Are you addicted to social media?

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  • West Chester, PA Posts: 43,156
    just facebook
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  • Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    Not necessarily social media, apart from this board (haven’t used fb in ages, no twitter or instagram) but I’m definitely on my phone too much. 
  • Columbia, SC Posts: 5,214
    I could do without Facebook, but I do love Instagram. I really don't care for people that overshare, and it seems that is mainly Facebook for me. There are some on Instagram that could share less, but it's not as bad as Facebook. I don't mind spending 20 minutes or so on Instagram looking at the suggested posts. I have Twitter, but don't really use it all that much.
  • Posts: 31,442
    edited September 2019
    No.

    But internetforums and wikipedia. I'm a trivia/knowledge junkie.

    Gonna try to exchange it for watching more movies and reading books. Maybe cuddle with cats.
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,650
    edited September 2019
    I'm not. I use it a fair bit, and I do admit to getting lost in Facebook for pretty long stretches during my own alone time when I have nothing better to do (I especially love the animal videos, like strays that were rescued, funny clips, etc, lol). But I am never ever even remotely tempted to take it out when I'm in the company of other people, no matter what the circumstances are, and I basically never even resort to it when I'm waiting in line and things like that either. I guess I just don't think of it as something that should be done in public or around other people. I would assume that means I'm not addicted? Nobody has or ever will have to say something like "put your damned phone away" to me. That said, I have noticed that I have trouble focusing on the TV without doing something with my phone... although it more often games that I'm distracted by, not social media. I guess it helps that the only social media I'm on is FB and this forum.
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  • Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 43,651
    Only sometimes when I am home, especially late at night. 

    But when I leave home, I'm free of it because I have no smart phone- I refuse to get one.  I don't want to be locked in that often, so getting out of the house gets me off the computer, out of the loop, into the real world so-to-speak. 
    "It's a sad and beautiful world"
    -Roberto Benigni











  • Reading news online is not social media.  I am totally not addicted.  I come here once in a while, check FB maybe once a month, if that.  I watched a program the other night on A&E about Digital Addiction, it included a story on a young 17 year old young boy addicted to video games and a woman I believe around 40 years old addicted to social media.  They were both abhorrent people before they got help.  They got help through rehab.  Digital rehab is as much needed as drug/alcohol rehab.  

    The boy was so violent, he had abused his younger sister, his parents, they were afraid of him. He threatened to kill his family.   He was totally out of control.  

    The woman lost her husband, her home, her children.

    It was mind blowing.  They both received help and seemed to be on the road to recovery. Before that, they were despicable human beings.  
    Don't come closer or I'll have to go
  • Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yep, I only use the icon badge for email and even that's annoying because it makes me want to open & clear it out.  I should probably just turn off email on my phone all together.  I never even look at most of it, just goes straight to the trash.  And GMail is the fucking worst!  Every god damn iteration of my name, I get ALL the emails.  (e.g. mine is "c.a.dyer@" but I'll get emails for cadyer, c-a-dyer, c.adyer, cady.er, etc because 15 years later Google still can't figure out how to differentiate character registers.)
    I have the same problem.
    I used to reply to say that the email was sent to the wrong address. Now I just delete.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • everybody knows this is nowhere Posts: 7,787
    I probably spend way too much time online. Hell I’m posting here right now when I should be working.

    I like Instagram and do I post every now and then, but I have never posted a photo of myself or my son. I tolerate FB because it keeps me in touch with friends and family on the other side of the world. But FB is a toxic place most of the time so I’ve cut back on a lot of stuff I used to follow. I think I still have a Twitter account but I’ve never posted and I’ve got no idea of the log in details anymore.
    “Do not postpone happiness”
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  • Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    The racist and homophobic comments on Facebook bring me down.
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  • Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Been on my phone all day :-(
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • None Of Your Business... Posts: 10,739
    I am.
    I spend all night and most of the day on my phone or laptop.
    It's quite sad.
    Struggling to break my addiction and it's getting in the way of doing other things like reading a book, watching television, doing something creative like painting and guitar playing.
    Get a job that occupies 8 hours of your day and you sleep 7-8 hours..that'ss a lot less social media time.
    Give Peas A Chance…
  • Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Or study full time again lol
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • None Of Your Business... Posts: 10,739
    Just curious, what do you do for money?  I mean your in 30's living with your folks.  You still need some money.  Please don't say they are giving you an allowance?  LOL
    Give Peas A Chance…
  • Posts: 12,243
    I only post my artwork on Instagram. I check other people's posts often.
    Part of wanting to keep Facebook is to post my artwork there in artists groups I'm in
    By your own admission, your addiction is preventing you from producing any new art work to share, which seems to be the point (or part of the point) of you remaining on FB. Set up parameters for when you go on FB (say, only once in the morning and once in the afternoon/evening), or set as a goal that you won't go on until you have a new piece of art to share. You can get news from other mediums, so don't use that as a justification for staying on. You have a choice.
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  • Posts: 13,576
    I grew up in Darke County Ohio.  There is an FB group called "Busted in Darke County" that is pure comedy gold.

    My old hometown has about 25,000 residents.  Drugs (meth, heroin, etc.) are prevalent and the admin of this group posts about everyone who gets taken to jail.  She will post mugshot, offense, etc.  Many times the family members, friends or the perp themselves will get on the FB post and argue with other posters.

    Great stuff.  I can't tell you how many times I've seen old high school classmates on there.  Unreal.
    Hahaha Tuscarawas County Ohio, here.
    Our version is called T-County's Finest.
    Sad comedy gold.

    It's actually T-County Finest because they got shut down for violent threats and had to drop the " 's " lol
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • Posts: 13,576
    I'm not addicted, but I use too much and I don't always use responsibly.
    I post angrily sometimes and I'm conditioned by years of novel reading to be entertained at all times, so when I haven't made it to the library I find myself scrolling too much.

    I live in the country without an internet connection, so my social media life is filtered through a spotty 3G connection. 
    It's hard to be addicted to something you don't have access to!
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • Posts: 24,524
    Thankfully, no.  Not a member of any online group save for here.  I just don't need (or want) it.

    Anyone who places their self-worth in the hands of strangers, whether it's via "likes", "followers", negative comments....DON'T.

    Yeah yeah, I know...easier said than done, for many.
  • JPPJ84 said:
    Not necessarily social media, apart from this board (haven’t used fb in ages, no twitter or instagram) but I’m definitely on my phone too much. 
    I think I'd fall into this category as well. I use social media apps, but no more than I use sports apps, look at old pictures, visit sites like this one, surf the web, and most of all, use YouTube. And it's not that I'm on it every waking second, or that I'm looking at my phone while someone is trying to have a conversation with me, or that I would rather be on it than do something fun and/or productive. But as I watch television, I'll be looking at something else on my phone. When I go out on my porch to have a cigarette, I bring my phone. Hate to admit it, but I can't tell you the last time I took a shit without bringing my phone in the bathroom with me. 
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