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  • ComeToTXComeToTX Austin Posts: 7,911
    I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old. I'm not sure how I could have a gun ready to use in case someone broke in that wasn't a lethal danger to my kids.
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  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    ComeToTX wrote:
    ....how I could have a gun ready to use in case someone broke in that wasn't a lethal danger to my kids.

    You hit the nail on the head. As far as I understand it (and it has been mentioned so many times in these gun threads), 'responsible' gun owners will keep (unloaded) gun and ammo separate, both under lock and key. Not sure how one can get 2 keys, go to one secure locker, get gun (and potentially lock up again if more than one gun stored so 'bad guy' can't get to them), then go to other locker, get ammo (and lock up again?), load gun and shoot bad guy who surprised you in your bedroom and has been threatening your partner and children, all this time pointing/waving his gun but just waiting for you to 'do your bit'?

    Doesn't add up does it? Or do we then consider those that keep their loaded gun under the pillow 'irresponsible' gun owners?
  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    ComeToTX wrote:
    Can we get past this one example though? We get it. The old lady is a hero. I could post a hundred stories about people killing their loved ones or kids shooting themselves with dads gun.
    ...
    I remember a story from a while ago... like back in the 80s a while ago... where a father woke up and shot someone he caught climbing into a window at his home.
    Turns out, it was his daughter, who had snuck out to see her boyfriend, returning home after being dropped off. She was struck a couple of times, including one to the head.
    One isolated anecdotal example can always be offset by another isolated anecdotal example... which is why anecdotal examples are never strong supports.
    ...
    I'm going to see if the story is archived.
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  • ComeToTXComeToTX Austin Posts: 7,911
    Cosmo wrote:
    ComeToTX wrote:
    Can we get past this one example though? We get it. The old lady is a hero. I could post a hundred stories about people killing their loved ones or kids shooting themselves with dads gun.
    ...
    I remember a story from a while ago... like back in the 80s a while ago... where a father woke up and shot someone he caught climbing into a window at his home.
    Turns out, it was his daughter, who had snuck out to see her boyfriend, returning home after being dropped off. She was struck a couple of times, including one to the head.
    One isolated anecdotal example can always be offset by another isolated anecdotal example... which is why anecdotal examples are never strong supports.
    ...
    I'm going to see if the story is archived.

    A cop shot and killed his son in his house last week.
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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,114
    ComeToTX wrote:
    Cosmo wrote:
    ComeToTX wrote:
    Can we get past this one example though? We get it. The old lady is a hero. I could post a hundred stories about people killing their loved ones or kids shooting themselves with dads gun.
    ...
    I remember a story from a while ago... like back in the 80s a while ago... where a father woke up and shot someone he caught climbing into a window at his home.
    Turns out, it was his daughter, who had snuck out to see her boyfriend, returning home after being dropped off. She was struck a couple of times, including one to the head.
    One isolated anecdotal example can always be offset by another isolated anecdotal example... which is why anecdotal examples are never strong supports.
    ...
    I'm going to see if the story is archived.

    A cop shot and killed his son in his house last week.
    This could go on for pages.
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    edited August 2012
    ComeToTX wrote:
    A cop shot and killed his son in his house last week.
    ...
    Here is one:
    http://www.thecoastalsource.com/news/lo ... x?rss=1669
    On July 5, two year old Cheyanne Henry was sleeping in her father's bed. She woke up, found his gun on the night stand, and took it back to bed with her. A single round in the chamber shot her in the chest.

    His brother said Joshua has already suffered the greatest punishment of all- losing his daughter.

    The family said their thoughts are also with Cheyanne's mother, who is obviously devastated as well. They said they hope a jury will recognize there was no criminal intent to warrant prosecution.

    ...
    Admittedly, this is an isolated anecdotal example... but, it cancels out the old lady example.
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  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 30,517
    All i know is i don't need a gun .......
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  • JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,219
    Cosmo wrote:
    Admittedly, an isolated anecdotal example... but, it cancels out the old lady example.

    There are so many more of these tragic examples than the hero unfortunately.
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    Cosmo wrote:
    Admittedly, an isolated anecdotal example... but, it cancels out the old lady example.

    There are so many more of these tragic examples than the hero unfortunately.
    ...
    Which stands to reason.
    I am groggy as shit when I wake up in the morning after a full night's sleep. Sometimes, I can't find the fucking alarm clock on my nightstand to shut the damn thing up.
    I cannot imagine being awoken and having the wits and reactions to level a hand gun on target and firing it.
    And in a crowd situation.. I admit... I'm no fucking hero. Some crazy fuck strats cracking of rounds into the crowd, I'm scrambling for safety with the rest of the masses. I ain't Superman and I am way too slow to dodge flying bullets.
    People will tell me how they would John Wayne hero it out and save the day... but, I know better. Unless they are a cop or trained personel or have already reacted in that manner... I ain't buying it.
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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Cosmo wrote:
    Cosmo wrote:
    Admittedly, an isolated anecdotal example... but, it cancels out the old lady example.

    There are so many more of these tragic examples than the hero unfortunately.
    ...
    Which stands to reason.
    I am groggy as shit when I wake up in the morning after a full night's sleep. Sometimes, I can't find the fucking alarm clock on my nightstand to shut the damn thing up.
    I cannot imagine being awoken and having the wits and reactions to level a hand gun on target and firing it.
    And in a crowd situation.. I admit... I'm no fucking hero. Some crazy fuck strats cracking of rounds into the crowd, I'm scrambling for safety with the rest of the masses. I ain't Superman and I am way too slow to dodge flying bullets.
    People will tell me how they would John Wayne hero it out and save the day... but, I know better. Unless they are a cop or trained personel or have already reacted in that manner... I ain't buying it.


    We're hard wired to run away from danger. Fight, flight or freeze. Most people freeze or flee if there's a weapon involved. It takes a lot of training for people to run towards the danger. Cops and military are trained to change this wiring. Most of the general public is not, no matter how many weapons they own.
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    We're hard wired to run away from danger. Fight, flight or freeze. Most people freeze or flee if there's a weapon involved. It takes a lot of training for people to run towards the danger. Cops and military are trained to change this wiring. Most of the general public is not, no matter how many weapons they own.
    ...
    To be honest... I have no idea on how I would react. I don't know and I think no one knows (unless they are trained for the specific situation) how they would actually act. In the case of a gun... I'm running. I know that the smart thing to do is to move away from the sound of gun fire, not towards it.
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    ComeToTX wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    ComeToTX wrote:
    We don't even know if the old lady was saved by the gun. Maybe they thought they broke into an empty house and ran when they saw her.
    maybe ... what if ...come on pleeeeeze :fp:

    I'm sure those were nice respectful young men come to have some sweet tea....

    Didn't say that but don't be so positive the gun had anything to do with it. The fact is there's a better chance someone will shoot themselves or someone they know then to save themselves.

    Can we get past this one example though? We get it. The old lady is a hero. I could post a hundred stories about people killing their loved ones or kids shooting themselves with dads gun.

    Without that gun you know what would have happened to poor Miss Ruby who is 89 years old.
    She would have been at the mercy of two hateful men who didn't respect her life.

    And no we can't get past it because gun opponents have blatantly disregarded Miss Ruby's life
    and her right to fight for it. So much so that they somehow make it her fault
    because of her choice to protect herself.
    Go back and read the posts, it is ridiculous and it is unforgivable.

    Accidents happen with guns ...
    Accidents happen with cars ...
    Accidents happen with boats, jet skis, on and on...
    they happen because someone is not being responsible,
    they are not trained or respectful of exactly what a gun, a car, a boat,
    a jet ski can and will do.

    But because some people are thoughtless
    we can not take basic rights away from those who are thoughtful.
    Most especially the right to save one's own one life or that of their loved ones.


    Miss Ruby got it right and yes she is a hero. There are many, listen to the news.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Cosmo wrote:
    We're hard wired to run away from danger. Fight, flight or freeze. Most people freeze or flee if there's a weapon involved. It takes a lot of training for people to run towards the danger. Cops and military are trained to change this wiring. Most of the general public is not, no matter how many weapons they own.
    ...
    To be honest... I have no idea on how I would react. I don't know and I think no one knows (unless they are trained for the specific situation) how they would actually act. In the case of a gun... I'm running. I know that the smart thing to do is to move away from the sound of gun fire, not towards it.

    its absolutely the smart thing to do. if you can not control the situation then the best thing to do is retreat from it... this is not weakness.
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    Some people are just stronger than others, braver, it is in their make up to take control
    of situations, to be prepared, trained. We see these folks, we are thankful when they are there,
    with a gun or without.

    In the world of sheep these stand out. They will protect their neighbors and even
    a stranger when needed, risking their own lives because they know this is the
    right thing to do.

    Others know they must be able to protect themselves and their loved ones if the
    need arises. They are aware of the very personal dangers or circumstances they live in
    and are prepared as they see fit.

    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    pandora wrote:
    Some people are just stronger than others, braver, it is in their make up to take control
    of situations, to be prepared, trained. We see these folks, we are thankful when they are there,
    with a gun or without.

    In the world of sheep these stand out. They will protect their neighbors and even
    a stranger when needed, risking their own lives because they know this is the
    right thing to do.

    Others know they must be able to protect themselves and their loved ones if the
    needs arises. They are aware of the very personal dangers or circumstances they live in
    and are prepared as they see fit.

    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
    thank you, pandora. that was nice of you to say all that about me
    ;)
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    :lol::lol::lol: :roll: :lol::lol:
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    :lol::lol::lol: :roll: :lol::lol:
    ;);):mrgreen:
  • chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    at a house party a friend of mine got a handgun pulled on him. he then removed the pistol from the man's cold ass hands and took it and then beat the man up with his bare hands then pushed him off the roof of the 12 foot high roof/apartment building

    wizman did not panic. he beat the bad guy who had a loaded 22 pointing it at my friend.
    sometimes not everyone is a scared little victim. sometimes some folks are pretty amazing

    i believe the gun is swimming in the mississippi right about now
    my dude is on a forklift right now @ his place of employment
    the bad guy is probably dead or in prison by guessing his brain power & heart size
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    at a house party a friend of mine got a handgun pulled on him. he then removed the pistol from the man's cold ass hands and took it and then beat the man up with his bare hands then pushed him off the roof of the 12 foot high roof/apartment building

    wizman did not panic. he beat the bad guy who had a loaded 22 pointing it at my friend.
    sometimes not everyone is a scared little victim. sometimes some folks are pretty amazing

    i believe the gun is swimming in the mississippi right about now
    my dude is on a forklift right now @ his place of employment
    the bad guy is probably dead or in prison by guessing his brain power & heart size


    you know chadwick its this kind of post of yours that has me wondering why anyone would mistake you for me... or me for you. it seems like a rookie mistake or a mistake made my someone who isnt in complete control of their facutlies. either way its a ridiculous... and incorrect assumption.
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  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    It is interesting read fife, and not the first article I have read on this subject.

    The concluding paragraph is so astute:

    "But most of the time, gun owners are frightening themselves irrationally. They have conjured in their own imaginations a much more terrifying environment than genuinely exists -- and they are living a fantasy about the security their guns will bestow. And to the extent that they are right -- to the extent that the American environment is indeed more dangerous than the Australian or Canadian or German or French environment -- the dangers gun owners face are traceable to the prevalence of the very guns from which they so tragically mistakenly expect to gain safety."
  • ComeToTXComeToTX Austin Posts: 7,911
    Pandora,

    You're basically saying that since this one woman saved her own life by owning a gun that people should be able to stockpile semi-automatic weapons and 10,000 plus rounds of ammo in a short period of time. That's really a freedom we all need? That's what it takes to protect your home? If this were Syria I might agree.

    The boat, car, jet ski argument has already been had multiple times in this thread. To the best of my knowledge the jet ski wasn't invented to kill people and nobody has ever gone on a killing spree with a boat.
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  • ComeToTXComeToTX Austin Posts: 7,911
    redrock wrote:
    It is interesting read fife, and not the first article I have read on this subject.

    The concluding paragraph is so astute:

    "But most of the time, gun owners are frightening themselves irrationally. They have conjured in their own imaginations a much more terrifying environment than genuinely exists -- and they are living a fantasy about the security their guns will bestow. And to the extent that they are right -- to the extent that the American environment is indeed more dangerous than the Australian or Canadian or German or French environment -- the dangers gun owners face are traceable to the prevalence of the very guns from which they so tragically mistakenly expect to gain safety."

    Pretty right on. They are a very paranoid group. They still think obama is trying to take away their guns.
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    chadwick wrote:
    at a house party a friend of mine got a handgun pulled on him. he then removed the pistol from the man's cold ass hands and took it and then beat the man up with his bare hands then pushed him off the roof of the 12 foot high roof/apartment building

    wizman did not panic. he beat the bad guy who had a loaded 22 pointing it at my friend.
    sometimes not everyone is a scared little victim. sometimes some folks are pretty amazing

    i believe the gun is swimming in the mississippi right about now
    my dude is on a forklift right now @ his place of employment
    the bad guy is probably dead or in prison by guessing his brain power & heart size
    ...
    That is awesome.
    The thing is, it's all about the specifics. It would be much tougher to disarm a person who is already pulling the trigger... depending on your proximity to the shooter and whether you are on his blindside or in his field of vision.
    Things also change depending on the weapon. A .22 revolver or a 9mm Glock or a knife or a baseball bat. My guess is that a lot of people would go after the guy with a baseball bat and more than a few after a guy with a knife... but, few... like your friend, after a gun threat... and ever fewer, after an active shooter... and zero if the active shooter has several weapons capable of firing multiple rounds from magazines and clips.
    But, anyway... good on your friend. Be sure to buy him a beer next time you're out.
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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    pandora wrote:
    Some people are just stronger than others, braver, it is in their make up to take control
    of situations, to be prepared, trained. We see these folks, we are thankful when they are there,
    with a gun or without.

    In the world of sheep these stand out. They will protect their neighbors and even
    a stranger when needed, risking their own lives because they know this is the
    right thing to do.

    Others know they must be able to protect themselves and their loved ones if the
    need arises. They are aware of the very personal dangers or circumstances they live in
    and are prepared as they see fit.

    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
    So people who are victimized are weak and stupid? Am I reading this last part correctly? Are we all supposed to be in training for a potential attack from some hypothetical assailant?
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    pandora wrote:
    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
    So people who are victimized are weak and stupid? Am I reading this last part correctly? Are we all supposed to be in training for a potential attack from some hypothetical assailant?
    ...
    Didn't you know that? We are supposed to be paranoid of our fellow citizens and go through rigorous training programs to stop anyone who is doing bad stuff... at any time.. in any situation... like when a nutcase is firing an AR-15 in a dark, crowded movie house.
    I suppose, all of those people in Aurora were weak, untrained cowards because there was not one Hero who rushed towards him and stopped him. I guess, that means they deserved to be victims, when their time came.
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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Cosmo wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
    So people who are victimized are weak and stupid? Am I reading this last part correctly? Are we all supposed to be in training for a potential attack from some hypothetical assailant?
    ...
    Didn't you know that? We are supposed to be paranoid of our fellow citizens and go through rigorous training programs to stop anyone who is doing bad stuff... at any time.. in any situation... like an nutcase firing an AR-15 in a dark, crowded movie house.
    I suppose, all of those people in Aurora were weak, untrained cowards because there was not one Hero who rushed towards him and stopped him. I guess, that means they deserved to be victims, when their time came.
    Damn! And here I've been wasting my life by getting an education, building a career, taking care of my family. Now I realize I should have been in combat training. I sure hope I get to pick out my own superhero costume.

    Regardless of which side of the gun control debate you're on, victim blaming really has no place. It's poor form, irrelevant and could not be a truer example of a lack of empathy.
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  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Cosmo wrote:
    I suppose, all of those people in Aurora were weak, untrained cowards because there was not one Hero who rushed towards him and stopped him. I guess, that means they deserved to be victims, when their time came.
    Yep! Including the three gentlemen who died while shielding their girlfriends.
  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    Cosmo wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    Then there are some who are unprepared, untrained and weak ...
    with a gun or without, they will be a victim when the time comes,
    a victim of their own stupidity or of someone else's.
    So people who are victimized are weak and stupid? Am I reading this last part correctly? Are we all supposed to be in training for a potential attack from some hypothetical assailant?
    ...
    Didn't you know that? We are supposed to be paranoid of our fellow citizens and go through rigorous training programs to stop anyone who is doing bad stuff... at any time.. in any situation... like when a nutcase is firing an AR-15 in a dark, crowded movie house.
    I suppose, all of those people in Aurora were weak, untrained cowards because there was not one Hero who rushed towards him and stopped him. I guess, that means they deserved to be victims, when their time came.
    As you say - sheep, weak, stupid and cowards who 'submit' to the 'bad guys' - no 'fight' in them. Pfftt.. that's what I say. Posted earlier on, but that last paragraph of the article fife posted says all it has to say about people who express such absurdities.
  • redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    edited August 2012
    Regardless of which side of the gun control debate you're on, victim blaming really has no place. It's poor form, irrelevant and could not be a truer example of a lack of empathy.
    Sad state of affairs, blaming the victim.

    Being able to shoot, being 'trained', etc. is absolutely no guarantee of being able to defend one's self or protect another or take action in 'emergencies'. It has been proven many times over and mentioned in these threads more times than I wish to remember (this also goes for those taking self defense classes such as martial arts, etc.). It is rare that those with 'casual' training (ie the responsible, law abiding citizen with a gun who had a shot or two at a fixed target at the range) will be able to 'pull himself/herself' together and act as they thought they would (ie shoot the bastard that's trying to rob them, or whatever..). Even for highly tuned soldiers (for example), it's not easy.

    Too bad catwoman is already taken comebackgirl....
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