Biggest Relationship Pet Peeves

FoxyRedLa

Biggest Peeve?

This list is from an article I read.

HesCalledDyer

Chronic lateness

That goes for ANY relationship. Girlfriend, friends, family, whatever.

WhatYouTaughtMe

Chronic lateness

HesCalledDyer said:

That goes for ANY relationship. Girlfriend, friends, family, whatever.

I second this motion!

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

Sucks because he has serious, legit health issues but gah at the sniffles! Part of marriage, I guess.

I've also been known to find dollar bills in his pockets while sorting the laundry

JimmyV

Chronic lateness

We have become the couple that is always late. To say it makes me unhappy would be an understatement.

SVRDhand13

Chronic lateness

I'm surprised there isn't an option related to finances.

markymark550

Chronic lateness

Have to go with chronic lateness as well.

Wobbie

Snoring and keeping you awake

chadwick

son of a bitch would i have a fit if someone even touched my toothbrush let allow used it. there isn't a chance in hell i'd authorize for it to be barrowed. i do not put my toothbrush among other toothbrushes. leave mine alone as it sits in the closet minding its own business or maybe this week I put it out back next to the chairs or maybe it's in the basement sitting on a old can of paint or maybe it's in the mailbox. it's not hurting a soul & doesn't enjoy other toothbrushes or other ppl besides me

FoxyRedLa

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

I was looking for some replies!

Nope nothing about finances and there were 50 listed in the article.

ldent42

chadwick said:

son of a bitch would i have a fit if someone even touched my toothbrush let allow used it. there isn't a chance in hell i'd authorize for it to be barrowed. i do not put my toothbrush among other toothbrushes. leave mine alone as it sits in the closet minding its own business or maybe this week I put it out back next to the chairs or maybe it's in the basement sitting on a old can of paint or maybe it's in the mailbox. it's not hurting a soul & doesn't enjoy other toothbrushes or other ppl besides me

seriously I think I'd lose my mind if someone borrowed my razor or toothbrush. My ex used my deodorant once and I threw it out. Fuck is wrong with people?

chadwick

i could live w/ a time or two of using one another's deodorant but i can see how that would not be a pleasant time for others. ??? razor ??? i don't shave but once every couple years or some such garbage. i go to a hair cutting outfit for large trim tasks because if i did it on my own i would be 'ridiculous-the-screwed-up-beard-face-guy' & we don't need that. right now i've a smaller zz-top goin on & it's time. i do get out my buzz clipper that's a little cheap battery operated thing & i'll trim around my mouth every now&again when i remember i don't wanna eat it anymore

i've never used anyone's razors & not anyone ever used mine.


oops... now wait a minute


i probably used dad's razors back in 1976 when learning how to shave for a living as we split & stacked firewood. dad's razor blade handle thing was not solid chrome all fancy like the one pictured below but that was the style he used. i actually do miss shaving sometimes. it was a really fresh & clean feeling. now my mug houses leftovers, twigs & grass from small animals.

OMGkatwoman

Over controlling the remote control

There should be an all of the above option.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

Enkidu

Chronic lateness

SPEEDY MCCREADY said:

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

My husband would agree.

I would add - putting clothes INTO the hamper. For years my husband just dropped his clothes on the floor. I said they needed to go in the hamper. Our hamper has a lid, so now his clothes usually end up on top of the lid, not inside. But that's a little better...

FoxyRedLa

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

Enkidu said:

SPEEDY MCCREADY said:

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

My husband would agree.

I would add - putting clothes INTO the hamper. For years my husband just dropped his clothes on the floor. I said they needed to go in the hamper. Our hamper has a lid, so now his clothes usually end up on top of the lid, not inside. But that's a little better...

Agreed and agreed. Lol.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Laundry/hamper/pickpocket situation is not an issue.

She hasn't done a load of my laundry in 15 years.
I haven't touched her laundry in 15 years.
She is in charge of the load of towels.

PJ_Soul

Chronic lateness

I am completely punctual at all times. Chronic lateness is my pet peeve with all people who do that, not just a partner. I am incredibly punctual ALWAYS. My dad taught me how important that is when I was growing up, and it stuck (good job dad!). I don't actually think I could be in a relationship with someone who was chronically late at all. Things just wouldn't get that far; I couldn't fall in love with a guy with that quality, lol. I think that chronic lateness is, in the end, after all the excuses, a result of a person not giving a fuck about the people waiting for them. I really disrespect that.

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

Enkidu said:

SPEEDY MCCREADY said:

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

My husband would agree.

I would add - putting clothes INTO the hamper. For years my husband just dropped his clothes on the floor. I said they needed to go in the hamper. Our hamper has a lid, so now his clothes usually end up on top of the lid, not inside. But that's a little better...

Ummm...same on both.

(but I place more blame on the bathroom sink clogs due to our cats' fur and their insistence upon drinking from the running faucet)

brianlux

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

If I could have a dollar for every penny, nickel, dime, quarter, one/five/ten/twenty dollar bill, shopping list, post-it note, guitar pick, postage stamp, key, pair of ear plugs, sea shell and stone that went through the laundry due to my negligence...

OMGkatwoman

Over controlling the remote control

brianlux said:

If I could have a dollar for every penny, nickel, dime, quarter, one/five/ten/twenty dollar bill, shopping list, post-it note, guitar pick, postage stamp, key, pair of ear plugs, sea shell and stone that went through the laundry due to my negligence...

I'm with ya on this one B, and as guilty as charged !

JWPearl

leaving clothes and towels on the floor anywhere in the house that they usually have worn once and would wear it again
i have no idea if its dirty or clean its my only peeve in habits as such aside from i wouldnt like somebody using my toothbrush (do people do that) and squeezing zits constantly that they begin to smell around the body yuckky
late dont worry me too much although im always punctual usually early infact i do understand that time and unforseen occurrences happen some people are always late get used to it crap happens

Indifference71

SPEEDY MCCREADY said:

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

I just yanked out a disgusting chunk of hair from our bathroom sink. Drives me nuts

JWPearl

Indifference71 said:

SPEEDY MCCREADY said:

Her hair clogging up the drains!!!
Both the sink and the shower.
Yet I am the one who has to do the dirty work?

I just yanked out a disgusting chunk of hair from our bathroom sink. Drives me nuts

i do it all the time it doesnt bother me as its just me and my mum and we both have long hair so im always cleaning the shower drain but i do it when im having a shower so i dont feel as gross but it is yuckky though lol
feel sorry for you to have to do it

FoxyRedLa

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

Lmao. The brother in law complains lol similar to the drain situation but rather his wife puts her hair on the wall of the shower ewe but better than digging it out of the drain!

JWPearl

i think so too

ElderlyWomanOH

Poor pick pocketing by placing clothes in the hamper with items in the pockets

I have washed a pocket knife, a lighter, rocks, acorns, golf tees, napkins, money, gum, candy, and .......
Nothing living so far.

ldent42

FoxyRedLa said:

Lmao. The brother in law complains lol similar to the drain situation but rather his wife puts her hair on the wall of the shower ewe but better than digging it out of the drain!

I actually do that too, but I spray the wall so it goes down the drain before i get out. You guys don't have the drain cover on? I just pick it up and bang it against the toilet to get the hair off. Straight after i get out the shower. Easy peasy.

The hamper thing my mom does. It drives me fucking insane. I put laundry bags (the kind that retain their shape not the cloth kind) next to the sink for her and she still can't be arsed to put her clothes IN the bag just throws it on top. If it were my spouse doing this I'd have left him. Not even joking.

hedonist

Hypochondriacs r us, by turning into a baby at the first sign of a cough or cold

FoxyRedLa said:

Lmao. The brother in law complains lol similar to the drain situation but rather his wife puts her hair on the wall of the shower ewe but better than digging it out of the drain!

I do the wall thing too but our drain catch is screwed in. No easy peasy here!

But I'll say I really try to keep my peeves at bay for the most part. Promise I made to myself a few years ago when perspective really hit home. Clothes on hamper, shirt draped over a chair, that bathroom drawer he never quite closes all the way! I will take that any day over the alternate

Still, over the baby-when-sick shit though.

markymark550

Chronic lateness

What about hair plastered to the wall because of a hair dryer? You'd swear my wife was bald based on the wall. Luckily she does clean it up, so I can't complain about it.

Malroth

Snoring and keeping you awake

Add in farts too. Its like a double metronome all night long.

And I'm officially not signing her up for the 10 club.