Post-show depression???

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  • EraserheadEraserhead Stoke-on-Trent Posts: 2,939
    duska3419 wrote:
    guys I found the cure!! It's more shows!!!

    ^^^
    This

    Will be back in the US for the West Coast. Just then the downside after those have finished... :shock:
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  • MG79478MG79478 Posts: 1,674
    I used to get this after a tour, but oddly this is the first tour I didn't get it. I was kinda glad I was done seeing them after 6 shows this tour. Blasphemy, I know. Maybe I've finally seen too many shows? I do know that I was tired of driving all over the place to see them, and tired of work piling up back at the office while I was gone, tired of being away from my family, tired of drunk idiots spilling beer on me and yelling "woooh!" in my ear every 30 seconds.

    As for the shows themselves, every PJ show is great. But after seeing Pittsburgh and Buffalo, I could have missed the next 4 shows I saw, and not really been too upset about them. I feel like the setlists have become pretty uninspired. (Other than "Otherside" at Worcester 2, which I missed) They allegedly soundcheck great songs, and then don't play them. They play the SAME songs off the new album night after night, missing one of the best songs on the album (getaway). In back to back nights in the same city, they repeat too many songs. I've heard for years about what goes in to writing a setlist and I just don't see the effort this year. I've always heard they consider what they've played in that city in recent stops, but that doesn't seem to be a consideration anymore. (e.g. Pilate was played at Spectrum 4 and on this tour in Philly) Again, I'm not complaining, I enjoy every PJ show very much. But when they start to become routine (e.g. Pendulum to open every night), the drive to see them over and over goes away.

    Just my opinion and I'm sure it won't go over well. But maybe the cure for the PJ concert drug is to overdose on concerts.
  • kenny olav wrote:
    No depression here. 3 shows was half a show more than I needed.

    There's plenty of other great musicians to see/hear.


    !!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTH KENNY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    TAKE


    IT


    BACK
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    If I opened it now would you not understand?
  • Magoo2Magoo2 Posts: 95
    Totally can relate to this after 3 shows.
    But that is how life works - the Ying and the Yang, after any "High" comes a "low" - just ride it out.
    It will wear off with time. Overall, the "High" of the show is still worth it - just remind yourself of that.

    I just close my eyes, blast the music and relive the show in my mind. And sing loud and jump around. My kids think I am nuts. Sometimes even just cry.
    Then, I remind myself how lucky I am in life to have found something that makes me feel so incredibly good that is not harmful or bad for you and doesn't cost a ton of money. Try to celebrate what this band/music does for your life. That makes the blues slip away real quick for me. :)
    Hope it gets better for you soon!
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  • ckravitzckravitz NJ Posts: 1,668
    kenny olav wrote:
    No depression here. 3 shows was half a show more than I needed.

    There's plenty of other great musicians to see/hear.

    What's this "other great musicians" thing you speak of? :lol:
  • ckravitzckravitz NJ Posts: 1,668
    After 5 shows in 7 days (Bk1,2, Phil 1,2, Hart) the post tour blues are in full effect. I find myself checking prices on the dreaded Hub, (I dont ever buy tix there) for shows I darn well know I won't be able to go to! Like, hmm, can I swing a quick 3 days in LA which is only 3000 miles away? Or, eh, the wife and family won't mind if I miss Thanksgiving because I flew out west. Haha.
  • kenny olavkenny olav Posts: 3,319
    kenny olav wrote:
    No depression here. 3 shows was half a show more than I needed.

    There's plenty of other great musicians to see/hear.


    !!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTH KENNY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    TAKE


    IT


    BACK
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    :D

    Although Worcester 2 was my favorite show this year, Living Colour was the 2nd best...
    Soundgarden and The Black Crowes probably tied for 3rd...
    Then the Worcester 1 and Hartford PJ shows are maybe tied for 4th...

    I'm dying to see Adrian Belew play live sometime.

    Okay I'll shut up now. 8-)
  • JenfarrJenfarr Posts: 680
    Yeah, it's set in. After 8 shows (everything but Worcester 1 and 2), Baltimore was my last East Coast show. But when I heard there was a Charlottesville ticket drop today and saw I could get Row E on my side, I checked flights to see if I could get there by 8PM! Yes, I am crazy...

    Only light at the end of the tunnel, we are going to Seattle in December!
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  • ldent42ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    My favorite part of this thread if that other people look into shows they know good and damn well they can't go to also. Of course, sometimes that results in you dropping a quick unexpected $300 and booking it to Baltimore with a friend you haven't seen in months, but it worked out sooooooooooooooo well!

    I am NOT getting on a plane to the west coast though.



    :think:


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  • GlttrGrrlGlttrGrrl Posts: 129
    MG79478 wrote:
    I feel like the setlists have become pretty uninspired. (Other than "Otherside" at Worcester 2, which I missed) They allegedly soundcheck great songs, and then don't play them. They play the SAME songs off the new album night after night, missing one of the best songs on the album (getaway). In back to back nights in the same city, they repeat too many songs. I've heard for years about what goes in to writing a setlist and I just don't see the effort this year. I've always heard they consider what they've played in that city in recent stops, but that doesn't seem to be a consideration anymore. (e.g. Pilate was played at Spectrum 4 and on this tour in Philly) Again, I'm not complaining, I enjoy every PJ show very much. But when they start to become routine (e.g. Pendulum to open every night), the drive to see them over and over goes away.

    Just my opinion and I'm sure it won't go over well. But maybe the cure for the PJ concert drug is to overdose on concerts.

    Before Charlottesville last night, I might have agreed with this somewhat, but last night was a huge shock. It was unreal.

    I started feeling the post-show blues about 30 minutes ago, but then I realized that last night was a one-of-a-kind sort of thing, and I wouldn't be able to beat it by going to any more shows. I got more than I ever would have expected. I am happy.
  • Angelbear wrote:
    Then, I remind myself how lucky I am in life to have found something that makes me feel so incredibly good that is not harmful or bad for you and doesn't cost a ton of money. Try to celebrate what this band/music does for your life. That makes the blues slip away real quick for me. :)


    Love this! :D
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  • matt770matt770 Posts: 134
    I already knew by yesterday morning that it was going to take a few days to feel like myself again. Besides feeling sore, drained and having very little voice left, I do feel a bit depressed today. And I'm having thoughts of trying to see some west coast shows, which is just crazy talk. I think beer, Grand Theft Auto and football on Sunday will help me through these trying few days.
  • SVRDhand13SVRDhand13 Posts: 26,310
    One week later and I'm almost over it :lol:
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  • I agree 150% with every single post here. Why couldn't they stay in the Northeast for a few more shows???
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  • kenny olav wrote:
    Although Worcester 2 was my favorite show this year, Living Colour was the 2nd best...
    Man. Living color just played here last month and I couldn't get any one to go with me. They all laughed cuz of "cult of..." Was all they knew, but I knew the show woulda been killer. :/

    MORNING OF WITHDRAWAL DAY 3.
    In full swing depression. Almost lost it at work a few times last night.
    Told a new manager (former wait staff / co-worker) to "shut the fuck up" and go away. Told the owner the same and walked away from him. Bunch of drama that isn't my fault, but the blues just exacerbate my reaction ten fold.
    Had my bolt wristband on in hopes it would keep me in spirits. Didn't work.
    Doh.
    If I was to smile and I held out my hand
    If I opened it now would you not understand?
  • SarahMcNadiaSarahMcNadia Ontario / Québec Posts: 195
    Angelbear wrote:
    Then, I remind myself how lucky I am in life to have found something that makes me feel so incredibly good that is not harmful or bad for you and doesn't cost a ton of money. Try to celebrate what this band/music does for your life. That makes the blues slip away real quick for me. :)


    Love this! :D

    :thumbup: AGREED! They have provided me with an emotional education like no other, beginning at a time when I desperately needed it. I am full of gratitude :-D
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  • ldent42ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    bump :'(
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  • 2-feign-reluctance2-feign-reluctance TigerTown, USA Posts: 23,330
    More like post-show happiness!!!!! Yeah!!!!!!
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  • BLACK35BLACK35 Hanover, Ontario Posts: 22,807
    1 week today since Cincinnati and I do have the post-show blues. But they are starting to go away knowing Detroit is next week!!!! :D
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  • PP193448PP193448 Here Posts: 4,282
    Your depression will end when you get the bootleg, then you will listen to it 100 times... Then you will want to go to all shows on the next tour, but knowing that you may not go to any... Then you will have anxiety attack... Then they will announce tour... Then you will get anxiety attacks more during the lottery. Then you will get tickets and be happy... Then you will go to show and have the best time ever... Then you will be depressed again. Vicious cycle.
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  • SarahMcNadiaSarahMcNadia Ontario / Québec Posts: 195
    BLACK35 said:

    1 week today since Cincinnati and I do have the post-show blues. But they are starting to go away knowing Detroit is next week!!!! :D

    Take me with you! Lol
    An empty cup in the middle of the sea..
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  • PP193448 said:

    Your depression will end when you get the bootleg, then you will listen to it 100 times... Then you will want to go to all shows on the next tour, but knowing that you may not go to any... Then you will have anxiety attack... Then they will announce tour... Then you will get anxiety attacks more during the lottery. Then you will get tickets and be happy... Then you will go to show and have the best time ever... Then you will be depressed again. Vicious cycle.

    My entire mouthful of wine has just been spit out onto my computer. =))
  • ldent42ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    True story.
    Someone take me to a show! Any show!
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  • SarahMcNadiaSarahMcNadia Ontario / Québec Posts: 195
    Oh man, I thought I'd somehow dodged the post-show depression this year but it's catching up to me two weeks later... Help!
    An empty cup in the middle of the sea..
    Buffalo 12-Oct-2013 * Cincinnati 01-Oct-2014 * St. Louis 03-Oct-2014
  • animusanimus Twin Cities area Posts: 530
    I have it and I haven't even seen the show yet... But it happens everytime. I try to just take in as much as I can. It sucks getting home and having that experience slowly fade but I try not to dwell on the fact that it's past but remember the highlights. The boots sure help though. I just need to see more shows per tour
  • The shows are so good and you get such a buzz, you have to come down at some point. After the Fall of 2013 stretch (PHX, LA, LA), I was buzzing for a week, then I started to come down and wondered when/if I would see them live again. Thankfully these men enjoy entertaining us and keep on going.
  • SVRDhand13SVRDhand13 Posts: 26,310
    I get it.... until the bootlegs arrive B-)
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    2010: Newark 5/18 MSG 5/20-21 2011: PJ20 9/3-4 2012: Made In America 9/2
    2013: Brooklyn 10/18-19 Philly 10/21-22 Hartford 10/25 2014: ACL10/12
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  • PJFaninIndyPJFaninIndy Westfield, IN Posts: 93
    The only reason I get depressed after a show is if I miss out on the poster and then go online and see them selling for $120+. I have all of the posters of the shows I have been to except for 2 now (Vote for Change and '14 Cincy). I wish there was a way to pre-order these through 10C if you are going to the show. Now I have to try to get 2 from Milwaukee and trade for a Cincy...
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  • alizmializmi Baltimore...MD Posts: 196
    Even though I got 2 great shows so far (Cincy & Memphis) I always look at the setlists and say man I wish I was at that show instead. We can't just be happy with what we have...they always leave us wanting more.
  • kce8kce8 Posts: 1,636
    I got it and it hits me hard.....had to wait 4 weeks to get the Berlin Bootleg ! Leeds finally arrived last week and disc 2 was missing...so I can tell you...all this waiting for Bootlegs and Posters just drives me craaazzzzyyyy !!!!
    But...the time between winning tickets and the shows was really exciting! Then I was so excited during the shows (my first) that I can´t remember everything (Berlin was a little crazy at second row sometimes).
    Now I am sitting here following the shows so I sometimes have just two hours left for sleep and could cry not having a chance to get one of this fall gigs! Really hard is to know that we more than likely will not get a show in Germany next year...
    cry...
    so, how could I get through all this waiting???? :((
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