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  • Nastasja
    Nastasja Posts: 9,668
    My friend with whom a guy has broken up. Happened for a 3rd time in a year after only one month together. I'm scared that she will lose all believe in herself. She wants love so badly and now thinks more and more that she is not lovable and wrong. I don't know how to tell her that she's exactly the opposite and make her believe that.
    You can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets,
    Or you can come to terms and realize
    You're the only one who can't forgive yourself
  • Chip McFlennigan
    Chip McFlennigan Posts: 1,162
    Nastasja wrote:
    My friend with whom a guy has broken up. Happened for a 3rd time in a year after only one month together. I'm scared that she will lose all believe in herself. She wants love so badly and now thinks more and more that she is not lovable and wrong. I don't know how to tell her that she's exactly the opposite and make her believe that.

    Well, she either has poor taste in men, or she's completely unbearable from a relationship standpoint.

    Is she clingy?
    I knew it all along, see?
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    What the hell did I miss today? Getting the feeling that I missed a lot. :think: And also that I may no longer be allowed to say hell :oops: :lol:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    comebackgirl wrote:
    What the hell did I miss today? Getting the feeling that I missed a lot. :think: And also that I may no longer be allowed to say hell :oops: :lol:

    What happened? Did I miss something?? :?
  • dottles
    dottles Posts: 9,209
    Work, lust and loss
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  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    small town beck wrote:
    comebackgirl wrote:
    What the hell did I miss today? Getting the feeling that I missed a lot. :think: And also that I may no longer be allowed to say hell :oops: :lol:

    What happened? Did I miss something?? :?
    Apparently we both did :? :shock: And if you don't know, I will now never know :( :lol:
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    "I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    comebackgirl wrote:
    small town beck wrote:
    comebackgirl wrote:
    What the hell did I miss today? Getting the feeling that I missed a lot. :think: And also that I may no longer be allowed to say hell :oops: :lol:

    What happened? Did I miss something?? :?
    Apparently we both did :? :shock: And if you don't know, I will now never know :( :lol:

    shucks :(

    I hate being out of the loop :twisted:
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
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  • Nothingman54
    Nothingman54 Posts: 2,251
    3 sums
    I'll be back
  • Nastasja
    Nastasja Posts: 9,668
    johnny america wrote:
    Nastasja wrote:
    My friend with whom a guy has broken up. Happened for a 3rd time in a year after only one month together. I'm scared that she will lose all believe in herself. She wants love so badly and now thinks more and more that she is not lovable and wrong. I don't know how to tell her that she's exactly the opposite and make her believe that.

    Well, she either has poor taste in men, or she's completely unbearable from a relationship standpoint.

    Is she clingy?

    No, neither. The first two guys last year were a bad choice out of her romanticism and wish for a long-term relationship. The last guy was good, a friend of mine, too. But at that point of time she had built up such a defense mechanism together with so little self-confidence that she screwed it up herself.
    You can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets,
    Or you can come to terms and realize
    You're the only one who can't forgive yourself
  • Chip McFlennigan
    Chip McFlennigan Posts: 1,162
    The solution: never love anyone.

    Also, what's this about hell?
    I knew it all along, see?
  • Nastasja
    Nastasja Posts: 9,668
    johnny america wrote:
    The solution: never love anyone.

    Also, what's this about hell?

    I don't love anyone. I also don't think I should ever.

    Hell. That just means that I went through a very bad time. It's better now but TC still doesn't let me change my location
    You can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets,
    Or you can come to terms and realize
    You're the only one who can't forgive yourself
  • FrankieG
    FrankieG Abingdon MD Posts: 9,100
    asshole roommate smoking weed in my bathroom ... when my RA can bust all of us for just being in the same apartment as him. wtf :twisted: not cool Kurt...
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    2015: 9/23 NY, 9/26 NY ... 2016: 4/28 PA, 4/29 PA, 5/1 NY, 5/2 NY, 6/11 TN, 8/7 MA, 11/4 TOTD PA, 11/5 TOTD PA ... 2018: 8/10 WA
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  • Nastasja
    Nastasja Posts: 9,668
    FrankieG wrote:
    asshole roommate smoking weed in my bathroom ... when my RA can bust all of us for just being in the same apartment as him. wtf :twisted: not cool Kurt...

    can you all vote him out? I mean tell him that you all want him to move out? Or is that a one time thing?
    You can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets,
    Or you can come to terms and realize
    You're the only one who can't forgive yourself
  • FrankieG
    FrankieG Abingdon MD Posts: 9,100
    Nastasja wrote:
    FrankieG wrote:
    asshole roommate smoking weed in my bathroom ... when my RA can bust all of us for just being in the same apartment as him. wtf :twisted: not cool Kurt...

    can you all vote him out? I mean tell him that you all want him to move out? Or is that a one time thing?

    I don't know what the rules are..

    He isn't gonna leave without having my university make him move out. And the only way that will happen is if we tell my Resident Assistant. And if we tell the RA, then he will get arrested... :roll:

    :? ughz
    2003: 7/14 NJ ... 2006: 6/1 NJ, 6/3 NJ ... 2007: 8/5 IL ... 2008: 6/24 NY, 6/25 NY, 8/7 EV NJ ... 2009: 10/27 PA, 10/28 PA, 10/30 PA, 10/31 PA
    2010: 5/20 NY, 5/21 NY ... 2011: 6/21 EV NY, 9/3 WI, 9/4 WI ... 2012: 9/2 PA, 9/22 GA ... 2013: 10/18 NY, 10/19 NY, 10/21 PA, 10/22 PA, 10/27 MD
    2015: 9/23 NY, 9/26 NY ... 2016: 4/28 PA, 4/29 PA, 5/1 NY, 5/2 NY, 6/11 TN, 8/7 MA, 11/4 TOTD PA, 11/5 TOTD PA ... 2018: 8/10 WA
    2022: 9/14 NJ ... 2024: 5/28 WA, 9/7 PA, 9/9 PA ---- http://imgur.com/a/nk0s7
  • RYEzupSF
    RYEzupSF Posts: 6,003
    FrankieG wrote:
    Nastasja wrote:
    FrankieG wrote:
    asshole roommate smoking weed in my bathroom ... when my RA can bust all of us for just being in the same apartment as him. wtf :twisted: not cool Kurt...

    can you all vote him out? I mean tell him that you all want him to move out? Or is that a one time thing?

    I don't know what the rules are..

    He isn't gonna leave without having my university make him move out. And the only way that will happen is if we tell my Resident Assistant. And if we tell the RA, then he will get arrested... :roll:

    :? ughz

    Have you confronted him about it? Asked him not to smoke in the dorm? There are plenty of other places to smoke. If you don't want to go to the RA or have a big blow out with him you could ask him to use a doob tube- toilet paper roll with a dryer sheet fastened to the end. Blow smoke into the tube and it is filtered through the dryer sheet. He could even double the dryer sheet and put a bit of baking soda in between the sheets. As a third layer of protection he could hold a pillow on the end of the tube and the smoke will go into the pillow. If you still need to cover up the smell spray ozium. You can find it in the car air freshener section of walmart, target etc. ...ideally, he will respect you and your dorm mates and cease smoking in the bathroom, but if not, hopefully he will accommodate and use a few safeguards. Afterall, your request protects him too.
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  • AELARA
    AELARA Posts: 803
    I can't make up my mind whether to go to Thessaloniki for the weekend or not.. I know it will be fun but I feel kinda bored so I'm thinking of spending my weekend cocooning at home... :roll:
    I am mine!
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    Cyclone....................scared for everyone up north.
  • E.K
    E.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    Sagittarius Crux wrote:
    Cyclone....................scared for everyone up north.

    Ditto. So horrible. :(
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  • Chip McFlennigan
    Chip McFlennigan Posts: 1,162
    FrankieG wrote:
    asshole roommate smoking weed in my bathroom ... when my RA can bust all of us for just being in the same apartment as him. wtf :twisted: not cool Kurt...

    Fucking Kurt again? He always pulls this shit.
    I knew it all along, see?

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