Do men REALLY enjoy sleeping around?

zenith

and yea .... back on topic ..... we'll liken the shopping experience to the power trip guys get from shagging every girl in sight .... thens its all relative

GTFLYGIRL

ZiggyStar wrote:

I know plenty of people having fantastic no-strings-attached sex. Maybe you people need to pick your partners more carefully?

All the no-strings-attached sex I have had was fucking great! Imo, if you're both keen and equally into it as each other, it's pretty hard for sex to be shit....unless he shoots his load within minutes or she just lays there and does nothing....then that's shit....which comes back to picking your partners more carefully.

i think you are missing the entire original point of the OP in the opening post of this thread.

She didnt ask about "no-strings" sex... she asked about "sleeping around."

Sleeping around generally does not mean picking your partners carefully and having friends with benefits sex... Sleeping around... at least as referenced in the opening post question appears to me to mean... banging 10 different chicks in a month ... and doing so just to hit as many chicks as you can.

BIG DIFFERENCE! :shock:

And btw... ALL the no strings sex you had was great? If you are "sleeping around" which CLEARLY implies routinely trying out new ones for size (heh.... for lack of a better word...) well.. you DON'T KNOW what yo are getting in to. How do you know someone is going to be any good in bed if you havent been with them before... I have found that THIS one is a trial and error situation... and the errors tend to suck! For me.... BAD SEX is worse than NO SEX.

GTFLYGIRL

ZiggyStar wrote:

My mates and I have a theory that you can guage reasonably well how good someone will be in bed just from one passionate kiss -- what they do, how they react. If they can't get that right, move on...find someone better to have sex with.

Not to totally OUT myself here... but my trials and errors tell me that that IS NOT the case..... WHATEVER!

There are lots of ways that a partner can have short comings that are not revealed in their kiss... years ago i used to think that too..... ha ha... guess i have become a realist... that's such a sweet optimistic girly way to look at it though... i like it!

GTFLYGIRL

comebackgirl wrote:

I think some men enjoy it. Some men think they're supposed to enjoy it. And some men probably don't enjoy it much at all.

That is what i think... right there.... i could have said it myself... but i'll let comeback girl say it for me.

josevolution

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

dimitrispearljam

dunkman wrote:

do women REALLY need to buy all those shoes?

ZiggyStar

josevolution wrote:

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

Hi Jose! :wave:

decides2dream

josevolution wrote:

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

i've often said i've done more sleeping around, both with males and females, since touring for pearl jam...than back in my single days. makes the travel a helluva lot easier and more affordable. and yes, i truly enjoy it.......;)

josevolution

ZiggyStar wrote:

josevolution wrote:

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

Hi Jose! :wave:

Hey Ziggy :wave: :clap:

josevolution

decides2dream wrote:

josevolution wrote:

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

i've often said i've done more sleeping around, both with males and females, since touring for pearl jam...than back in my single days. makes the travel a helluva lot easier and more affordable. and yes, i truly enjoy it.......;)

Hell yeah 8-) .

decides2dream

josevolution wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

josevolution wrote:

I sleep around every time the band tours and i travel i sleep at different hotels sometimes even at different peeps houses 8-)

i've often said i've done more sleeping around, both with males and females, since touring for pearl jam...than back in my single days. makes the travel a helluva lot easier and more affordable. and yes, i truly enjoy it.......;)

Hell yeah 8-) .

this tour tho, no sleeping around for me!
i am staying put in NY, tho perhaps have some houseguests...
now 10.22.10.....definite sleeping around, wherever the show ends up....but hubby will be with me! :shock:


8-)