/win!

WhatYouTaughtMe

Chronic lateness

hedonist said:

WhatYouTaughtMe said:

hedonist said:

dankind said:

RKCNDY said:

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

it's the same reason why he destroys the kitchen right after I scrub it sparkling clean.

We'd probably be more careful if we noticed that you did anything.

(actually, HE cleans our kitchen )

Well, if you want something done right... :whistle:

Oh, I've made a point of making sure he knows this.

Saves my back, boosts his meticulous self...win/win!

Yeah, I tried telling my better half how good she is at doing laundry. Didn't work.

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

I swear there was an Everybody Loves Raymond about this guise honesty.

F Me In The Brain

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

WhatYouTaughtMe said:

hedonist said:

WhatYouTaughtMe said:

hedonist said:

dankind said:

RKCNDY said:

OMGkatwoman said:

Why...oh...why must he track in mud only on the days I just washed the floor.

it's the same reason why he destroys the kitchen right after I scrub it sparkling clean.

We'd probably be more careful if we noticed that you did anything.

(actually, HE cleans our kitchen )

Well, if you want something done right... :whistle:

Oh, I've made a point of making sure he knows this.

Saves my back, boosts his meticulous self...win/win!

Yeah, I tried telling my better half how good she is at doing laundry. Didn't work.

I took this approach with something else that I would like to get every single day of my life. I was not telling the truth but "Honey you are great at it, and I love it!" didn't yield the desired results.

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

F Me In The Brain said:

I took this approach with something else that I would like to get every single day of my life. I was not telling the truth but "Honey you are great at it, and I love it!" didn't yield the desired results.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddnRtFd7Hps

F Me In The Brain

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

oh yeah!

rollings

sounds like some of you don't like somebody

chadwick

im being nice

Sprunkn7

Chronic lateness

Here's one....stop being a pita and just do what I tell ya?

RKCNDY

Sprunkn7 said:

Here's one....stop being a pita and just do what I tell ya?

*please close the shower curtain when you are done with your shower.
*please wring out the sponge and put it in the cute sponge holder instead of leaving it to grow mold and yuck in the bottom of the sink.
*please wipe up spills when they are fresh, I hate getting the chisel out to scrape up mysterious chunks off of surfaces...this includes the bathroom and all of your whiskers.
*please use the trash bin...don't leave crumpled up napkins, tissues and/or wrappers or garbage all over the place.
*respect other people and when they say they want to meet or be somewhere at a certain time BE ON TIME-you get pissed off when you tell people to be somewhere at a certain time and they don't show up for over 2 hours.
*it would be nice if you would fold up towels and put them on the towel rack so I don't have to search through all the laundry baskets wondering if something is clean or dirty.

Malroth

Snoring and keeping you awake

nagging

amethgr8

all of these to me are pretty insignificant, unless we are late to a Pearl Jam show. A lot of a good relationship is about acceptance of our "human" qualities.

FoxyRedLa

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

Cute sponge holder lol! Haha. Anything left behind in the sink I just throw it away. Gross.


Nagging. Ha I'm sorry you're mistaken those reasonable requests. You can trivialize our requests to get out of stuff but we're on to you Malroth. MEN.

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

amethgr8 said:

all of these to me are pretty insignificant, unless we are late to a Pearl Jam show. A lot of a good relationship is about acceptance of our "human" qualities.

Your last sentence reminded me of an old LA Law episode (man, I loved that show!) - the gist of the scene that hit me talked about not necessarily getting in your partner everything that's on your so-called list of desired qualities, but moreso accepting from them what isn't on it. It's always stayed with me and has actually had a beautiful bearing on my marriage and overall outlook.

That said, sometimes it's such a release to unleash, even if it's seen as fluff

HesCalledDyer

Chronic lateness

So true, hedo! I actually enjoy finding out the things that we may not see eye-to-eye on. It's a challenge. Do I really like this person enough emotionally that I can see a certain habit or idiosyncrasy as completely insignificant? The more you can accept each other, the healthier the relationship can be.

dankind

RKCNDY

dankind said:

No, it's called 'selective hearing'.
even our friends have backed me up so now I learned I don't have to 'really' have told him...I just say "you probably weren't listening again"