Single or Married??

decides2dream

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

kenny olav

decides2dream wrote:

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

That's awesome. I hope to find that kind of relationship. I'm not one for the single life.

Kevinman

Still single, but I'll keep you up to date every month or so.

canoegirl

not single, lol, but determined to get my license to drive a motorcyle, then i will be married to it, but only for three seasons so it truely is a custom fit

aneutronbomb

single and sick of it

Enkidu

decides2dream wrote:

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

I totally agree. I can't imagine being married to anybody else. But there are times (and I'm sure he'd say the same thing) I imagine putting a pillow over his face. And holding it there.

tinkerbell

Enkidu wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

I totally agree. I can't imagine being married to anybody else. But there are times (and I'm sure he'd say the same thing) I imagine putting a pillow over his face. And holding it there.

Totally understand that!!! Love my man but sometimes .....

Lauri

kenny olav wrote:

That's awesome. I hope to find that kind of relationship. I'm not one for the single life.

"the single life" is any life you want it to be! that's why it's freaking awesome. I love being single, I just wish it were easier to get a little more action while single. but then again most married people don't get much either...people who are dating get the most. that's why I'd like to get a decent date every now and again. I could stand to have a boyfriend, but I don't think I'd ever enter a legal marriage. the institution is joke in this day in age, we don't need it. people should just be together as they see fit.

dimitrispearljam

tinkerbell wrote:

Enkidu wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

I totally agree. I can't imagine being married to anybody else. But there are times (and I'm sure he'd say the same thing) I imagine putting a pillow over his face. And holding it there.

Totally understand that!!! Love my man but sometimes .....

Ayedavanita

legally separated for just about seven years

i_lov_it

decides2dream wrote:

i appreciate the relationship i have with my husband more and more with each passing year. the bond grows stronger and deeper.....and there is a happiness and contentment in it, a true understanding, that is just beyond precious. that said, there are days i utterly hate him :twisted: but that does not diminish my overall love for him either.

Someone pass me a BUCKET!.....hahaha... :P

lukin2006

Married almost 17 years...no kids...

Green Circle

15 years married this coming Sept 16th

The Juggler

ENGAGED!

kenny olav

Lauri wrote:

kenny olav wrote:

That's awesome. I hope to find that kind of relationship. I'm not one for the single life.

"the single life" is any life you want it to be! that's why it's freaking awesome. I love being single, I just wish it were easier to get a little more action while single. but then again most married people don't get much either...people who are dating get the most. that's why I'd like to get a decent date every now and again. I could stand to have a boyfriend, but I don't think I'd ever enter a legal marriage. the institution is joke in this day in age, we don't need it. people should just be together as they see fit.

I don't think you can too easily generalize who's getting the most action... ultimately it depends on the individuals themselves and how satisfied they truly are with their partners, be it with one partner or many. But I understand what you're saying to a large degree. I don't feel pressure to get married anymore. I was once engaged and I'm very glad it never went farther than that. I'm glad I never felt pressure to be married to a woman before living with her - it really would have screwed my life up! I don't care if people get married or not, but for me, I know I want to find a lovely lady to share a house and have a kid with, and as silly and as sinister as the origins of marriage are, the fact is the legal benefits kinda do outweigh the bullshit. I will never set foot in a church or buy an expensive ring, but once I do find someone that I'm sure I want to spend my life with, I might as well appease family and society and get it done the normal way, because there's nothing gained by being a fucking purist about it. I know exactly who I'm looking for at this point anyway. Of course, people do change, and if a divorce happens, well fuckity fuck. Life's dumb!

decides2dream

kenny olav wrote:

Lauri wrote:

kenny olav wrote:

That's awesome. I hope to find that kind of relationship. I'm not one for the single life.

"the single life" is any life you want it to be! that's why it's freaking awesome. I love being single, I just wish it were easier to get a little more action while single. but then again most married people don't get much either...people who are dating get the most. that's why I'd like to get a decent date every now and again. I could stand to have a boyfriend, but I don't think I'd ever enter a legal marriage. the institution is joke in this day in age, we don't need it. people should just be together as they see fit.

I don't think you can too easily generalize who's getting the most action... ultimately it depends on the individuals themselves and how satisfied they truly are with their partners, be it with one partner or many. But I understand what you're saying to a large degree. I don't feel pressure to get married anymore. I was once engaged and I'm very glad it never went farther than that. I'm glad I never felt pressure to be married to a woman before living with her - it really would have screwed my life up! I don't care if people get married or not, but for me, I know I want to find a lovely lady to share a house and have a kid with, and as silly and as sinister as the origins of marriage are, the fact is the legal benefits kinda do outweigh the bullshit. I will never set foot in a church or buy an expensive ring, but once I do find someone that I'm sure I want to spend my life with, I might as well appease family and society and get it done the normal way, because there's nothing gained by being a fucking purist about it. I know exactly who I'm looking for at this point anyway. Of course, people do change, and if a divorce happens, well fuckity fuck. Life's dumb!

apparently you've not put much thought into the topic kenny.

Dissidentman

The Jeagler wrote:

ENGAGED!

I'm with him... but not int that way you're thinking.

Green Circle

Dissidentman wrote:

The Jeagler wrote:

ENGAGED!

I'm with him... but not int that way you're thinking.

uh huh....

dimitrispearljam

illegal pants

kenny olav wrote:

I don't think you can too easily generalize who's getting the most action... ultimately it depends on the individuals themselves and how satisfied they truly are with their partners, be it with one partner or many. But I understand what you're saying to a large degree. I don't feel pressure to get married anymore. I was once engaged and I'm very glad it never went farther than that. I'm glad I never felt pressure to be married to a woman before living with her - it really would have screwed my life up! I don't care if people get married or not, but for me, I know I want to find a lovely lady to share a house and have a kid with, and as silly and as sinister as the origins of marriage are, the fact is the legal benefits kinda do outweigh the bullshit. I will never set foot in a church or buy an expensive ring, but once I do find someone that I'm sure I want to spend my life with, I might as well appease family and society and get it done the normal way, because there's nothing gained by being a fucking purist about it. I know exactly who I'm looking for at this point anyway. Of course, people do change, and if a divorce happens, well fuckity fuck. Life's dumb!

i need to show my guy this post

alive dimi, no ring on this finger - yet - for now - for awhile - yeh