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  • loveontwolegs
    loveontwolegs Posts: 501
    Love and light Chiq!
  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    sending all good thoughts your way...keep your head up, sweetheart!
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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Thanks guys! I really pray it does continue, I always get so scared of a setback, she's still in delicate shape.

    My sis and I took our dad out to a local flea market this morning which really helped his spirits a lot, did for all of us I think, just to be out in the sunshine and do something positive. Needed the balance with everything going on for sure.

    Good thoughts to you and your family, B. That was a good idea to take your dad out for some sunshine and change of scenery...

    Take care.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • PureandEasy
    PureandEasy Posts: 5,818
    Of course B, anything for you. Prayers for your mom. Take it easy.
    Don't come closer or I'll have to go
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Thanks again so much everyone, it all must be helping because she's been doing pretty well. Still fighting the infection but no fever today, and she even opened her eyes and saw my sister and me. They still have her heavily sedated and with pain meds, and have decided against taking her off the ventilator tomorrow, which sounds like a wise decision. Would be worse to take her off of it if it was too soon.

    Still is hard to see her like that, I have a picture of all of us on my desk here and she looked so healthy and happy. Hopefully she can get back to that someday.



    of course it's hard, but overall...this sounds like positive news!
    you, your mom and your whole family have been in my thoughts.
    all the best chica...

    xo
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


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  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    Thinking of you B, you know everyone here loves you to bits :)
  • EmBleve
    EmBleve Posts: 3,019
    good thoughts and warm vibes..
  • davidtrios
    davidtrios Posts: 9,732
    im very sorry to hear this, B.A..thoughts and prayers
  • unlost dogs
    unlost dogs Greater Boston Posts: 12,553
    Positive thoughts and wishes heading your way from Boston. Focus on that photo of your Mom, and stay strong.

    (((hug)))
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    Thanks everybody. Had to go wail on a dumbass doctor this afternoon, they decided not to give my mom any of her anti-anxiety meds so she was screaming and crying, which I could hear over the phone when I called to check in. It's like READ HER CHART YOU DUMB ASSHOLE.

    ugghhghghhhhhhh
  • mikalina
    mikalina Posts: 7,206
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Thanks everybody. Had to go wail on a dumbass doctor this afternoon, they decided not to give my mom any of her anti-anxiety meds so she was screaming and crying, which I could hear over the phone when I called to check in. It's like READ HER CHART YOU DUMB ASSHOLE.

    ugghhghghhhhhhh


    I'm so sorry to read about about your mom ... I've been out of town and just read this.

    Sending your mom - good thoughts and prayers - wishing the very best for the both of you.
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    mikalina wrote:
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Thanks everybody. Had to go wail on a dumbass doctor this afternoon, they decided not to give my mom any of her anti-anxiety meds so she was screaming and crying, which I could hear over the phone when I called to check in. It's like READ HER CHART YOU DUMB ASSHOLE.

    ugghhghghhhhhhh


    I'm so sorry to read about about your mom ... I've been out of town and just read this.

    Sending your mom - good thoughts and prayers - wishing the very best for the both of you.
    Thank you, I really do appreciate everyone's kind words. It helps.
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    If I manage to not get sick myself dealing with the mental midgets at the hospital, I'll be stunned. GOOD LORD.
  • Who Princess
    Who Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    If I manage to not get sick myself dealing with the mental midgets at the hospital, I'll be stunned. GOOD LORD.
    Yes, that part is frustrating. Do what you have to do and don't worry about pissing them off. You have a lot more at stake in this situation than they do.
    "The stars are all connected to the brain."
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    whoprincess wrote:
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    If I manage to not get sick myself dealing with the mental midgets at the hospital, I'll be stunned. GOOD LORD.
    Yes, that part is frustrating. Do what you have to do and don't worry about pissing them off. You have a lot more at stake in this situation than they do.
    Oh I definitely have no problem making my concerns known for sure! It just makes an already difficult situation even more unbearable.

    I got a call at 4am this morning that she got put back on the ventilator, and might have had a heart attack, still waiting on confirmation of that. I have no idea what is going to happen. They say we just have to take it day by day, which I know intellectually. So hard heartwise though.

    I've spent the whole day going between staying strong and then just falling apart and weeping :( I fucking hate this.
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    thoughts are with you and your mom
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    metsfan wrote:
    thoughts are with you and your mom
    Thank you, we can sure use them.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    Hold on chiqui . . . and remember to Just Breathe :) ((((hugs)))) & ((((good vibes))))
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  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    metsfan wrote:
    thoughts are with you and your mom
    Thank you, we can sure use them.
    welcome, barb

    xoxo
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,829
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    If I manage to not get sick myself dealing with the mental midgets at the hospital, I'll be stunned. GOOD LORD.

    I always assumed doctors would always automatically do the most obvious procedures to help cure the patient. While dealing with my father's care, I learned that you constantly have to hound them to take action. my wife is a doctor, so I always have her call my dad's caregivers to remind them they are being watched by a peer!

    I wish you the best in dealing with your mom.

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