Do men REALLY enjoy sleeping around?

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  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    i_lov_it wrote:

    Tell me about it...what about US UGLY GUYS!...Hmmmmmm??? :P :P :P

    You're stuck with us ugly girls :lol:
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  • Jearlpam0925
    Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 17,569
    Absolutely. We're only ashamed when the women are beasts.
  • Nothingman54
    Nothingman54 Posts: 2,251
    i was never one to sleep around. with 1 hand i can count how many people iv been with. my friends sleep around alot. my brother is a slut. 3 or 4 girls a week sometimes. iv had many many chances to just sleep around, i turned them down. its just not my thing.
    I'll be back
  • Heatherj43
    Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    norm wrote:
    ya know, it isn't like these guys sleep with other guys ;)


    there are plenty of women who like meaningless sex, no? :think:
    BINGO! For every guy sleeping around aimleslessly, there has to be a female to do it with. So, there are just as many woman. They just keep it quiet. I think they do it for different reasons, but nonetheless, they still do.
    I know if I had to do it all over again...I wouldn't change a thing!! LOL!
    Save room for dessert!
  • pineapplesandwaves.
    pineapplesandwaves. GTA Posts: 1,808
    blenderman69 wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Yes they do....and so do some women. It's really not that hard to comprehend, is it? If you're not exclusively with someone, isn't no-strings-attached sex the best kind? If I was single, I'd be fucking as many attractive men as I could!
    that's just not fair to us ugly guys!!!!!!!!meanie!!!!!!!

    My friend, who has slept with quite a few men, has a theory that average-looking guys are better in bed than ridiculously good-looking guys. In her experience, really hot guys (and guys who think they're ridiculously hot) believe that being really hot is good enough. Basically, they think that any woman should be thanking God that they get to be with him, while average guys are more apt to be thoughtful towards the woman and want to please her.

    Yes, there are many of women who sleep around, but as someone mentioned, women tend to be more discriminating. Although, I have a friend of a friend who, by the time she was 25, had slept with 60+ men and she wasn't the least bit discriminating. She just thrived on the attention that ANY guy threw her way.
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    pineapplesandwaves. wrote:
    blenderman69 wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Yes they do....and so do some women. It's really not that hard to comprehend, is it? If you're not exclusively with someone, isn't no-strings-attached sex the best kind? If I was single, I'd be fucking as many attractive men as I could!
    that's just not fair to us ugly guys!!!!!!!!meanie!!!!!!!

    My friend, who has slept with quite a few men, has a theory that average-looking guys are better in bed than ridiculously good-looking guys. In her experience, really hot guys (and guys who think they're ridiculously hot) believe that being really hot is good enough. Basically, they think that any woman should be thanking God that they get to be with him, while average guys are more apt to be thoughtful towards the woman and want to please her.

    Of course it's a generalization, but I tend to agree. Same can be true with guys who aren't well-endowed. My experience has been that they've tried REALLY hard to make up for it (and it worked :oops: :D ).
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    I think some men enjoy it. Some men think they're supposed to enjoy it. And some men probably don't enjoy it much at all. Most probably age out of if over time. No one wants to become *that* guy (I'm talking to you Hugh Hefner) :lol:
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  • Heatherj43
    Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    pineapplesandwaves. wrote:
    blenderman69 wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Yes they do....and so do some women. It's really not that hard to comprehend, is it? If you're not exclusively with someone, isn't no-strings-attached sex the best kind? If I was single, I'd be fucking as many attractive men as I could!
    that's just not fair to us ugly guys!!!!!!!!meanie!!!!!!!

    My friend, who has slept with quite a few men, has a theory that average-looking guys are better in bed than ridiculously good-looking guys. In her experience, really hot guys (and guys who think they're ridiculously hot) believe that being really hot is good enough. Basically, they think that any woman should be thanking God that they get to be with him, while average guys are more apt to be thoughtful towards the woman and want to please her.

    Yes, there are many of women who sleep around, but as someone mentioned, women tend to be more discriminating. Although, I have a friend of a friend who, by the time she was 25, had slept with 60+ men and she wasn't the least bit discriminating. She just thrived on the attention that ANY guy threw her way.
    I agree also. Men who are average looking are great in bed. Those who think they should be thanked...need some lessons.
    Save room for dessert!
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    is better fuck first and after we talk about it..first we need to know eachother.. ;)
    is a greek moto anyway,,u can fuck everything moves,,the others that they dont move,u paint them..both need to look new.. 8-)
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    I agree also. Men who are average looking are great in bed. Those who think they should be thanked...need some lessons.
    i think always have to do with the partner..i catch my self to be into for good,when i feel the chemistry..
    sometimes not..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    scb wrote:
    The following advice was just given from one man to a younger man in another thread:

    "stay single and fuck as many as girls while you are young."

    And I can't help but wonder if men (and I use that term loosely) REALLY derive as much pleasure from meaningless sex as they act like they do. My experience has taught me that meaningless sex usually just isn't that good.

    I'm not going to even bother reading all the replies here, but my answer is no. without a doubt NO.

    I look back at the amount of woman ( and even girls when i was a teenager ) that I COULD have had sex with and I'm glad I didn't.

    maybe I'm just to ............... I don't know what word I'm look for. :lol: maybe I'm just not that damn Macho when it comes to shit like that.

    the chicks that I did have meaningless sex with, I wish I hadnt. The number of woman I could have had meaningless sex with is staggering compared to the amount of woman I actually had sex with.

    my friends used to give me shit about that, I don't care. just not my style.

    to each their own though.
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  • Jo
    Jo Posts: 2,098
    missisles wrote:
    i have a friend who ive known for years
    she used to be engaged and they broke it off 12 months ago

    theirs a difference between getting back out there and what shes doing

    shes gone through more guys in 12 months then i have in 29 years

    shes changing
    and i dont like the new her :roll:

    so its not just males. i know this

    Same with an ex-friend of mine, and I realised all the losers she slept with actually reflected the person she was becoming. Like attracts Like.
    As someone else here said, these people are usually arsehole friends....and when she hit on my bloke.....
    well yea, how ugly is that !
  • UpSideDown
    UpSideDown Posts: 1,966
    im a guy, and ive never liked the idea of sleeping around. I want my future partner(s) to respect me in that regard

    Granted when im drinking the idea becomes more interesting, but then i would still feel scummy if I hooked up w/ random girls after the bar.
  • Starfall
    Starfall Posts: 548
    I don't enjoy sleeping around, period. My penis does not dictate how I should live my life.

    I remember the one time I slept with some random woman I'd met that night, I woke up the next day feeling ... dirty, almost...like I had been emotionally or psychically drained. So never again. Every one since then I'd been really close to, friends or more serious relationships.

    As for average looking men being better in bed... I feel that it would be self-serving of me to comment one way or the other, so I'll pass. :lol:
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    12,775

    :shock: :lol:
  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    good god man.

    still didn't beat Chamberlain, apparently...

    "And secondly, if that 12,775 figure is correct, imagine how good the late NBA great Wilt Chamberlain must be feeling right now. After all, it was Chamberlain who once famously boasted about having sex with 20,000 women. If even Beatty can't top that mark, then Chamberlain's bedded-by record, along with his career points scored totals, remain records that may never be broken. "
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    I guess it's really depends on the individual. I'm sure some men want to find a meaningful relationship and not meaningless sexual encounters. I don't think it's just men. There are women who just want to sleep around and want no strings.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    libragirl wrote:
    I guess it's really depends on the individual. I'm sure some men want to find a meaningful relationship and not meaningless sexual encounters. I don't think it's just men. There are women who just want to sleep around and want no strings.

    agreed. I also feel the same as Starfall. It kinda made me feel dirty. :? :oops:
    Peace, Love.

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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    the wolf wrote:
    libragirl wrote:
    I guess it's really depends on the individual. I'm sure some men want to find a meaningful relationship and not meaningless sexual encounters. I don't think it's just men. There are women who just want to sleep around and want no strings.

    agreed. I also feel the same as Starfall. It kinda made me feel dirty. :? :oops:

    awww, well you know it's not for you.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • 81
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    missisles wrote:

    shes slutty

    feel free to pm her phone number over.

    thanks in advance
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