to dump, or to be dumped?

dimitrispearljam

so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE..

soulsinging

dimitrispearljam wrote:

so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE..

about what you'd expect. she's a wreck. i'm slowly pursuing things with a girl i've been interested in for a while, and in the meantime all my coworkers are racing to set me up on dates with their friends and cousins. a few months of cheap, casual flings sounds good to me right now

dimitrispearljam

soulsinging wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

so after the break up..whats new.?.life still going on..,,we are still ALIVE..

about what you'd expect. she's a wreck. i'm slowly pursuing things with a girl i've been interested in for a while, and in the meantime all my coworkers are racing to set me up on dates with their friends and cousins. a few months of cheap, casual flings sounds good to me right now

she will found her way to come back in good times...and i can understand exacty about friends and cousins thing ..but to be alone is good for a while..

Heatherj43

Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

soulsinging

Heatherj43 wrote:

Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.

Heatherj43

soulsinging wrote:

Heatherj43 wrote:

Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.

I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.

catefrances

Heatherj43 wrote:

soulsinging wrote:

Heatherj43 wrote:

Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.

I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.

bwahahaha im sorry but this just made me laugh. as if youd not remember someone treating you like shit. and it being admitted publically as the reason behind much of your own recent attitude and behaviour towards women.

soulsinging

Heatherj43 wrote:

soulsinging wrote:

Heatherj43 wrote:

Both hurt, but I have more control when I do the dumping. Also, it hurts less to dump someone. God, I hate getting dumped. Its usually unexpected. If I do the dumping, I knew in advance and at least knew what I was getting into. When I am dumped, holy moly, I have to rearrange my life on the spur of the moment.

i think you're right. one week in... no way is my shit harder to deal with than hers my vote comes down firmly on the dumped side. i've got it unfairly easy compared to her.

I remember back a few years ago when you got dumped. The girl didn't come out and say "we are over" she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell.

i remember it vividly. thus why i feel so bad... i know exactly what she's going through.

josevolution

Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ...

dimitrispearljam

josevolution wrote:

Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ...

2 categories in life:
1.Married people
2.ALIVE PEOPLE

Heatherj43

I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

catefrances

Heatherj43 wrote:

I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.

Heatherj43

catefrances wrote:

Heatherj43 wrote:

I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.

Thanks for clearing that up.

catefrances

Heatherj43 wrote:

catefrances wrote:

Heatherj43 wrote:

I didn't mean to put it out there publicly, but the way I know is that it was put out there publicly. Now, I wonder why you would laugh about it? You know, it was put out there 'cuz lots of people use this site for support. They usually get support too, unless there is someone who needs their ego stroke and laughs instead of empathizing. Whatever.

once again you make me laugh. you seem to have a comprehension problem.

it wasnt SSs situ i was laughing at.(and he knows that) twas the way you said... she played some games. Do you remember? You went thru hell. as if he wouldnt, you know? it wasnt a roll on the floor holding my guts laugh but it amused me.

Thanks for clearing that up.

youre welcome.

decides2dream

dimitrispearljam wrote:

josevolution wrote:

Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ...

2 categories in life:
1.Married people
2.ALIVE PEOPLE

a would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course.
and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :?

dimitrispearljam

decides2dream wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

josevolution wrote:

Getting dumped no doubt about it ,getting that talk about "being friends or we need some time apart" that is when you think about reaching over and choking the bitch/bastard thank god i haven't had to deal with any of those talks since my teen age yrs ...

2 categories in life:
1.Married people
2.ALIVE PEOPLE

a would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course.
and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :?

U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO...

decides2dream

dimitrispearljam wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

2 categories in life:
1.Married people
2.ALIVE PEOPLE

a would greatly improve your post dimitri....imo of course.
and here i was just starting to like you, but apparently...i am......dead. :?

U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO...

great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :twisted:

dimitrispearljam

decides2dream wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

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U CAN STILL LIKE ME..MARRIED PEOPLE HAS SOUL TOO...

great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :twisted:

HOW I CAN HELP TO FEEL ALIVE AGAIN.. ?

decides2dream

dimitrispearljam wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

great, so i can have my soul...but no life......hahahaha. :twisted:

HOW I CAN HELP TO FEEL ALIVE AGAIN.. ?

ha!


contrary to your belief system :P, i am quite ALIVE, very much so....so yes, don't need any help in that area, thanks. but sticking to the topic, if i ever dump my other half...i'll let ya know and we can work on it....

dimitrispearljam

decides2dream wrote:

contrary to your belief system :P, i am quite ALIVE, very much so....so yes, don't need any help in that area, thanks. but sticking to the topic, if i ever dump my other half...i'll let ya know and we can work on it....

what your naughty mind thinks????? :arrow: :arrow: ok let me know if this happen for work it ..




















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