***MEN***

Dissidentman

chadwick wrote:

DeLukin wrote:

blackredyellow wrote:

There are three stages of something getting done:
1) you asking us to do it
2) you repeatedly asking/nagging us, so we finally say "ok"
3) us finally doing it

the space between 2 & 3 depends a lot on how much/little we want to do it, or how important (in our minds) that it really is.

Although, ladies, if you want to TRULY motivate your man you gotta speak their language. I remember a to-do list that my wife wrote me a few years ago that had as the very last item "ME" (meaning HER). I don't think I was ever so eager to vacuum the damn floor in my life...

what is a vacuum?

It is a volume of space that is essentially empty of matter - but I don't see why that matters here...

chadwick

Dissidentman wrote:

It is a volume of space that is essentially empty of matter - but I don't see why that matters here...

huh, i'll be damned...
i am envisioning a black hole of sorts.

Stone Is God

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

Soda also comes in cans- crisis averted

Touche.

catefrances

Dissidentman wrote:

It is a volume of space that is essentially empty of matter - but I don't see why that matters here...

oh like the space between a mans ears. gotcha.

Dissidentman

catefrances wrote:

Dissidentman wrote:

It is a volume of space that is essentially empty of matter - but I don't see why that matters here...

oh like the space between a mans ears. gotcha.

*rimshot*

catefrances

Dissidentman wrote:

catefrances wrote:

Dissidentman wrote:

It is a volume of space that is essentially empty of matter - but I don't see why that matters here...

oh like the space between a mans ears. gotcha.

*rimshot*

a hail mary from the beyond the arc thanks.

dcfaithful

catefrances wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

ugh... im sorry but this does not turn me on AT ALL. and thats beside the fact that he seems dumb as a post.

He does kind of sport that "douchebag" kind of look... :?

Women have problems with men, and I can assure you men have problems with women. After this thread runs it's course, let's start a women one.

catefrances

dcfaithful wrote:

catefrances wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

ugh... im sorry but this does not turn me on AT ALL. and thats beside the fact that he seems dumb as a post.

He does kind of sport that "douchebag" kind of look... :?

Women have problems with men, and I can assure you men have problems with women. After this thread runs it's course, let's start a women one.

he just looks too effeminate for my liking.

Ms. Wes C.addle

I do feel the need to say this though-
There are some truly great men out there..... most of them gay or married, but a few that actually have their shit somewhat figured out and aren't completely oozing with bullshit and soul-sucking capabilities.
I like to think that I know 1 or 2 ..... and it makes me smile.

A gold star to those few left- you are a dying breed!

decides2dream

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I do feel the need to say this though-
There are some truly great men out there..... most of them gay or married, but a few that actually have their shit somewhat figured out and aren't completely oozing with bullshit and soul-sucking capabilities.
I like to think that I know 1 or 2 ..... and it makes me smile.

A gold star to those few left- you are a dying breed!

praise indeed.

dcfaithful

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I do feel the need to say this though-
There are some truly great men out there..... most of them gay or married, but a few that actually have their shit somewhat figured out and aren't completely oozing with bullshit and soul-sucking capabilities.
I like to think that I know 1 or 2 ..... and it makes me smile.

A gold star to those few left- you are a dying breed!

Recognition...at last.

Dissidentman

dcfaithful wrote:

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I do feel the need to say this though-
There are some truly great men out there..... most of them gay or married, but a few that actually have their shit somewhat figured out and aren't completely oozing with bullshit and soul-sucking capabilities.
I like to think that I know 1 or 2 ..... and it makes me smile.

A gold star to those few left- you are a dying breed!

Recognition...at last.

for not COMPLETELY oozing with bullshit. Congrats!

decides2dream

Dissidentman wrote:

dcfaithful wrote:

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

I do feel the need to say this though-
There are some truly great men out there..... most of them gay or married, but a few that actually have their shit somewhat figured out and aren't completely oozing with bullshit and soul-sucking capabilities.
I like to think that I know 1 or 2 ..... and it makes me smile.

A gold star to those few left- you are a dying breed!

Recognition...at last.

for not COMPLETELY oozing with bullshit. Congrats!

exactly.
i especially liked the non-soul-sucking abilities.
praise indeed!

Ms. Wes C.addle

credit where credit is due...... this shit is important stuff! Dare I say, more important that other 'skills'? Ummmmm....... *thinks for a while*

Dissidentman

Because honey, if that stuff were half as interesting as baseball, they'd have cards for it and sell it with gum.

catefrances

Dissidentman wrote:

Because honey, if that stuff were half as interesting as baseball, they'd have cards for it and sell it with gum.

oh honey if baseball were THAT important or interesting it wouldnt need to be on a card with or without gum.

comebackgirl

blackredyellow wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

I thought we were talking about why we put up with each other :P
Relationships...yeah...I just ask that they do what they say they're gonna do...and if you don't wanna do it...then don't say it

Well in fairness, a lot of times we just say that we'll do it to make you quit nagging us about it

There are three stages of something getting done:
1) you asking us to do it
2) you repeatedly asking/nagging us, so we finally say "ok"
3) us finally doing it

the space between 2 & 3 depends a lot on how much/little we want to do it, or how important (in our minds) that it really is.

Or...you could just be like a woman and realize something needs to get done...and...just do it No nagging needed

comebackgirl

decides2dream wrote:

well i wasn't. but even if i was, sex isn't the only reason i put up with my man.
and......he does do what he says he's going to do. always.
however, he doesn't always do what i want him to do.
so there's always that.

I could live with that. It's all in the follow through.
Sex and the fact that he's willing to change the litter box...that's what works for me :P

catefrances

comebackgirl wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

well i wasn't. but even if i was, sex isn't the only reason i put up with my man.
and......he does do what he says he's going to do. always.
however, he doesn't always do what i want him to do.
so there's always that.

I could live with that. It's all in the follow through.
Sex and the fact that he's willing to change the litter box...that's what works for me :P

well..` he is a cats fan. its the least he can do.

comebackgirl

catefrances wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

well i wasn't. but even if i was, sex isn't the only reason i put up with my man.
and......he does do what he says he's going to do. always.
however, he doesn't always do what i want him to do.
so there's always that.

I could live with that. It's all in the follow through.
Sex and the fact that he's willing to change the litter box...that's what works for me :P

well..` he is a cats fan. its the least he can do.

Agreed. Oh and the accent...forgot to add that in. Excuses for not doing something do sound a touch nicer with the accent.