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  • mr.pink
    mr.pink Posts: 362
    The Champ wrote:
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.

    Good terms on both ends? That is different...

    Yeah, kinda strange feeling. And I had to do SOOOOO... much work getting her packed and moved out, and ..... (long story short) it was very frustrating. I was so busy, that I really didn't have a chance to deal with the whole thing till she was gone.
    Twenty-ten watch it go to fire!!!
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.
    i think the same,plus u must work for that during the relationship
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • mr.pink
    mr.pink Posts: 362
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.
    i think the same,plus u must work for that during the relationship

    It was really the best relationship I've ever had, and I wonder how much it had to do with the lack of pressure. We had 9 months together and knew she would be leaving the whole time. It was perfect for both of us at the time we got together.
    Twenty-ten watch it go to fire!!!
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    mr.pink wrote:
    The Champ wrote:
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.

    Good terms on both ends? That is different...

    Yeah, kinda strange feeling. And I had to do SOOOOO... much work getting her packed and moved out, and ..... (long story short) it was very frustrating. I was so busy, that I really didn't have a chance to deal with the whole thing till she was gone.

    Really never is on terms, just unforeseen circumstances...
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • mr.pink
    mr.pink Posts: 362
    The Champ wrote:

    Really never is on terms, just unforeseen circumstances...

    At least unforseen by one party... I've been on both sides

    I've considered dating just foreign students that are only here temporarily :lol:

    Seriously though, I have ;)
    Twenty-ten watch it go to fire!!!
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    mr.pink wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.
    i think the same,plus u must work for that during the relationship

    It was really the best relationship I've ever had, and I wonder how much it had to do with the lack of pressure. We had 9 months together and knew she would be leaving the whole time. It was perfect for both of us at the time we got together.
    and im sure that u will be proud for it..its good when prople know what they want,and pespect the other person wants..sounds like a great story
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Heatherj43
    Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    i mean..Married or ALIVE
    Im still ALIVE!!!
    what about u?
    Was married many years ago, now? I'M STILL ALIVE!
    Save room for dessert!
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    i mean..Married or ALIVE
    Im still ALIVE!!!
    what about u?
    Was married many years ago, now? I'M STILL ALIVE!
    u was rece from the deads!!!!!!!!!!!!congrats!!! :D
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • thesewordselope
    thesewordselope Posts: 781
    Single...and at this point, not complaing about that :D
  • Brisk.
    Brisk. Posts: 11,581
    Im still 'alive' :(
  • blenderman69
    blenderman69 philly Posts: 2,104
    maried 17 years :shock:
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    blenderman69 wrote:
    maried 17 years :shock:
    :shock:
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • blenderman69
    blenderman69 philly Posts: 2,104
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    blenderman69 wrote:
    maried 17 years :shock:
    :shock:
    dude i know lol
  • cincybearcat
    cincybearcat Posts: 16,959
    mr.pink wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    mr.pink wrote:
    Single since Christmas Eve. My ex moved back home after finishing her masters. Its definitely different ending a relationship on completely good terms.
    i think the same,plus u must work for that during the relationship

    It was really the best relationship I've ever had, and I wonder how much it had to do with the lack of pressure. We had 9 months together and knew she would be leaving the whole time. It was perfect for both of us at the time we got together.


    Is it really a relationship when you know from the very beginning that it is going to end?
    hippiemom = goodness
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    cincybearcat wrote:


    Is it really a relationship when you know from the very beginning that it is going to end?
    i guess not ,but i think if u respect,u try into a relationship.no fight,take step back when it need it u may break up in a good way,a big hug and wish the other good luck
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    blenderman69 wrote:
    maried 17 years :shock:



    me too!
    18 in june!
    :shock: :o:mrgreen:


    and if i go by your username...we're about the same age, married young.
    i'd do it all over again, too.






    imo a relationship is a relationship...no matter the duration.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Heatherj43
    Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    i mean..Married or ALIVE
    Im still ALIVE!!!
    what about u?
    Was married many years ago, now? I'M STILL ALIVE!
    u was rece from the deads!!!!!!!!!!!!congrats!!! :D
    LOL! Never looked at it like that.
    Save room for dessert!
  • mr.pink
    mr.pink Posts: 362
    cincybearcat wrote:


    Is it really a relationship when you know from the very beginning that it is going to end?

    Absolutely.

    Have you thought that all your relationships would last forever? In this one we simply knew what would happen. I didn't want a "forever" type deal, so it was perfect. And we were both definitely "in" it together, spending most of our time together. And we've still comunicated on the internet and she calls sometimes. I think we'll remain friends.

    But of course it is a real relationship, there was nothing missing.
    Twenty-ten watch it go to fire!!!
  • blended1
    blended1 Posts: 19
    blenderman69 wrote:
    maried 17 years :shock:
    and he still alive lol :!:
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    blended1 wrote:
    blenderman69 wrote:
    maried 17 years :shock:
    and he still alive lol :!:
    seems dead meat to me.. :lol::lol::lol:
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”

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