I was married to the wrong man for too long... my wish is to be a man's "everything", first of all his best friend, and everything else will fall into place...
"... my wish is to be a man's "everything""
Being a man, I would advise against this. Smothering is no good. Be what he needs you for. But leave preparing his taxes to his accountant, and his fillings to his dentist.
When I worked at a domestic violence treatment program, and volunteered at places for survivors of domestic violence and sexual assualt I was scared of men - probably for a few years.
Since then my view of men has unfolded like a rose - with each year I realize that more and more men are good people, and see more and more relationships made by good people. Even though it's been over 10 years since I left that field of work I think I'm still a little scared. It's cool to think that maybe there's a good man out there for me
The guessing, the wonder, is the spice of life. Life without spice is jello. That's it! Without men, life would be jello!
I was married to the wrong man for too long... my wish is to be a man's "everything", first of all his best friend, and everything else will fall into place...
I think the 'best friend' quality is key to a strong relationship, and then be eachother's 'everything'..... Once that doesn't exist or isn't there from the start, respect and trust and closeness is gone.
Good for you for wanting more! We all want those things. I can't even imagine that feeling anymore.
I was married to the wrong man for too long... my wish is to be a man's "everything", first of all his best friend, and everything else will fall into place...
"... my wish is to be a man's "everything""
Being a man, I would advise against this. Smothering is no good. Be what he needs you for. But leave preparing his taxes to his accountant, and his fillings to his dentist.
I don't want to be smothered, been down that route before, but I have needs too!!
I was married to the wrong man for too long... my wish is to be a man's "everything", first of all his best friend, and everything else will fall into place...
"... my wish is to be a man's "everything""
Being a man, I would advise against this. Smothering is no good. Be what he needs you for. But leave preparing his taxes to his accountant, and his fillings to his dentist.
I don't want to be smothered, been down that route before, but I have needs too!!
I think i'm confused. you said you wanted to be a mans "everything", therefore him being the smothered one...
I agree with Dissident...smothering is no good what so ever...However...
being each others best friends is extremely important. I was friends with my wife before
we decided to date. Do we have our issues? Sure we do (Dissident knows more than anyone that we do)
but we make it work.
Be each others friend and the rest will fall into place.
"...And I fight back in my mind. Never lets me be right.
I got memories. I got shit so much it don't show."
I think i'm confused. you said you wanted to be a mans "everything", therefore him being the smothered one... Being loved doesn't mean smothering... just a sweet caring man who has the same passions and interests as I do..
I agree with Dissident...smothering is no good what so ever...However...
being each others best friends is extremely important. I was friends with my wife before
we decided to date. Do we have our issues? Sure we do (Dissident knows more than anyone that we do)
but we make it work.
Be each others friend and the rest will fall into place.
I think i'm confused. you said you wanted to be a mans "everything", therefore him being the smothered one... Being loved doesn't mean smothering... just a sweet caring man who has the same passions and interests as I do..
I've had enough controlling and smothering...
but again, you have to becareful what you wish for. Having the same needs and wants isn't always a good thing. Henceforth the cliche` "opposites attract"
"...And I fight back in my mind. Never lets me be right.
I got memories. I got shit so much it don't show."
There is no such thing as leftover pizza. There is now pizza and later pizza. - anonymous The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
I think i'm confused. you said you wanted to be a mans "everything", therefore him being the smothered one... Being loved doesn't mean smothering... just a sweet caring man who has the same passions and interests as I do..
I've had enough controlling and smothering...
but again, you have to becareful what you wish for. Having the same needs and wants isn't always a good thing. Henceforth the cliche` "opposites attract"
I hear ya! Maybe I misspoke when I said be a man's everything, what I should have said is to be an important person in his life. I married really young, and friendship never really was part of our marriage. It was a more of a physical attraction. His mistress was alcohol, and will always be...
I don't plan on marrying again, but I would like to be in a loving and caring relationship, and have a lot in common. That's not really asking for too much...
Our 31 year relationship started with a very strong sexual attraction and just really enjoying time together. I believe that is the basis to a good lasting relationship and then people learn how to be a good partner. They learn what makes the other happiest and a friendship grows through trust and faith. Each individual must find the importance in life, not for everyone is that another human being. We were lucky to have found that we together was the most important thing in our lives and we have worked to keep it so.
Our 31 year relationship started with a very strong sexual attraction and just really enjoying time together. I believe that is the basis to a good lasting relationship and then people learn how to be a good partner. They learn what makes the other happiest and a friendship grows through trust and faith. Each individual must find the importance in life, not for everyone is that another human being. We were lucky to have found that we together was the most important thing in our lives and we have worked to keep it so.
Why must you turn every serious thread into a joke?
Our 31 year relationship started with a very strong sexual attraction and just really enjoying time together. I believe that is the basis to a good lasting relationship and then people learn how to be a good partner. They learn what makes the other happiest and a friendship grows through trust and faith. Each individual must find the importance in life, not for everyone is that another human being. We were lucky to have found that we together was the most important thing in our lives and we have worked to keep it so.
Well, you both are amazing people.... so, together, ultra amazing!!!
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Our 31 year relationship started with a very strong sexual attraction and just really enjoying time together. I believe that is the basis to a good lasting relationship and then people learn how to be a good partner. They learn what makes the other happiest and a friendship grows through trust and faith. Each individual must find the importance in life, not for everyone is that another human being. We were lucky to have found that we together was the most important thing in our lives and we have worked to keep it so.
Well, you both are amazing people.... so, together, ultra amazing!!!
Thank you, and you a wonderful and beautiful young woman with a happy life ahead. You are very sensitive and smart a great combination, good things are bound to find their way to you!
Our 31 year relationship started with a very strong sexual attraction and just really enjoying time together. I believe that is the basis to a good lasting relationship and then people learn how to be a good partner. They learn what makes the other happiest and a friendship grows through trust and faith. Each individual must find the importance in life, not for everyone is that another human being. We were lucky to have found that we together was the most important thing in our lives and we have worked to keep it so.
Why must you turn every serious thread into a joke?
I was married to the wrong man for too long... my wish is to be a man's "everything", first of all his best friend, and everything else will fall into place...
"... my wish is to be a man's "everything""
Being a man, I would advise against this. Smothering is no good. Be what he needs you for. But leave preparing his taxes to his accountant, and his fillings to his dentist.
Be what he needs 'me' for? :think: I've been there, done that... :roll:
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"... my wish is to be a man's "everything""
Being a man, I would advise against this. Smothering is no good. Be what he needs you for. But leave preparing his taxes to his accountant, and his fillings to his dentist.
Good for you for wanting more! We all want those things. I can't even imagine that feeling anymore.
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I think i'm confused. you said you wanted to be a mans "everything", therefore him being the smothered one...
being each others best friends is extremely important. I was friends with my wife before
we decided to date. Do we have our issues? Sure we do (Dissident knows more than anyone that we do)
but we make it work.
Be each others friend and the rest will fall into place.
I got memories. I got shit so much it don't show."
Being loved doesn't mean smothering... just a sweet caring man who has the same passions and interests as I do..
I've had enough controlling and smothering...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
but again, you have to becareful what you wish for. Having the same needs and wants isn't always a good thing. Henceforth the cliche` "opposites attract"
I got memories. I got shit so much it don't show."
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The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
I don't plan on marrying again, but I would like to be in a loving and caring relationship, and have a lot in common. That's not really asking for too much...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I got memories. I got shit so much it don't show."
eeyy, it 'tis matey
Why must you turn every serious thread into a joke?
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
It's all Greek to me.
LOL. HAHA. I bet you've never heard that before!
Bazinga!
but the women have been serious the men they joke
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
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♥~RIP Dad
nice
lol men rock and suck all at once
but then again so do us ladies..... sometimes
that what keeps it interesting
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
+1
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more