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  • fife
    fife Posts: 3,327
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Any straights here venture into them?

    I have a date with an incredibly awesome girl tomorrow, with her and her friends at a gay bar.

    Should be interesting.


    EDIT: I KNOW Speedy will have a coment for this. ;)

    i work in a place where i am the only non-gay guy. I go to gay bars all the time. you might feel a little uncomfortable at 1st but since you are going with a girl you might not get hit on. the whole gay bar/straight bar thing is over done. just relaxed and if some guy is giving a blow job to another guy in the washroom don't look it is rude. have fun
  • CJMST3K
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    CJ enters "Babes" bar...

    ...and thinks to self... "Wait a minute...there's something bothering me about this place. I know! This lesbian bar doesn't have a fire exit; Enjoy your death trap, ladies!"
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  • g under p
    g under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,237
    Steve Dunne wrote:
    also walked into one with a group of guys in manhattan on new years eve once. bartender comes over and says a dude from across the bar wants to buy me a drink. me, being the "non-chalant blind drunk alchoholic high on new years" person that i am, scream across the bar my appreciation and thanks. bartender tells me to take it easy, it's a long night. at about that time i realize the circumstances and scenery in which we just walked into. my friends were all outside placing bets on how long i'd be in there before i figured it out. 14 minutes. god i was drunk. got a free beer though.

    Sounds similar to my experience. :D
    g under p wrote:
    I did something like that once in Greenwich Village NYC. I was thirsty and needed a drink went into this bar I think called The Monster? While walking in had an eerie feeling something was up, all eyes on me kind of thing. Ordered a beer and took a closer look at my surroundings only to notice was nothing but men in there. I did one of those beer flying spills all over the guy next me and shouted "Oh Shit there's nothing but men in here". The place grew quiet, finished my beer and I apologized to the guy with beer all over he replied "it' ok honey, want to help me clean up" I told him thanks but no thanks and hurried out of there.

    My brother in law and sister who stayed outside knew it was a gay but said nothing. They wanted to know how I would handle being in there.

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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    I had a friend in college who is gay and occasionally I'd go to the gay bar with him and some of his straight and gay friends.

    Gotta say, for a straight guy, gay bars are actually a GREAT place to meet chicks.
    Not sure why, but I met quite a few straight chicks in that gay bar.

    I dated one for a while and when people would ask us how we met, the whole gay bar story was always fun. :lol:


    Bottom line. If you are straight and have a gay friend, go with him sometime because the (straight) chicks in gay bars are incredibly easy to approach.
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited January 2010
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I wonder if LikeAnOcean is shirtless and dancing with glow sticks in his hands by now?! :mrgreen:
    LOL!!! Almost!

    Really it was a bar of nerdy gay guys acting goofy. No one came on to me. It wasn't bad at all and date went AWESOME!

    She was not what I expected. Very shy in person. We had only been texting before and she seemed very out-going and sarcastic. In person she was georgeous! Her friends, straight and gay really liked me and she was already texting again me barely 10 minutes after I left.

    I sense a second date soon. Gay bar, where ever, it was worth it! 8-)
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I wonder if LikeAnOcean is shirtless and dancing with glow sticks in his hands by now?! :mrgreen:
    LOL!!! Almost!

    Really it was a bar of nerdy gay guys acting goofy. No one came on to me. It wasn't bad at all and date went AWESOME!

    She was not what I expected. Very shy in person. We had only be texting before and she seemed very out-going and sarcastic. In person she was georgeous! Her friends, straight and gay really liked me and she was already texting again me barely 10 minutes after I left.

    I sense a second date soon. Gay bar, where ever, it was worth it! 8-)


    Phew thats good...I thought maybe you were gonna say

    "The next thing I know..she/he is standing next to me at the urinal!"

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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    Years and years ago my husband and his friend found themselves in a gay bar down in San Diego (they had no clue). The first tip off was when the waiter asked if they wanted a cocktail. How often do bartenders or waiters use that term?? :D:lol:
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  • ZiggyStar
    ZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I wonder if LikeAnOcean is shirtless and dancing with glow sticks in his hands by now?! :mrgreen:
    LOL!!! Almost!

    Really it was a bar of nerdy gay guys acting goofy. No one came on to me. It wasn't bad at all and date went AWESOME!

    She was not what I expected. Very shy in person. We had only been texting before and she seemed very out-going and sarcastic. In person she was georgeous! Her friends, straight and gay really liked me and she was already texting again me barely 10 minutes after I left.

    I sense a second date soon. Gay bar, where ever, it was worth it! 8-)

    Must have been those good looks of yours you were telling us all about the other day! haha ;)

    I'm glad it went well and that you didn't get raped in the toilets! :thumbup:
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I wonder if LikeAnOcean is shirtless and dancing with glow sticks in his hands by now?! :mrgreen:
    LOL!!! Almost!

    Really it was a bar of nerdy gay guys acting goofy. No one came on to me. It wasn't bad at all and date went AWESOME!

    She was not what I expected. Very shy in person. We had only been texting before and she seemed very out-going and sarcastic. In person she was georgeous! Her friends, straight and gay really liked me and she was already texting again me barely 10 minutes after I left.

    I sense a second date soon. Gay bar, where ever, it was worth it! 8-)

    Must have been those good looks of yours you were telling us all about the other day! haha ;)

    I'm glad it went well and that you didn't get raped in the toilets! :thumbup:
    Had to go three times because of all the drinking. I was the only one in each time.. wheew! 8-)

    I was so focused on her and her friends, I didn't even care what else was going on around me.

    My buddy was disturbed by two dudes humping on the dance floor. lol.
  • g under p
    g under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,237
    Lizard wrote:
    Years and years ago my husband and his friend found themselves in a gay bar down in San Diego (they had no clue). The first tip off was when the waiter asked if they wanted a cocktail. How often do bartenders or waiters use that term?? :D:lol:

    I hear that all the time NOW if that waiter said...if they wanted a cock-n-tail then you'll know for sure you're in an unusual place. :D:lol::D

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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    OK.. I NEED ideas for the second date.. first date at gay bar was intense. How do I top that? I don't want just some boring pub.. Chicago folks, I NEED your help.. she likes live music.. are there any good Indie bands playing Chicago Sunday night???

    Help!!
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    So gay bar girl is going really good so far..


    But she's on the other side a of the world for a few weeks!!! I'm loosing my mind! We haven't spoke in a week. She's on vacation and I don't want to trouble her with a text that will probably cost her a buck, IF she even can get it.

    Do I still try to send the text, or chill the hell out for another week???
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    So gay bar girl is going really good so far..


    But she's on the other side a of the world for a few weeks!!! I'm loosing my mind! We haven't spoke in a week. She's on vacation and I don't want to trouble her with a text that will probably cost her a buck, IF she even can get it.

    Do I still try to send the text, or chill the hell out for another week???

    I will go with chill out for a week. only because i would probably text, and I always do what you are not supposed to do.

    so just chill gets my vote. ;)
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    the wolf wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    So gay bar girl is going really good so far..


    But she's on the other side a of the world for a few weeks!!! I'm loosing my mind! We haven't spoke in a week. She's on vacation and I don't want to trouble her with a text that will probably cost her a buck, IF she even can get it.

    Do I still try to send the text, or chill the hell out for another week???

    I will go with chill out for a week. only because i would probably text, and I always do what you are not supposed to do.

    so just chill gets my vote. ;)
    I know. I kind of just want to know she's still alive though.. I guess if she couldn't get the text and I didn't know she couldn't, I'd just worry even more though. :?
  • Benzor
    Benzor Posts: 886
    text her
  • FenwayFaithful
    FenwayFaithful Posts: 8,626
    the wolf wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    So gay bar girl is going really good so far..


    But she's on the other side a of the world for a few weeks!!! I'm loosing my mind! We haven't spoke in a week. She's on vacation and I don't want to trouble her with a text that will probably cost her a buck, IF she even can get it.

    Do I still try to send the text, or chill the hell out for another week???

    I will go with chill out for a week. only because i would probably text, and I always do what you are not supposed to do.

    so just chill gets my vote. ;)
    +1 Good luck with it buddy...
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    sext her
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    norm wrote:
    sext her
    lol, if she doesn't have an international plan, I may have to make the text worth it. 8-)
  • JonnyPistachio
    JonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,219
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    the wolf wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    So gay bar girl is going really good so far..


    But she's on the other side a of the world for a few weeks!!! I'm loosing my mind! We haven't spoke in a week. She's on vacation and I don't want to trouble her with a text that will probably cost her a buck, IF she even can get it.

    Do I still try to send the text, or chill the hell out for another week???

    I will go with chill out for a week. only because i would probably text, and I always do what you are not supposed to do.

    so just chill gets my vote. ;)
    I know. I kind of just want to know she's still alive though.. I guess if she couldn't get the text and I didn't know she couldn't, I'd just worry even more though. :?

    well, then again, if she's not alive, your text wont bring her back.
    ;)
    that's what i told myself a few weeks ago when i was in a similar situation, minus the whole gay bar thing, ahaha :D
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    JonnyPistachio wrote:

    well, then again, if she's not alive, your text wont bring her back.
    ;)
    that's what i told myself a few weeks ago when i was in a similar situation, minus the whole gay bar thing, ahaha :D
    lol, true.. I'll probably break before the end of the week. Don't want to bug her until her vacation is winding down. Don't want to ignore her either.

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