Thanks to all and an update on my wife

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  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    You all are such an amazing Jamily.
    No matter how hard this continues to get
    I always know that I can come on here and get my spirit lifted and strength renewed.
    Thank you so much for being the good hearted people that you are.

    You have no idea how much you all mean to us.
    We are so fortunate to have such positive, supportive and inspiring people to talk to.


    Thanks to all... I am going to do my best to get on here really soon for a better update. My worker who I had to let go's mother almost committed suicide. Then a week later I ran into him and he was going to a place to do the same. Everything has hit us at once. I do hope that you good people could do me one last favor and lend me your ears. By the way our friends are safe. Please...Please...Send us some of your good vibes and those who are religious some prayer. This seems to be the home stretch....

    Humbled,
    John....
    John and Shawna
  • red mosred mos Posts: 4,953
    will do bud! keeping you and your family/ friends in thoughts and prayers.
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  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    It has been a very hard day today. Your thoughts and good wishes are kept close to my heart and deeper in my soul. Please...Please....know that I haven't stopped thinking of you guy's for one day through this entire year.
    I can't even count how many times you have saved me and my family from total disaster through which is now been well over a year.

    Thank you,

    John, Shawna and our boy's

    Peace and Love to you all.
    John and Shawna
  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,484
    Thoughts, vibes & prayers continue to be with you guys! Keep fighting!
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  • CareyCarey Posts: 2,361
    I am thinking of you both John and Shawna. You deserve a break from the neverending curveballs that life seems to be throwing you. Hang in there!
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  • ItIsAllAboutPJItIsAllAboutPJ S.B., CA Posts: 829
    John,
    I can't imagine what is wrong with the people who let your company go. It seems like the most cruel way to deal with something that is probably a miscommunication.
    There is no way to make the feelings you have go away but you have to believe that something better will come along to fill the gap.
    I am praying for you and your employees that your kind deeds will come back to you as they should.

    I hope once Shanna's surgery on the 6th is done and she is out of pain you can get your mind back in the game and have positive thoughts to move forward and regain a sense of control in your life.

    My best to you,
    XO K.
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Your kindness is overwhelming. I can't tell you how much we appreciate you guy's. Things are going to get a lot rougher here before getting any better.That's for sure but your posts have completely overwhelmed us with joy.

    Thank you for that....

    We are just so amazed and tearful of the devotion and dedication
    you all have done with not forgetting us and sticking by our side.
    You are all our guiding light, hope and strength.

    John,Shawna and our little ones..
    John and Shawna
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    John,give a kiss and a hug to those little ones
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Jeremys SpokenJeremys Spoken Posts: 7,578
    This is my first post in this thread, but I have followed along the whole time.


    I hope everything turns out well for you and your wife, and the entire family. You have been through a lot so far, don't give up hope now.

    Not to be cheesy, but it's always darkest before the dawn. IT WILL NOT BE THIS HARD FOREVER. Be as positive as you can be, continue to fight along with your wife. We are here for you, day in and day out.
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    senting positive vides..all will be ok..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • mysticweedmysticweed Posts: 3,710
    paysonites wrote:
    It has been a very hard day today. Your thoughts and good wishes are kept close to my heart and deeper in my soul. Please...Please....know that I haven't stopped thinking of you guy's for one day through this entire year.
    I can't even count how many times you have saved me and my family from total disaster through which is now been well over a year.

    Thank you,

    John, Shawna and our boy's

    Peace and Love to you all.

    peace and love right back
    fuck 'em if they can't take a joke

    "what a long, strange trip it's been"
  • F Me In The BrainF Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,595
    Hi John & Shawna,

    Sending my best wishes and thoughts and good vibes to you both and the kids. I dont know if you recall why I moved back east but I am only helping with someone in a difficult spot and it is enormously taxing on my wife and myself. You both are so strong to keep fighting for what you need that you truly are an inspiration to us, as many have stated here. Please do let me know as well if there is anything in particular that you need assistance with and know that you have another few people who think about you and your family every day.

    Best Wishes Looking ahead to the 6th!

    Brett
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • FahkaFahka Posts: 3,187
    Thinking of you guys. Sending love and light your way <3
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    You know I seem to remember a different person two years ago that was full of genuine and constant positivity.
    My heart is truly broken from all of this turmoil that has happened. Don't get me wrong I love and take care of my family.It just hurts to see a fall after fall.

    I just hate not having our families closer during these times. I truly love the friendships and support that you unconditionally continue to send our way. I hope life rewards you in the best way possible. I WOULD OF NOT MADE IT THIS FAR WITHOUT YOU ALL.

    Believe me I will not give up. Their is just so much a person can take before they break down. We will make it through.

    Thank you... Thank you.... Thank You ...
    forever in your debt and all of my love....

    John
    John and Shawna
  • red mosred mos Posts: 4,953
    We are here for you John, and your family. That's is another great thing about the Pearl jam community. It's more than the music, it's the support, that we have for each other. The prayers, and positive thoughts continue for you and your family.
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    all will be ok John...our thoughts are with you
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • BirgitBirgit Posts: 34
    So, I have been following this thread for a long time now, but never found any words that might be any help or consolation in such a hard time. I still don't, but I just really wanted to say that, from what I read here, you are one of the strongest and bravest people I know. I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel, but it is really inspiring to see how you deal with all this and what love can do. So, stay strong, my family and I are keeping our fingers crossed for you guys. I'm sure there's great times ahead for you all, keep your head up!
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  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Birgit wrote:
    So, I have been following this thread for a long time now, but never found any words that might be any help or consolation in such a hard time. I still don't, but I just really wanted to say that, from what I read here, you are one of the strongest and bravest people I know. I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel, but it is really inspiring to see how you deal with all this and what love can do. So, stay strong, my family and I are keeping our fingers crossed for you guys. I'm sure there's great times ahead for you all, keep your head up!

    Thank you so much for your heart felt words. It really means a lot that you and others take time out of your day to support us. I will be eternally grateful for that. Life is so precious and you never know what is around the corner. Live life to the fullest, hug all who are dear to you.

    You people are so inspiring to me. You lift me up when I barely have the energy to keep going. I think about the music of Pearl Jam, and this incredible, warming and charismatic site where the fans seem to live through the music and at least for me it brings out the best in human nature.

    I am doing my best here but the emotions are high and watching my wife not be able to walk most of time is gut wrenching and rips at the heart strings. Please continue to send us your thoughts, prayers, and good vibes. It really helps by strengthening my ambition and motivation to continue on. It is hard having most of the time 17 hour days and not feeling like I have accomplished anything.

    Thank you again for your strength it is what has made all of this work. Without you there would of been no way we could of made it this far.

    Humbled and gracious,
    John
    John and Shawna
  • NAUjackfanNAUjackfan Phoenix Posts: 2,340
    Don't ever think you're not accomplishing anything during your long days. For all the hope and support you feel from here, you provide that tenfold to Shawna.

    Good vibes coming your way from the Valley!
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    much love to both of you....
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    NAUjackfan wrote:
    Don't ever think you're not accomplishing anything during your long days. For all the hope and support you feel from here, you provide that tenfold to Shawna.

    Good vibes coming your way from the Valley!

    Thank you...This is by far the longest and hardest time of our lives. I appreciate you man. You've been so incredibly supportive through all of this. Thanks for the music it is listened to constantly.

    John
    John and Shawna
  • F Me In The BrainF Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,595
    Many thoughts & best wishes headed into the weekend John!

    As always, there is a PJ lyric for everything!
    "Help me help yourself,... please want me to,... please let me to"

    Brett
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    much love to both of you....

    The love goes both ways my friend.
    John and Shawna
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Many thoughts & best wishes headed into the weekend John!

    As always, there is a PJ lyric for everything!
    "Help me help yourself,... please want me to,... please let me to"

    Brett

    I've gone from barely functioning to being ready for whatever comes my way today. I can never make this up to you guy's but somehow in between I have been able to help others and pay it forward. I can't express enough how much you mean to me. Thanks Brett for always being here when we need you.

    Your friends,
    John, Shawna and the boy's
    John and Shawna
  • hgpjam11hgpjam11 Posts: 1,328
    Hang in there... you are both very strong to have gotten this far, and you have a lot of people here with you.
    I win.
  • SD48277SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Your strength is incredible. My wish for you both is that this trying time will soon pass so that you can enjoy all the good things life has to offer.
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  • kellanazziekellanazzie Posts: 1,484
    John & Shawna,
    My heart just aches so for you & your family, your in my thoughts every day. Sometimes we feel so low, so many awful things happen & still, yet more is heaped upon our shoulders. Its like your in a vast hole, hanging on by your fingertips to the edge and life comes along & tries to dance on your fingers. Hang on tight, your will & strength is incredible and a true inspiration to us all. Much love & hope from my little corner in Ontario.
    Kelly
  • paysonitespaysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    :( Thinking of you guy's. This is pretty damn hard. I don't know..It will work out in the end. :(
    John and Shawna
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    paysonites wrote:
    :( Thinking of you guy's. This is pretty damn hard. I don't know..It will work out in the end. :(
    yes..will work..listen the Greeky
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • ClaireackClaireack Posts: 13,561
    Just sending a bit of love your way.
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