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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    OK so I feel like I messed up a little. I don't come here for advice much, if at all (and I mean PJ forums in general, not this thread). Anyway, is it right that I feel guilty for having a first date with two different ladies this week? It's not my normal MOA, I prefer dealing with one person at a time but ended up talking to two at once and figured I may as well see it through..
    I am seriously uncomfortable about it though lol.

    No harm In that rygar. Not like kreids running price or anything like that. Hahaha. Good luck!
    LOL

    Thanks BB
  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    Rygar said:

    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    OK so I feel like I messed up a little. I don't come here for advice much, if at all (and I mean PJ forums in general, not this thread). Anyway, is it right that I feel guilty for having a first date with two different ladies this week? It's not my normal MOA, I prefer dealing with one person at a time but ended up talking to two at once and figured I may as well see it through..
    I am seriously uncomfortable about it though lol.

    No harm In that rygar. Not like kreids running price or anything like that. Hahaha. Good luck!
    LOL

    Thanks BB
    You know you could be like messier during the 80's-90's and have one on each arm!
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    edited November 2014
    Well if Messier did it...
    All I need are the cups and the cash.
  • whispering handswhispering hands Under your skinPosts: 13,527
    So how did it go Rygar??
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    The first rule of the ten club fight club is you don't talk about the ten club fight club!
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    First one is tonight, second one (more hopeful for that one) is tomorrow. I'll let you know!
  • whispering handswhispering hands Under your skinPosts: 13,527
    Ok! Good vibes coming your way!
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    The first rule of the ten club fight club is you don't talk about the ten club fight club!
  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    Rygar said:

    First one is tonight, second one (more hopeful for that one) is tomorrow. I'll let you know!

    Try not to think about the other date while on your first date cuz it'll show something is up and mite throw a bad vibe out. Women know bro, they have a weird extra sense in them. I know it'll be hard to but just go and enjoy yourself. Life's to young bro, and the habs sux =))
  • normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool.Posts: 31,138
    Rygar said:

    OK so I feel like I messed up a little. I don't come here for advice much, if at all (and I mean PJ forums in general, not this thread). Anyway, is it right that I feel guilty for having a first date with two different ladies this week? It's not my normal MOA, I prefer dealing with one person at a time but ended up talking to two at once and figured I may as well see it through..
    I am seriously uncomfortable about it though lol.

    playa
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    norm said:

    Rygar said:

    OK so I feel like I messed up a little. I don't come here for advice much, if at all (and I mean PJ forums in general, not this thread). Anyway, is it right that I feel guilty for having a first date with two different ladies this week? It's not my normal MOA, I prefer dealing with one person at a time but ended up talking to two at once and figured I may as well see it through..
    I am seriously uncomfortable about it though lol.

    playa
    Lol no, that's the problem ;)
  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    Rygar said:

    norm said:

    Rygar said:

    OK so I feel like I messed up a little. I don't come here for advice much, if at all (and I mean PJ forums in general, not this thread). Anyway, is it right that I feel guilty for having a first date with two different ladies this week? It's not my normal MOA, I prefer dealing with one person at a time but ended up talking to two at once and figured I may as well see it through..
    I am seriously uncomfortable about it though lol.

    playa
    Lol no, that's the problem ;)
    Look at this guy, smooth criminal. Playing all like "I'm shy, I don't know why I feel like this, this is so wrong, blah blah blah, shut up rygar! =)) oh and I forgot the "shy" emoticon. Hahaha
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515

    Ok! Good vibes coming your way!

    One down, that one went well. Nice girl, good conversation, expensive drinks haha.
  • JWPearlJWPearl Posts: 19,893
    a male whore is such a turn off
    number 6...
  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    JWPearl said:

    a male whore is such a turn off

    I like to call it manwhore
  • JWPearlJWPearl Posts: 19,893
    oh ok, manwhore then
    number 6...
  • SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NYPosts: 12,148
    Rygar said:

    Ok! Good vibes coming your way!

    One down, that one went well. Nice girl, good conversation, expensive drinks haha.
    How did the second one go?
    ELITIST FUK
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    Second one was alright, nice girl but didn't connect at all. I texted the Thursday date yesterday and no reply, so I guess that one didn't go quite as well as I thought lol
  • SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NYPosts: 12,148
    Rygar said:

    Second one was alright, nice girl but didn't connect at all. I texted the Thursday date yesterday and no reply, so I guess that one didn't go quite as well as I thought lol

    She may have been out, shopping. Give her another day.
    ELITIST FUK
  • kce8kce8 Posts: 1,461
    Rygar said:

    Second one was alright, nice girl but didn't connect at all. I texted the Thursday date yesterday and no reply, so I guess that one didn't go quite as well as I thought lol

    Maybe she´s doing this stupid "let him wait a day or two..." thing - just to know if you are interested enough...
    Good luck... :-bd
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    Thanks.
    Maybe. She's since been online again so I'm not holding my breath lol.


  • whispering handswhispering hands Under your skinPosts: 13,527
    We women are fickle weirdos. Send her a message and tell her you enjoyed your time with her, but that you're not a good 'game player' and prefer not to play games at all. Make sure you give her the benefit of the doubt by mentioning somewhere that you hope that that is not what's going on, but that if she's not interested, you would rather her be honest and up front with you, as that's the type of person you wish to meet. I know when I tried online dating, I respected the guys that were honest with me, even if it was to tell me I was a prude or crazy for my no sex before marriage rule. I still respected them much much more than the guys that just never answered back. And just keep trying.

    Although, coming from me.. That probably doesn't mean much, cause I've just decided that dating these days isn't going to work for an old fashioned gal like myself.. So. Just know I'm rooting for you!
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    Good advice WH. Not sure what I'll do about that one, but I will at least tell the second gal as I see it (pretty sure she's on the same page anyway) as I do prefer the up front approach.
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!
  • kce8kce8 Posts: 1,461
    Oh so sorry for you but Yes, to be honest and true is most important! I believe women do this `let him wait` thing because they don´t want to persist or feeling unsure about what you could think of her. If a girl really wants to see you again wait one day and mail again. Make sure you mean it seriously. If you get no answer then, forget it and don´t worry she wasn´t worth it. Seems you are a good guy so don´t give up and don´t take it too personally!

    Oh and for whispering hands: I still believe there is someone for everyone of us just not easy to find. I never did online dating but why don´t you try again? I´m a little bit confused about the no sex before....rule. Please don´t get me wrong, if it´s your way then there is nothing to say against it but when or after how many dates do you tell them about that?
  • whispering handswhispering hands Under your skinPosts: 13,527
    kce8 said:

    Oh so sorry for you but Yes, to be honest and true is most important! I believe women do this `let him wait` thing because they don´t want to persist or feeling unsure about what you could think of her. If a girl really wants to see you again wait one day and mail again. Make sure you mean it seriously. If you get no answer then, forget it and don´t worry she wasn´t worth it. Seems you are a good guy so don´t give up and don´t take it too personally!

    Oh and for whispering hands: I still believe there is someone for everyone of us just not easy to find. I never did online dating but why don´t you try again? I´m a little bit confused about the no sex before....rule. Please don´t get me wrong, if it´s your way then there is nothing to say against it but when or after how many dates do you tell them about that?

    I am always upfront, and make sure they know that sex isn't a dating option. I feel it is only fair to tell them, otherwise I feel it is lying, or at the very least leading them on. Peoe are nonchalant and glib about sex these days and seem to neglect the founding principles of a relationship, and it is within my belief, that there is soooo much more to a person than an offering of sex. Intimate relations can be improved upon, but by adulthood, the person you get is just that.. They are what they are, and I believe that should be what is concentrated on versus the physical side of things. And I've been through the rigaramol if the online dating scene from OK Cupid, to Christian Mingle.. And I keep running into the sex issue.
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  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    Rygar said:

    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!

    Fuck her then! You're to good for her anyways. Keep your head up bro. Maybe the girl of your dreams in the forums? U never know.
  • whispering handswhispering hands Under your skinPosts: 13,527
    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!

    Fuck her then! You're to good for her anyways. Keep your head up bro. Maybe the girl of your dreams in the forums? U never know.
    And I have to agree, a PJ fan would be a best fit pursuit! :-) good luck either way!
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    The first rule of the ten club fight club is you don't talk about the ten club fight club!
  • SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NYPosts: 12,148
    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!

    Fuck her then! You're to good for her anyways. Keep your head up bro. Maybe the girl of your dreams in the forums? U never know.
    What he said.
    ELITIST FUK
  • badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    edited December 2014
    SD48277 said:



    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!

    Fuck her then! You're to good for her anyways. Keep your head up bro. Maybe the girl of your dreams in the forums? U never know.
    What he said.
    Hell ya, look at cav and lisa. Show me 2 people more happy or more in love then those 2! (I know there's prob couples out there happier, just making an example of how they're so in LOVE)! Hahaha

    I don't know if Susan is single but if she is, I can vouch for her that she's an ANGEL!!!! And has a HUGE HEART! And has magic powers!!! Hahaha

    Edit-and has Lady Luck written all over her!!!
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,515
    You guys are alright.

    :-bd
  • SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NYPosts: 12,148
    badbrains said:

    SD48277 said:



    badbrains said:

    Rygar said:

    Oh well she got back to me and isn't interested, so that's that!

    Fuck her then! You're to good for her anyways. Keep your head up bro. Maybe the girl of your dreams in the forums? U never know.
    What he said.
    Hell ya, look at cav and lisa. Show me 2 people more happy or more in love then those 2! (I know there's prob couples out there happier, just making an example of how they're so in LOVE)! Hahaha

    I don't know if Susan is single but if she is, I can vouch for her that she's an ANGEL!!!! And has a HUGE HEART! And has magic powers!!! Hahaha

    Edit-and has Lady Luck written all over her!!!
    Thanks, BB. Yes, I am single, but I'm pretty sure I'm too old for Rygar.
    ELITIST FUK
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