Kansas City Chief commits suicide at facility...

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  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    pandora wrote:
    He is to blame ... trust me he is very very sorry
    so sorry he couldn't stay

    yesterday you said we couldn't blame him.

    i'm confused now.
    81 is now off the air

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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,890
    How horrible for everyone involved, especially the poor girl's family, and the guy's mother, who witnessed him lose his fucking mind, kill someone, and then lost him too. I can't even begin to imagine how traumatized she is. And his teammates and everyone, also get a huge mind fuck. I don't know what happened with this man, but holy shit, he couldn't have taken a more selfish and cruel path towards trying to make his point. I almost hope that he had a serious psychological disorder and was completely delusional at the time, because if these were just actions of out of control anger or an evil reaction to stress or something, that is even more traumatic. The fact that he was spotted by cops outside of a second girlfriend's home the night before and something shady seemed to be going on there doesn't help my opinion of him. It's a hint telling me that this could have just been pure evil, and he was just too weak to deal with the consequences of murdering his girlfriend in front of his mother, so he checked out ASAP. But who knows. Anyhow, horrible story. :(
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • DS1119DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    I'm pretty sure my care level about this story went down to zero this morning.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    81 wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    He is to blame ... trust me he is very very sorry
    so sorry he couldn't stay

    yesterday you said we couldn't blame him.

    i'm confused now.
    Did I say my heart won't let me blame him?
  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    edited December 2012
    pandora wrote:
    Why I understand you so well.

    :lol::lol::lol: Please stop! You're making my sides ache from laughter.

    Again, I'm done. This is getting very boring Pandora. Maybe your 'understanding' heart can get this. Every.single.thread... every.single.one.
    Post edited by redrock on
  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    DS1119 wrote:
    I'm pretty sure my care level about this story went down to zero this morning.

    You're probably right. As I said in another post, if this guy wasn't a football player and if he hadn't made such a selfish and dramatic 'exit', no one would be speaking of this. Would just be another statistic of someone who didn't control his temper and walk away from an argument and happened to have a gun handy to shoot his girlfriend 9 times.
  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    What's even sadder is that people really did try to help the couple.

    http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/87083 ... ra-perkins

    Police Sgt. Richard Sharp told The Kansas City Star for a Tuesday story that the couple had been arguing over relationship and financial issues for months and that the team had been "bending over backward" trying to help them. Sharp didn't specify how long the couple had been undergoing counseling.

    When Belcher arrived at Arrowhead on Saturday, he encountered Pioli in the parking lot and told him the assistance the team had offered hadn't fixed the couple's problems and now "it was too late," Sharp said.
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    redrock wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    Why I understand you so well.

    :lol::lol::lol: Please stop! You're making my sides ache from laughter.

    Again, I'm done. This is getting very boring Pandora. Every.single.thread... every.single.one.
    Boring well yes life can be boring for some ...
    and sometimes that is a defense mechanism for failure.


    I find most everything to be lovely this from a grateful, appreciative, positive place.
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,890
    pandora wrote:
    redrock wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    Why I understand you so well.

    :lol::lol::lol: Please stop! You're making my sides ache from laughter.

    Again, I'm done. This is getting very boring Pandora. Every.single.thread... every.single.one.
    Boring well yes life can be boring for some ...
    and sometimes that is a defense mechanism for failure.


    I find most everything to be lovely this from a grateful, appreciative, positive place.
    :fp: :fp: :fp: :fp: :fp:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    PJ_Soul wrote:
    :fp: :fp: :fp: :fp: :fp:

    :thumbup:
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    edited December 2012
    pandora wrote:
    My heart tells me I can not blame this young man, not as the facts stand,
    his pain great leading up to and after. It is a tragedy all round.
    from yesterday

    today vs' yesterday
    Post edited by chadwick on
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    pandora wrote:
    He is to blame ... trust me he is very very sorry
    so sorry he couldn't stay
    from today

    today vs' yesterday
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    :wave:
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,890
    chadwick wrote:
    :wave:
    :wave:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    chadwick wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    He is to blame ... trust me he is very very sorry
    so sorry he couldn't stay
    from today

    today vs' yesterday
    I guess some people might want to look up the many meanings of blame.
    The many literary uses.

    Thanks for taking time out of your busy schedule to not understand what I meant ;)
    :lol: and point it out.
    Happy Holidays to you Chadwick always entertaining, well sort of.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    When I saw this dug back up I thought it was the news I heard yesterday
    painting his girlfriend as a stalker who wouldn't leave him alone.
    Don't mind saying I'm totally confused about their whole relationship.
  • chadwickchadwick Posts: 21,157
    pandora wrote:
    When I saw this dug back up I thought it was the news I heard yesterday
    painting his girlfriend as a stalker who wouldn't leave him alone.
    Don't mind saying I'm totally confused about their whole relationship.
    it's ok though, pand. we all get confused.
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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