to dump, or to be dumped?

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  • so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE.. ;)
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE.. ;)

    about what you'd expect. she's a wreck. i'm slowly pursuing things with a girl i've been interested in for a while, and in the meantime all my coworkers are racing to set me up on dates with their friends and cousins. a few months of cheap, casual flings sounds good to me right now :)
  • so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE.. ;)

    about what you'd expect. she's a wreck. i'm slowly pursuing things with a girl i've been interested in for a while, and in the meantime all my coworkers are racing to set me up on dates with their friends and cousins. a few months of cheap, casual flings sounds good to me right now :)
    she will found her way to come back in good times...and i can understand exacty about friends and cousins thing :lol: ..but to be alone is good for a while..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

    i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers :( my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.
  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

    i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers :( my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.
    I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.
    Save room for dessert!
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

    i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers :( my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.
    I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.

    bwahahaha im sorry but this just made me laugh. as if youd not remember someone treating you like shit. and it being admitted publically as the reason behind much of your own recent attitude and behaviour towards women. :lol:
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

    i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers :( my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.
    I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.

    i remember it vividly. thus why i feel so bad... i know exactly what she's going through.
  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 30,373
    Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard :lol::lol: thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ... :)
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard :lol::lol: thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ... :)
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    1.Married people
    2.ALIVE PEOPLE
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.
    Save room for dessert!
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

    once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

    it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

    once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

    it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.
    Thanks for clearing that up.
    Save room for dessert!
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

    once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

    it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.
    Thanks for clearing that up.

    youre welcome. :mrgreen:
    hear my name
    take a good look
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard :lol::lol: thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ... :)
    2 categories in life:
    1.Married people
    2.ALIVE PEOPLE


    a :mrgreen: would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course. ;)
    and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :? :lol:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard :lol::lol: thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ... :)
    2 categories in life:
    1.Married people
    2.ALIVE PEOPLE


    a :mrgreen: would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course. ;)
    and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :? :lol:
    U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO... :mrgreen:
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    2 categories in life:
    1.Married people
    2.ALIVE PEOPLE


    a :mrgreen: would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course. ;)
    and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :? :lol:
    U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO... :mrgreen:



    :lol:
    great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :| :twisted: :mrgreen:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


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    U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO... :mrgreen:



    :lol:
    great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :| :twisted: :mrgreen:
    HOW I CAN HELP TO FEEL ALIVE AGAIN.. ? ;)
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977

    :lol:
    great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :| :twisted: :mrgreen:
    HOW I CAN HELP TO FEEL ALIVE AGAIN.. ? ;)


    :o
    ha!


    contrary to your belief system :P, i am quite ALIVE, very much so....so yes, don't need any help in that area, thanks. ;) but sticking to the topic, if i ever dump my other half...i'll let ya know and we can work on it.... :lol:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,721
    edited October 2009

    contrary to your belief system :P, i am quite ALIVE, very much so....so yes, don't need any help in that area, thanks. ;) but sticking to the topic, if i ever dump my other half...i'll let ya know and we can work on it.... :lol:
    :lol: what your naughty mind thinks????? :arrow: :arrow: ok let me know if this happen for work it .. :lol:




















    p.s.Greeks do it better.... :D
    Post edited by dimitrispearljam on
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • yosiyosi NYC Posts: 3,069
    Jennytree wrote:
    I guess the only advantage (for lack of a better word) in being the one doing the breaking up is that you have a head-start in thinking it through, and you won't have that 'shock' and the 'why me' aspect of it.

    Yea, but sometimes knowing you're going to do it can really eat at you.

    Both are absolutely horrible. I think I was more of a mess when I was the one doing the dumping then when I was the dumped. But the pain lasted longer when I was dumped. I don't know, I hate both.
    you couldn't swing if you were hangin' from a palm tree in a hurricane

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