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  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    *Sending good thoughts to your mom*
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  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Sending every good thought and positive energy to your mom.
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    Thanks so much everybody, I really appreciate it. She's stable so far this morning, gonna head out to see her after I make lunch and finish this bucket of coffee I just made. I'm kinda still in a state of shock so everything feels weird.
    I'm so sorry. This must be incredibly difficult for you and your family.
    Try to rest when you can and to eat something even when you don't feel like it. Take care of yourself so you can be there for your mom and your family.
    If people offer to help, tell them what you need.

    I can't imagine exactly what you're going through but I've been through something similar and to me it felt unreal. Like how could the rest of the world go on its merry way when my world had stopped.

    I will be thinking of you.
    Thanks for this advice, I will definitely heed it. And your'e right, it does feel unreal.
  • electronblue
    electronblue Posts: 3,503
    sending good thoughts, chiqui ~
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    sending good thoughts, chiqui ~
    Thank you!

    I spent a couple hours with her this afternoon and talked with the doctor and pulmunologist. She seems to be responding to the meds and her vitals are staying stable which is a good sign. They may try to take her off the ventilator tomorrow but we'll see, it might be better to keep her on just so her lungs can rest. They took her off one of the sedatives so even though she was knocked out she could hear me talking and would squeeze my hand when I asked her. I hope she keeps going in this positive direction.
  • Who Princess
    Who Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    I spent a couple hours with her this afternoon and talked with the doctor and pulmunologist. She seems to be responding to the meds and her vitals are staying stable which is a good sign. They may try to take her off the ventilator tomorrow but we'll see, it might be better to keep her on just so her lungs can rest. They took her off one of the sedatives so even though she was knocked out she could hear me talking and would squeeze my hand when I asked her. I hope she keeps going in this positive direction.
    That sounds like good news. I will keep hoping for you!
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    I spent a couple hours with her this afternoon and talked with the doctor and pulmunologist. She seems to be responding to the meds and her vitals are staying stable which is a good sign. They may try to take her off the ventilator tomorrow but we'll see, it might be better to keep her on just so her lungs can rest. They took her off one of the sedatives so even though she was knocked out she could hear me talking and would squeeze my hand when I asked her. I hope she keeps going in this positive direction.
    That sounds like good news. I will keep hoping for you!
    Yes, we are definitely heartened by it. I'm gonna go take my dad and sis out for dinner just to get our minds distracted for a little bit, and get fed too! Thanks for the hope, can never ever have too much :)
  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    Good thoughts and prayers coming your way!
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  • josevolution
    josevolution Posts: 31,798
    Whoa sorry to hear i will have you and your Mom in my thoughts :(
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  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    Strength, love and light to your mom, you and your whole family. HUGS
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • pjtradeking
    pjtradeking Posts: 4,045
    Thoughts and prayers to you..... :(
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  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    Sending big hugs and good thoughts your way! I know it's difficult as we just went through tough times too with Paul's mom. Keep strong and hang in there. I know you are keeping your sense of humor from your fb posts and that does help immensely! xoxo :)
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  • pinkbutterfly
    pinkbutterfly Posts: 1,391
    I am so sorry to hear your mom is in ICU. I really hope she gets through this. I'm sending my prayers and hugs to you and your family.
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    Thanks again so much everyone, it all must be helping because she's been doing pretty well. Still fighting the infection but no fever today, and she even opened her eyes and saw my sister and me. They still have her heavily sedated and with pain meds, and have decided against taking her off the ventilator tomorrow, which sounds like a wise decision. Would be worse to take her off of it if it was too soon.

    Still is hard to see her like that, I have a picture of all of us on my desk here and she looked so healthy and happy. Hopefully she can get back to that someday.
  • rollings
    rollings unknown Posts: 7,127
    So good to hear that!
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    I am pleased to hear that she has some improvement. I will keep sending hope for you all.
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    Thanks guys! I really pray it does continue, I always get so scared of a setback, she's still in delicate shape.

    My sis and I took our dad out to a local flea market this morning which really helped his spirits a lot, did for all of us I think, just to be out in the sunshine and do something positive. Needed the balance with everything going on for sure.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    So glad to hear that there is improvement B. Still sending good vibes your way :)
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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    So glad to hear that there is improvement B. Still sending good vibes your way :)
    Thank you dear!
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    sending good vibes to you and your mom and family...hang in there!
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