to dump, or to be dumped?

yosi

Jennytree wrote:

I guess the only advantage (for lack of a better word) in being the one doing the breaking up is that you have a head-start in thinking it through, and you won't have that 'shock' and the 'why me' aspect of it.

Yea, but sometimes knowing you're going to do it can really eat at you.

Both are absolutely horrible. I think I was more of a mess when I was the one doing the dumping then when I was the dumped. But the pain lasted longer when I was dumped. I don't know, I hate both.